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This is useful advice. Keeping him horny... and then denying him. The ignoring him part is absolutely the worst thing you can do, and yet it feels appropriate as a punishment sometimes, yet it never works. It just immediately builds resentment.

Which means that I, as the keyholder, have work to do. It doesn't have to be a lot, but each day I give him a little feminine energy, a little tease, a little tit, a little ass, so to speak.

That is really what this seems to be about. Feminine energy. He wants it, needs it, and if you keep him from cumming, he has a delightful ache and frustration that is energy, good good energy, and he uses it like a younger man, trying to please you, to get you in bed. He's courting you, and that's a fantastic place to be. He likes that, and actually doesn't want to cum, because all the fun goes away. For both of you.