remy, they/zie, 24. a misc nsfw & kink blog. i'm t4t, enby4enby, and attracted to all genders. boygirl with self-made tits. i'm taken romantically. i'm primarily a dom and i will be expressing that shamelessly, if you can handle someone wanting to be hit you can handle someone wanting to hit them.
i'm good with titles, even gendered ones, just alternate and get fun w/ it, yeah? i really like mistress or your highness, though if you wanna get me good.
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likes:
mean domming (duh), pillow prince(ss) content, chastity and denial, lots of different types of edge play, impact play, knife play, bondage, forcefem & forcemasc, anal & anal training, rimming, accidental stimulation, agalmatophilia, public sex, high heels (wearing), gynemimetophilia/"trapping," bathroom control, body worship, nullo, clothed sex, collaring, somno, crying/tears, intox, humiliation, pet play
dislikes:
scat, misgendering/detrans, anonymous sex, needle play or really any sharp object but knives, bimbofication, tickling, rough cnc, dom breaking
neutral to most other things but i'll update as i think of stuff
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what if everyone in the world could be nice to dominants and sadists and appreciate how beautiful, necessary, and explicitly prosocial their roles are in our communities
dominants and sadists deserve more than to just be tolerated as necessary evils, or as red flags you can only conditionally trust as long as they do exactly what you want when you want without ever challenging you or asking for anything more. when you treat dominants and sadists this way you're opening the door for their sexual abuse by you btw.
and selfishly, I want people to understand and appreciate the amount of prosocial effort it takes to be a dominant or sadist. you do not fulfill these roles just by "giving in" to some kind of innate, unthinking predatory nature. you fulfill these roles through the same kind of social etiquette, emotional maturity, and hard work that anyone else in any other kind of social role devotes to their actions.
Although I've blamed my social difficulties for the root of my sadistic desires, my low empathy &etc do not make it easier for me to actually act out on these desires, they make it much harder. when I execute a successful scene in which I'm the dom or sadist, that success isn't through blind luck, through my partner's efforts alone, or through me being kept on a (metaphorical) short leash to keep my nature in check. when there is success it is through both me and my partner's efforts to, as a team, communicate our mutual needs and act them out in a way we both find mutually beneficial and fun.
do people who aren't doms or sadists understand how much effort, time, and practice it takes to even begin acting out the things we fantasize about. it's an extremely vulnerable and dangerous position to be in. to be put in charge of someone else's safety like that. to spend time researching how to do things safely, and trusting your own knowledge on the matter even during a heated or high-emotion moment. to trust your partner to communicate with you clearly and maturely when you check in with them, trying to assess if you're doing things at the correct level of intensity, not pushing things too far but not being too soft either. trusting your partner not to report you to the cops (or accuse you socially) if they feel regretful about the sex later. trust that your own boundaries and needs will be respected, and you won't be treated as just a scary sex toy. having first aid kits on hand, knowing what to do in an emergency. and all the socialized self-loathing you feel as part of the supposed "predator" class.
your partner can say a hundred times that they want what they want, and you'll want it too, but you need to consciously push past everything you've been taught your whole life to convince yourself it's ok and conditionally allowed. even if the fantasies and desires come naturally, the actions don't always, not in my experience at least.
imho it's much harder than being a sub, where (as unhealthy as it is) you can avoid the cognitive dissonance by playing into your passivity and denying responsibility in your own mind. as a dom you can't deny responsibility. in order to take any action at all you need to first actively untangle the dissonance to discard of your ingrained biases. it's hard.
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thinking about forced or coerced exhibitionism again... being groped or shown off in public without getting a say... being teased about how wet I get despite my horror and embarrassment... them getting more daring the more I get whiny and needy...
ok but how am i supposed to be normal now that i thought about making you fuck my thighs while i tease you? telling you about how i want you to cum all over me and how i know you'd rather fuck my cunt but awe. you don't deserve that yet, love <3
genuine challenge for writers on trans nsft i am not joking: write a post about a dom/me with a small dick (estrogenized, testosterone, intersex, can't get hard, etc) topping someone WITHOUT describing their dick as "cute," "pathetic," "adorable," "useless," "impotent," or any other degrading, demeaning, infantilizing, or otherwise implying of it being less attractive or capable of topping than a big dick, and WITHOUT comparing it to big dicks. don't say or imply that the top is good at dom/ming and topping "despite" their body, write it as a plus. use words like hot, sexy, perfect, even "bitchbreaker" if you're into that to describe the top's small cock, talk about how good it feels for the bottom and how much they crave it and then love feeling it inside them.
don't include the use of a silicone dick or strap that imitates supremacist standard penises, don't default to fingering, just have them top with their fucking dick and have the bottom ENJOY it. and for the love of gd no "sph" or chastity cage. genuinely please write this, if you're a bottom, if you're a top even if YOU have a big dick, if you don't do either. if you're someone who likes or wants to write erotica, make me and thousands of other transmasc dysphoric, transfem w shrinkage, intersex, etc dom/me tops happy by trying this out. use this post by my headmate and/or this post by my girlfriend as examples, if you need
challenging size supremacy (and make no joke, this is vital. it is eugenicist. doctors operate on infants who have penises that don't meet their standards, people have ended their lives over this, i do not know what else people need to hear to start giving a shit and doing better) starts with us. it starts one post at a time, one compliment at a time, one shutting down eugenicist "jokes" at a time, one challenging our internal perceptions of attractiveness and what "good sex" is at a time, one asking tops w nonstandard dicks what we actually want and then GIVING it at a time. we have the power to counter the endless negativity and excruciating emotional pain it has caused me and my loved ones and many others, but we have to step up and actually do it.
