‧˚꒰ bunni ୭ ˚. ᵎᵎ

♡ INTRO ‧₊˚♪

bunni ⋮ 16 ⋮ she/they ⋮ white reality shifter ⋮ loa ⋮ est

hi!! welcome to my second blog ♡ i restarted because i wanted a fresh little corner of the internet that felt more like me. this blog is basically my online diary, where i post about shifting, scripting, memes, little life updates, and whatever happens to be on my mind.

♡ disclaimer .ᐟ

i'm not a shifting or loa coach, i'm just sharing what works for me and documenting my own journey. everyone's experiences are different, so please keep that in mind when asking questions! my asks are always open. ♡

♡ interests ₊˚♪

coffee ⟡ baking ⟡ reading ⟡ pinterest ⟡ cute games ⟡ journaling ⟡ collecting little things ⟡ anime ⟡ music

♡ current drs 𝜗𝜚

♪ mha dr ♪ waiting room ♪ better cr ♪ kimi ni todoke dr ♪ bunny dr ♪ stardew valley dr ♪ dragon prince dr ♪ mermaid dr ♪ girl group dr

♡ before you follow

dni racists, homophobes, transphobes, pro trump, pro Israel, anti shifters, and race changers.

i'm very selective about sharing katsuki bakugou from mha, so if he's your s/o i'll probably keep my distance to protect my own comfort.

i love making new shifter friends, so don't be afraid to send an ask or message if you'd like to chat! ૮ ˶ᵔ ᵕ ᵔ˶ ა pinterest ⋮ spotify

just a disclaimer before i start: this is all based on my experience. everyone's journey is different, so take what resonates and leave what doesn't. ♡

♡ i stopped looking for the "right" way to shift.

for a while i was constantly changing methods because i'd see someone say, "this is what finally made me shift!" then a few days later i'd see someone say the complete opposite 😭

eventually i realized i was spending more time trying to copy other people than actually listening to myself.

♡ i stopped putting so much pressure on every attempt.

i used to wake up and immediately decide whether the night was a success or a failure.

now i don't really think about it like that anymore. even if i don't shift, i still spent time thinking about my dr, relaxing, or doing something i enjoy. that doesn't feel wasted to me.

♡ i let myself have fun with it.

making pinterest boards, finding songs that remind me of my dr, adding random little details to my script...

none of that makes me shift, but it makes the whole journey so much more enjoyable. i don't want shifting to feel like homework.

♡ i stopped believing every post i read.

there's so much advice online, and honestly, a lot of it contradicts itself.

once i stopped feeling like i had to follow every "rule" i saw, i felt a lot more confident in my own journey.

♡ i gave myself a little more grace.

there were so many times i convinced myself i wasn't doing enough.

looking back, i was just being way too hard on myself.

it's okay to take breaks. it's okay to switch things up. it's okay to have nights where you don't even try.

none of that means you're doing anything wrong.

i feel like a lot of us accidentally make shifting feel way more complicated than it has to be.

i've definitely been there. i'd scroll through post after post looking for the method, the affirmation, or the mindset that was finally going to make everything click. every time i saw someone say, "this is what made me shift," i'd immediately think i had to do that too.

and honestly? it just made me stressed.

at some point i realized i was spending more time worrying about whether i was "doing shifting right" than actually enjoying my journey.

you don't have to copy someone else's routine because it worked for them.

you don't have to force yourself to use a method you hate.

you don't have to feel guilty for taking a break, changing your script for the hundredth time, or doing things differently.

take advice if it helps you, ignore it if it doesn't.

i think people forget that we're all different. what helps one person might not help another, and that's completely okay.

your journey doesn't have to look exactly like anyone else's to be real or meaningful.

i know it's easier said than done, but trust yourself a little more. you probably know what works for you better than you think you do.