I have one of the most sensitive gag reflexes of anyone I know. Seriously. I gag when I cough because it’s so sensitive. But I blow well. For example, the past two guys I’ve slept with have been unable to get off from any other BJ before mine, some previous BJs lasting over 40 minutes, and they both were popping in under two minutes. This is not to brag about my natural gifts, but to help all you girls who have felt shitty because your gag reflexes aren’t up to the task. You can do it.
1. HANDS
Your hand use is everything. You only have to take them as deep as you can (for me that’s only about an inch or two past the head usually) and then work the rest. Some guys complain about this feeling more like a handjob. However, if you wet his entire dick with spit and keep your lips touching the top of your hand the whole time, then they’ll hardly know the difference.
2. TONGUE
If you’re like me, sticking your tongue farther out makes the reflex worse. However, one of the quickest ways I’ve found to make guys pop is to work the underside of the head with your tongue. When you’re doing that, don’t try to go any lower that the end of the head. Switch between doing that and keeping your tongue back so you can go farther.
3.STOP BEFORE YOU GAG
Even if your guy says he’s into it, don’t. Because once you gag once, it’s way easier to keep gagging, and then things go really down hill. Just go until you know you can’t anymore and then pull off and lick up and down.
4. PERINEUM AND BALLS
Some guys are weird about the perineum (the area between the balls and the asshole) but if he’s cool with it, USE IT. Press gentle circles there and you may even end up stimulating the prostate from the outside. Personally, every guy I’ve slept with has not been into assplay, but if yours is, definitely use that. Also, the balls are great to play with and take in your mouth when you need a break. Be very gentle, though.
5. SWALLOWING
I personally swallow but you should absolutely not feel obligated to. It’s been messing with my stomach recently so I may even have to stop. I would avoid spitting if you have a sensitive gag reflex because that can activate it more than swallowing. Otherwise just pull off so he can’t cum in your mouth. It’s not ideal but if you keep using your hand it’ll be just fine. Make sure he warns you if he is going to cum in your mouth, because surprises up the chance of gagging. Drink something acidic afterwards to help your stomach and the taste (think soda or orange juice).
6. SAYING NO AND BEING SAFE
Honestly I’m really sick of seeing other hoe tips shitting on those who don’t want to do certain things. There’s nothing wrong with you if you still don’t want to. Sexual liberation is important but people setting their own boundaries is even more so. If you aren’t comfortable with something, don’t do it. Don’t be embarrassed to only like missionary vanilla sex or whatever. NEVER let anyone shame you for drawing the line with what you are okay with. Make sure he’s tested and you’re tested before you blow with out a condom. I love you and be safe 💕
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