(if you write a post like this and tag me or dm it to me ill reblog it! rbs of this post welcome and encouraged)
i really want a woman to top me with her soft cock. i want to feel her beautiful body pressed up against mine, her soft stomach squished into mine, or flipped around with her big feminine belly on my lower back and her tits pressed against the top of it. her warm ragged breath in my neck, her grinding against my ass until her cock is leaking and the air smells like pussy from it thanks to estrogen. i want her to flip me over and put her hands all over my body, to run them up and down my chest, i want her to kiss my neck as i run my hands back all over her body, spread my legs for her.
i want her to pull my boxers off, i want her to show me how good her ass looks in the panties she's wearing before pulling them off. i want to keep getting distracted by how fucking beautiful she is, her pretty big nose and gorgeous eyes and messy hair and stunning smile, unable to decide between looking at her face beaming sunshine and her curves, her tummy, her pretty shoulders, her tits, her perfect hips, her gorgeous soft cock. i want her to gently hold my thighs open and position herself to push into me as much as she's able.
i want her to tease my hole by just barely brushing the tip against my entrance until i'm moaning and begging and thrashing as much as i can under her firm hands keeping my thighs pressed open and i want her to finally relent and fuck me. i want to take her soft cock into myself, feel the warmth of her pretty dick, feel how much pre she's leaking into me, feel her heartbeat in her cock. i want to wrap my arms around her back and pull her into me and feel her tits on my chest and her mouth on my neck and her bush pressing against my sensitive cock and her soft cock in my hole and only be able to cry out "you're so pretty, fuck you're pretty, i love you, i love you, i love you" overwhelmed with pleasure and attraction and love while the most beautiful woman in the world fucks me
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what's the like succinct way to communicate that i have a fetish for being the bored one in the bored thighjob. whats that called, how would i look it up on a porn site
worship is like a Part of it but its not the whole thing, being called goddess or any honorific like that is kind of gross to me tbh. like yes im the refined plush object of desire checking my nails and youre the boorish desire driven perv but like this is a simple reality, it doesnt need to be propped up by placing me on a pedestal, im already there.
getting mega frustrating terf comments on my post and it's maddening bc they're flat out just wrong + stupid. they utterly refuse to do ANY research and spread complete misinformation about vaginoplasty as a way of trying to fearmonger and judge you out of getting one. so im gonna make a post about it.
THEY'RE LYING! VAGINOPLASTY IS NOT AN ""OPEN WOUND"". it is a real sexual organ. dilation is completely normal and was invented for cis women first anyways- a ton of them have to do it, it's no different just because it's happening to a neovagina. vaginoplasty is a very well-researched surgery that has been done over and over and improved like crazy over many many years. there are even multiple ways to do it now, using several different types of tissue for the creation of the vaginal canal if you want one. anyone seeking vaginoplasty, your vagina will be just that! a vagina! a very real, beautiful, working body part! the body is an amazing thing in that it will accept this new body part and figure out how to take care of it like any other. isn't that so cool? isn't it amazing how adaptable the body is, that it can just learn how to work with new parts like that? i promise you, your vagina will be real, it will work like any other vagina, and it is a very beautiful thing. the fearmongering around bottom surgeries has to stop.
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when i post about being attracted to trans women, im not thinking of this mythical ideal about a perfect anime proportioned woman who also has a fully functioning girlcock who feels no dysphoria about using it, because thats not what most t girls are like in real life. if your gonna come online and flirt with trans girls and talk about wanting to fuck trans girls, you have to open to every single way womanhood is expressed, even if it doesn't fit in your traditional idea of what makes someone really a girl.
Im here for the girls who are pre transition. for the girls who feel like they dont pass. for the girls who really don't pass but deserved to be treated like the women they really are. For the eggs that are begging for someone to crack their shell and let them be girls. For the women who feel like theyll never transition, never come out. For the ones who are trapped in bad environments where its not safe for them to transition. For the girls on e who cant get hard. for the girls with more body hair then theyd like. for the fat tgirls. for the scrawny ones. for the girls who are taller than me. for the girls working in customer service who get misgendered every single day of their lives. for the girls who are completely transitioned and stealth, who have lived more of their lives as women then ive been alive. for the girls who feel fully butch and love it, who are completely out but didnt change anything cosmetically. for the girls who have anime pfps. for the girls who are nervous about starting e. for the girls whove known exactly what they are their whole lives, for the girls who still arent sure. im here for the girls with bald patches, for the girls with facial hair. Im here for the girls who are too dysphoric to have sex. for the girls who pass completely. for every single way a trans girl presents, for every single body type.
what makes trans girls sexy isn't just the idea of "oh its a girl with a cock" (even tho thats awesome), its the fact that there are these women who have had to carve out their own space in womanhood, to take themselves and their lives and mold it how they need regardless of the world around them. every woman alive deserves to have a sexual experience that makes them feel seen as they are and understood.
(as someone whos trans irl this is something i really care about. im not trying to white night i promise)
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