Suburban Necromancer

Like imagine crying on the couch and you hear his thunderous, big body SUV built ass footsteps approach you.

"Baby, what's wrong," he says tenderly as he rubs your shoulder.

You look up to explain how bad your day was with tears in your eyes and you fucking see this:

There’s not a lot of treatments, and there isn’t a single one that is for vaginismus exclusively - they’re all medications or treatments to treat symptoms, but not the causes. In fact, for a long time doctors waved off vaginismus as a purely psychological disorder in cis women.

It’s incredibly common! And it can be treated by physiotherapy.

I know this because I’m currently undergoing physio and although it can take months to recover, I’m already seeing improvement. A lot of the pelvic floor exercises are available online, but if you have these symptoms please TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR and see if you can get a physio referral (or investigation for underlying causes like endometriosis).

Also, my additions to posts never get reblogged so a note to my followers: this is SUPER IMPORTANT ISSUE that affects many people and is rarely talked about. Please reblog, and please share this info with as many people as possible.

Inserts are relatively cheap and available on Amazon. It’s made my sex life some much better.

no i don't. cheers

BIODOME MONTHLY: Rockfight Special Issue!!

Interview passage: conducted by our lovely journalist Thoth.

When I was contacted about the news that Harvey and Colbert were teaming up once again on a new project, I couldn’t help myself but to try and land an interview with the two.

Of course, this is no easy task, these two are the ultimate chatter duo. But I don’t stop until I get the job done.

T: Thank you for joining us today, how was your trip down?

C: Pleasant.

H: Pretty good. New technology advances wow me everyday here. The trip was pretty fast for what it used to be. I didn’t even know you could get alcohol in the back of a vehicle!

Colbert glares at Harvey, before slightly turning back.

C: Yes, everything seems to be on an upward trajectory, technology wise.

T: I’m just going to start off with the question everybody is asking; What brought you to hosting Rockfight?

H: Oh boy, well. We both loved the idea of the contest. I rather liked the idea of Erid voting for Erid’s Best Rock.

C: I liked the idea of fighting.

H: When we heard it was looking for the possibility of a deal to get onto a network, we both knew we wanted it to be our own!

T: You both seem to be very passionate about this next big thing. Now, what can we expect out of this new era of the contest?

H: Lots of lights for the savior, lots of cameras, lots of action. You know us, we like to dazzle up all of our airtime.

C: That’s mostly you, Harvey.

T: Oh, dazzle up for sure. Anything that we as viewers can be looking forward to?

H: New contestants, that’s obvious. Possibly some bonus rounds, wink wink.

C: Also some new technical details. We’re changing up the way it’s filmed in a couple ways. Tweaking the camera angles, backdrops, etcetera. It’ll be different than the other shows.

T: Speaking of, before we finish I have to ask you about the other shows. How have they been going? Especially since the viewership increases in the past few months?

H: The viewership increase is very exciting. Again, technological advances are amazing. The shows are doing great, it’s always fun to get up there and get paid for just having a blast on a stage.

C: My own shows are great as well. The network loves the nightly television.

H: Savior Grace really brought more blessings over than just the… 🎵🎶, what was it? Tomeba?

C: Taumoeba.

H: There it is.

T: That’s wonderful to hear. It’s always fun to get you two in here and talk.

H: Same to you, Thoth.

Patriarchal Misogyny: Men and Women are fundamentally different for reasons beyond one's control, and given this, each end of this strict binary are and should remain beholden to different and distinct presentations and expectations. The two are and should remain physically and socially distinct and defined despite natural expressions which indicate this is an artificial standard imposed by society. Obviously men are just naturally suited to being good leaders and women are naturally suited to be subservient caregivers. At the end of the day, it is every man's responsibility to be a good and fair caretaker to women. This is a traditional position passed down by my noble ancestors and is as such an honorable and chivalrous stance.

Progressive Feminism: Men and Women are two ends of a human spectrum but are not fundamentally different as people. We share the same potential, the same depth, the same capacity for good and evil and kindness and caring and cruelty, with broad enough overlap in physical structure and ability that dividing the two into a strict and disparate binary in all physical arenas makes very little sense. Obviously men and women are raised with seperate roles in our patriarchal society, and men at large are statistically more likely to be aggressive and women are statistically more likely to be the victim of violent and sexual crimes, but this does not reflect a strict rule that can be applied to each individual one encounters nor an immutable fact of character. At the end of the day, each individual has the capacity and responsibility to be a good and fair person. This is a movement which was developed by an oppressed class to obtain normal and unexceptional human rights already afforded to half of our existing society and is therefore a reasonable stance.

Radical Feminism: Men and Women are fundamentally different for reasons beyond one's control, and given this, each end of this strict binary are programmed to think and perform to different and distinct presentations and expectations. The two are physically and socially distinct and defined despite natural expressions which indicate this is an artificial standard imposed by society. Obviously men are wholesale trained and socialized from birth to oppress and prey on women, so it is safe to assume that and transgression is either malicious or an inescapable truth of man's nature. At the end of the day, men as a whole area statistically more likely than women to be physically or sexually violent, and so each individual man is individually more violent or sexually aggressive than any given woman. The definition for "man" and "woman" in this case includes Trans Men and is therefore a ~progressive~ stance.

Do you hate traffic? Yeah. It’s because of all the cars.

Do you hate noise? Yeah. It’s because of all the cars.

Do you hate so many people under the age of 30 dying? Yeah. It’s because of all the cars.

malgendering is a form of transphobia wherein a transphobic person uses their victim's correct gender to harass or demean them. it is meant to be the inverse of misgendering, where a transphobe uses the victim's incorrect gender to harass or demean them.

misgendering towards trans women can be as simple as "youre a man." but malgendering is more insidious, like someone saying "you really are a girl" when she makes a mistake in order to insult her intelligence. the phrase "you really are a girl" is positive when removed from the context of the trans woman making a mistake and the transphobe's sarcastic tone that implies shes stupid in an misogynistic way.

if a trans man does something like standing up for himself against an unfair situation or asks for better accommodations/treatment, and a transphobe wants to use that to imply he is selfish and entitled, they might say "trans men really are men" which again, is a true statement on its own. but in the context of the situation, its clear the transphobe is using the stereotypical worst qualities of men to insult and undermine someone's very identity.

malgendering can be any severity of harm, just like misgendering. my mom slipping up in the first months of my transition and accidentally calling me "she", and a bigot shouting "YOURE A WOMAN YOULL NEVER BE A MAN" at me are both examples of misgendering, but one is much worse than the other and its the same with malgendering. being told "trans men are the men of the trans community" as an insult is annoying and rude but not a big deal. however, right now ICE is torturing trans men in concentration camps by forcing them to do pointless and grueling labor. and when they become exhausted, theyre told "I thought you were a man. if youre really a man this should be easy for you" these are both examples of malgendering. one is a microaggression, the other is literal torture.