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but PLEASE analyse your bias and why you prefer pan over bi. because it feels more inclusive? biphobia. because you feel like bisexuality comes w baggage? biphobia. because bi means two and pan means all? biphobia. because you think pan is the new bi and bi is outdated? guess what. biphobia.

bi has always been what pan claims to be. they are the same identity. they are 100% the same and every argument that ive seen trying to separate them has been either wildly biphobic, transphobic or a mix of the two. theyre the same. if you call yourself pan and dont acknowledge that they are the same, you are a biphobe.

some people consider panromantic to mean attraction to all genders with no preference, but I identify as bi even if I'd fit the definition pan supposedly has better

I am comfortable with the term biromantic/bisexual, so that's what I call myself, and sometimes I may use other multisexual terms, but this is the one I am ultimately comfy with

no ones personal comfort with "well i just dont see gender!" or "bi means you like different things about different genders!" is more valid or valuable when its rooted in biphobia.

they dont look exactly the same, they ARE the same and to try and act like theyre different enough to warrant a whole new category is contributing to biphobia, the idea that bisexuals have to fit a specific definition of attraction and a specific way of feeling it.

pansexuality pushes the idea that bisexuals feel attraction in a shallow or incorrect way, that we're gender obsessed or that we couldnt possibly love the PERSON, not the gender, and it throws other people under the bus too! gay ppl and lesbians love the Person, not just the gender.

like... above all, are these labels necessary? do they serve any real purpose as an identifier beyond separating ones self from bisexuality? "pansexuality is valid!" but is it Useful? does it fill a gap? no, because bisexuality has always been there. it has always been what pansexual has claimed to be.

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