Honestly, even if someone managed to prove that non-monogamous relationships are statistically more likely to end or last less time on average than monogamous ones, I don't think that would prove monogamy is better. I actually wouldn't be surprised if this is the case. What this would probably mean is that non-mono people are more willing and able to leave a situation that is no longer mutually healthy and fulfilling, due to, on average, being more self aware and communicative of their wants and needs and having better support networks. I think the fixation on this point by anti-poly people just shows that they're terrified of change in their relationships and projecting that on everyone else.

people who shop at shein are SO FUCKING ANNOYING

i don’t care if it’s size inclusive! i don’t care if it’s accessible to poor people! what about the poor people making those garments! like for fucks sake the LEAST you could do is shop at the million other fast fashion companies that do an 1/8 as much damage as shein. or thrift ! or steal ! or just don’t fucking buy bullshit if it comes from the single most damaging clothing company in the world! im not saying you’re a bad person for buying fast fashion !!!!! im just saying that avoiding shein specifically is literally the bare minimum!

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