Magic.

“The thief, as will become apparent, was a special type of thief. This thief was an artist of theft. Other thieves merely stole everything that was not nailed down, but this thief stole the nails as well.”

Dragon Age OC

14 years rp experience, 4 in english, and 2-3 on tumblr

Mun rarely bites

Open to any kind of rp

Or any length

Gladly rps AUs!

Crossover friendly

Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.

Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.

Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.

Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.

Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.

Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,

Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.

Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.

Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.

Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.

Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.

Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.

Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.

Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.

Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.

I realise that’s harsh, and I certainly don’t have all the answers, but I am very familiar with that kind of reaction.  Wallowing in the truth does nothing— get away from the people you could (or do) hurt unless you are willing to consciously, genuinely pinpoint what you are doing wrong and what you are going to do about it, and be open/receptive to criticism. Just accepting that it’s unchangeable is weak and shitty AND using it to guilt others into sympathy is viciously manipulative. 

I mean— thank you, to anyone who has used this post as an excuse to mopily admit to their bad behaviour, because it lets me know that you are not using this post as a learning tool but rather to perpetuate the same unacceptable patterns.  Please just— if you understand it is an issue, if you are honestly cognisant of it, work to change it. 

Having grown up in a household that creates/nurtures this, and befriended people for whom this is normal, I too have dealt it to others.  That’s awful.   It sucks, it really sucks to realise that you have made some harmful mistakes.  I can’t take it back, but I can work hard to ensure it never ever happens again, and have the knowledge that it’s not how things have to be and I’m not tied down to anything that happened in the past.  It’s NOT set in stone.  You don’t have to be a willing participant in your own reprehensible behaviour— have the decency to consider how you might be diminishing the well-being of others, be honest about it and give yourself space from who you’ve hurt.  Don’t settle for being an abuser.

Your beliefs become your thoughts,  Your thoughts become your words,  Your words become your actions,  Your actions become your habits,  Your habits become your values,  Your values become your destiny.

                                          Yofiel Hawke                                                Mage                                           Sassassin                                       slaying with sass                                     and an ass to die for

Indie Dragon Age II RP Blog for fem!Hawke

Open to OCs, Crossovers, AUs, Crack, NSFW and all that

Mun is 21+

Small icon rp to novella rp possible, I hate to be forced matching a certain length though, sometimes I write a lot, sometimes not

Game, irl and anime icons, prefer to use the game ones or none though

Not open to fandom wank and drama etc

Make fake Facebook chat messages [x]

Make fake Twitter DMs [x]

Make fake Y!A Questions [x]

Make fake iPhones texts [x]

Make fake Snapchats [x]

          And in his impurities he shows; shuddering with the tightened touch of his tail, the sensitive appendage flickering and releasing Kage’s hand from it’s hold. Both of his hands move from the mans chest to find the floor, fingers splaying and gripping the carpet underneath. Senses are simply left to the dogs when such a sensitive spot is handled this way.

            Elias began to chuckle, the corner of his mouth twitching oddly. “If you’d l-like me to stay…I’d watch the tail…” There’s not a single reason for Eli to turn point and leave, especially not for such a silly reason. No one else would have the capacity to deal with his ever changing moods and he’s more than one hundred percent sure the majority of humans are terrified of the whole spider thing.

        And the assassin's features were again adorned with the admiring gaze he so often had for Eli. Admiring but at the same time like a predator, watching it's prey. Forgotten was the former weakness, the way his heart had been touched, when the younger touched much less noble needs now.

       ❝I still haven't punished you.. have I?❞ his voice a dark purr, and with one smooth movement, like a panther, he had changed their positions, him kneeling over Eli, his hands beside his head, his hips between the boy's thighs and pressing their clothes groins against each other.

       ❝I am certain you'll like it.. in a way..❞ he spoke directly into Eli's ear, before biting into it, tongue running over the edge, grinding between his legs.

Your beliefs become your thoughts,  Your thoughts become your words,  Your words become your actions,  Your actions become your habits,  Your habits become your values,  Your values become your destiny.

                                          Yofiel Hawke                                                Mage                                           Sassassin                                       slaying with sass                                     and an ass to die for

Indie Dragon Age II RP Blog for fem!Hawke

Open to OCs, Crossovers, AUs, Crack, NSFW and all that

Mun is 21+

Small icon rp to novella rp possible, I hate to be forced matching a certain length though, sometimes I write a lot, sometimes not

Game, irl and anime icons, prefer to use the game ones or none though

Not open to fandom wank and drama etc

Your beliefs become your thoughts,  Your thoughts become your words,  Your words become your actions,  Your actions become your habits,  Your habits become your values,  Your values become your destiny.

                                          Yofiel Hawke                                                Mage                                           Sassassin                                       slaying with sass                                     and an ass to die for

Indie Dragon Age II RP Blog for fem!Hawke

Open to OCs, Crossovers, AUs, Crack, NSFW and all that

Mun is 21+

Small icon rp to novella rp possible, I hate to be forced matching a certain length though, sometimes I write a lot, sometimes not

Game, irl and anime icons, prefer to use the game ones or none though

Not open to fandom wank and drama etc

"Have you ever ‘licked a lampost in winter’?”

"Now, let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?"

"Oh no, big templar man! What are you going to do with that sword?"

"A fine tactic. Provided it actually kills them and you don’t end up having to deal with flaming undead."

"Now that we’ve talked about tying me up in that context, do we have any extra rope about?"

"Yes… Swooping is bad.."

"Maybe tied to a flagpole and tickled."

"Such manners! Always in the last place you look. Like stockings."

"Here I thought we were getting along so well! I was even going to name one of my children after you - the grumpy one!"

"I know the Chantry says you dream about your babies and the good Fade spirits take them out of the Fade and leave them in your arms…but that’s not true. Actually what happens is that when a girl and a boy really love each other."

"Of course the mages would choose to imprison themselves in a structure shaped like a giant phallus."

"One, two, Maric’s run through. Three, four, the kingdom’s at war. Eight, nine, now you die!"

"Yes, absolutely. I’m trying to trick you. Is it working? Aw, I just about had you, didn’t I?"

"You’re… some kind of… sneaky… witch thief!"