So, a few years back I decided to make this list because I saw a lot of AB/DL guys acting like dicks on DA, so I decided to repost it here since I’ve been seeing this kinda thing popping up in my dash alot lately.
1. DON’T do the “Question Dump”: this should be self explanatory. If you have never talked to this person before, don’t go to her page and ask her 20 thousand questions all at once. Actually get to know her long enough to get in conversations where you can ASK these questions on there own, not just dumping them on her page hoping she’ll respond with something you can use for your spank bank tonight. Which brings me to…
2. DON’T ask her personal questions: These include what her bodily functions are, what does she do in her diaper (for example, if she wets, messes, or both), her sexual preferences, if she’s dating anyone, where she lives, etc. Do you have any idea how creepy and weird and socially inept you look asking these things? Guess not, cause I keep seeing it happen. There is a time and place for these questions, and if it comes, ask. For example, if she ever DOES address using the bathroom in diapers, theres a forum for questioning of it. If she mentions it publicly, she will most likely be OK with answering a few questions (A FEW.)
3. DON’T ask her for pictures of herself/more pictures of herself: If she doesn’t post pictures of herself, don’t ask her to. At all. People enjoy there privacy, especially over the internet where they have no idea who they could be talking to. If she does post pictures, don’t ask her to put up more if she hasn’t done so in a long time. You have no right to tell her when she should post thing that, if found by her friends or family, could make her a social outcast. She is putting herself on the line to putting these pictures in the public view, the last thing she needs is some creeper asking her for more.
4. DON’T feel entitled about anything: this ties into the previous rule, but no matter what it is, drawings, chatting, or anything, DON’T act like she owes you anything. Socializing on the internet should be, like all socializing, a pass time. Something to do when there is nothing to be done. If she isn’t talking to you or she hasn’t posted a drawing in a while, that probably means she doesn’t have time to do so.
5. DON’T objectify her: Really people, she is a human being, not a sex doll. she doesn’t need to put up with you living perverted messages on her wall about all the things you would do to her if you were her “daddy”. What else can I say, it’s just rude, and if you have done this, you should know better if you have the base level of intelligence to know how to work a keyboard and make a profile on a website, because that indicates that you have some common sense.
That’s all I gotta say on the subject.
yousharknotpass
jbbartram-illu
blakekathryn
stormborns
2087
izzy806
