new maps of heck

I have decided to reblog this

Oh shut the fuk up

I really did just bring my tumblr back from a 3 year death to blog some grody fuck

I hope the next thing I get addicted to is taking care of my self and loving my body

i undiagnosed myself with every single mental disorder. i’m chilling now

it doesn’t sit well with me that “emotional labor” in it’s original context was Arlie Hochschild talking very specifically about how taxing face to face service industry jobs are for people (namely women) with this very nuanced context and is now used in everything from “i had to explain something to someone on twitter” or heavily in contexts of romantic relationships. not all emotional management and exchange is labor! to insert the idea of “labor” excessively into interpersonal relationships creates a system of “i performed ____ and now you OWE me for exerting ____” and it’s not healthy or what the term is for.

@georg1a-o-queef i feel like this is what u were saying the other day

This is an incredible mini-documentary, its 25 min out of your day but I seriously recommend watching it. Such a great story about recognizing the gender spectrum and de colonizing one’s history. Bawled my eyes out 10/10 would recommend. 

This is absolutely beautiful and Im deeply touched by this  little film, holy shit. Its pure beauty. everybody go watch