I feel like most depictions of men’s sexuality in media is the man fully clothed and desiring a conventionally attractive half naked woman, and him deriving pleasure by being attracted to her. While a lot of depictions of women’s sexuality in media is, the woman half naked and conventionally attractive and being desired by a fully clothed man, and her deriving pleasure from being desired. And I get that it’s really, really hard not to internalize that. But we can and should at least start by acknowledging that there’s this difference in how men’s sexuality is often portrayed as desiring others while women’s sexuality is often portrayed as being desirable, and talk about the ways we internalize that and it affects us. When you talk about a woman ‘embracing’ her sexuality, whose sexual desire is she really embracing, her own desire? Or the desire of men?