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Philautia is a word that is not commonly heard of,

But its meaning is something we already know of,

A love for you, by you, and only you,

A love that is simple yet hard to construe.

Hundreds of poems and songs say you’re worth it,

But it won’t mean a thing if you don’t believe it,

They say, ‘love yourself before you love another’,

But most would realize it’s easier to love a stranger.

Philautia tells you to love your imperfections,

To recognize your strength and your limitations,

Some may call it vanity while others will call it pride,

Yet there’s more harm than good if you hadn’t tried.

The first step to Philautia isn’t hard to do,

Just look in the mirror and say, ‘looking good, sexy you’,

It may sound deceitful and it may sound silly,

But a lie said enough will become a reality.

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This love is unique and quite curious,

But it is not as complicated nor is it mysterious,

Some call it ‘puppy love’ while others call it crush,

A love that leaves you breathless and makes you blush.

Some may ask, ‘isn’t that Eros?’

To which I reply, ‘not even close’,

For Ludus is a love that is full of flirtation,

Of teasing and laughter and strong admiration.

A love that sparks in both old and young,

A love that isn’t known yet commonly sung,

Like ice-creams in the summer and rides in the carnival,

It is happiness given form: a joy’s marvel.

Ludus brings laughter and opens the heart,

But too much may make you break apart,

Moderation is key, a reminder to hold on to,

Keep these words to heart and your love will stay true.

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Ah, now this is a love that is known as unconditional,

A love that is quite possibly the most exceptional,

Agape knows no color, gender or power,

It blooms beautifully like a single flower.

Some say it is love for the power that be,

But it is also love for the people you see,

Strangers you walk by and beggars you smile to,

As well as the enemy that stood before you.

A selfless and one-sided love with nothing to gain,

A small sanctuary from the heavy rain,

It sees your failure and celebrates your success,

It knows your flaws and love you nonetheless.

To you who love all without a single doubt,

I thank you fervently from the bottom of my heart,

For if you can love amidst the hate and destruction,

Then surely you deserve a returned affection.

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Seven types of love introduced by the Greek,

Seven types of love for each of us to seek,

A journey that starts in curiosity and wonder,

A journey that might end with smiles and a laughter.

The first is fiery and a symbol of passion,

Eros is its name without a single question,

Romance is its language full of colorful prose,

But beware of the threat Eros could pose.

It starts with infatuation and physical attraction,

It continues with desire and a heartfelt confession,

But Eros that is not properly received,

May turn into Mania, into something possessive.

But Eros that is loved and treasured properly,

Will be a gift to you both for all eternity,

So love and be loved and take the big leap,

But be warned of the dangers that hide in the deep.

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CHAPTER 1: WELCOME!

Welcome! Welcome! I bid you well,

To you my dear readers, my first-time pal,

You may have a lover or you may have not,

Or you may have already tied the knot,

Ladies, gentlemen, girls and boys,

I thank your purchase and applaud your choice,

What made you pick me I can’t help but wonder,

Perhaps curiosity for our subject of matter?

Love is well-known by you and me,

But did you know love has more types than three?

Eros and Agape are the most well-known two,

Yet did you know of Ludus and Philautia too?

Wonder no further for the knowledge you seek,

Does not hide itself on the highest peak,

A flick of a wrist and a puff of your breath,

Will answer your question so sliiide to the left!

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The stars, planets and chakras were so aligned that day I can't even