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I was reading the Wikipedia list of notable + ironic last words and the two most recent entries are so heartening

Not to be all "the children have forgotten the sacred texts!" but I just saw someone refer to a ship between two people who are good friends in canon as a crackship.

Three things:

bonus: some screenshots of our discord conversation about it

In case anyone was wondering how much “a lot” is:

affirmations when opening a stuck jar:

personally I’m not a fan of the Secret Third ThingTM that seems to be a popular concept in fandom lately cuz to me it feels like it devalues and demotes the vast weirdness and intensity possible in a “regular”-ass friendship (or romantic relationship, or whatever), by going well we need a whole separate category cuz this relationship is More Special And Important. except ppl are applying it to all of their fave pairings. like idk maybe it’s that every relationship is unique? that we find complex personalities and dynamics more compelling? to me using Secret Third Thing as a category unto itself kinda smacks of the ole relationship hierarchization/amatonormativity where the Best type of relationship gets crowned as Peak. but that’s just me.jpg.