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But you don’t.

You are valid.

Your chest is not as big as you think.

It is okay to not have facial hair, cis men have this problem too.

Your small feet and hands are fine, and they don’t make you less of a man.

It is okay if you are short - you are small and kick ass!

It is okay if you are pre-t and don’t pass.

It is okay if you are on T and you don’t pass.

You are handsome and strong. You can go through it.

You will get the body and voice you want.

Because of PrideMonth, I wanted to share the asexuality and aromanticity spectrum with everyone.

I know this blog is a genderblog, but I feel like there isn’t enough representation for asexual and aromantic people during PrideMonth. So, I made a list of all of the asexual and aromantic identities to let everyone know how big this part of the LGBTQ+ community actually is. You heard it, people on the asexuality and aromanticity spectrum are LGBTQ+.

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Asexual: Asexuality is the lack of sexual attraction to others, or low or absent interest in or desire for sexual activity.

Aromantic: An aromantic is a person who experiences little or no romantic attraction to others.

Demisexual: A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone.

Demiromantic: A demiromantic is a type of grey-romantic who only experiences romantic attraction after developing an emotional connection beforehand.

Greysexual: Someone who experiences occasional and/or mild sexual attraction.

Greyromantic: Someone who experiences occasional and/or mild romantic attraction.

Cupiosexual and cupioromantic: Cupiosexual is a subset of asexual. It is used to describe asexuals (people who never experience sexual attraction) who still desire a sexual relationship. Cupioromantic is a subset of aromantic.

Lithsexual: Akoisexual (also called akoinesexual and lithsexual) refers to a person who experiences sexual attraction, but has their feelings fade if reciprocated.

Lithromantic: Lithromantic (also known as akoiromantic or apromantic) is a romantic orientation on the asexual spectrum. Somebody who is lithromantic can feel romantic attraction towards others and also enjoy being in romantic relationships but only in theory. They do not need the affection to be reciprocated, and as such do not usually feel compelled to seek out a relationship with someone they are interested in.

Fraysexual and frayromantic: Fraysexual (and also frayromantic; also called reverse-demisexual/romantic) people feel attraction only initially upon meeting or seeing someone. These feelings weaken or disappear once a bond is formed.

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“Get help… my brother is dying!”

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Sonic the freaking Hedgehog.

Jefferson: …I feel like something else is coming

Alexander: Also because you’re salty as hell

Alex & Eliza, twirling around: ♪i can show you the world♪

I’m not surprised

I could feel it forming yesterday

And the day before

And the day before that

As the breaths became more painful

Became shallower

I didn’t want to stop it

Didn’t want to let my chest loose

Didn’t want another femme day

I woke up

Breathless

Unsure of which warpaint I’m putting on today

Golden hoops and winged eyeliner

Short shorts and crop top with the back made out of lace

Gets my mother to say, “Look what a beautiful daughter I have”

Gets me cat calls

Gets me dates and neck kisses

Makes me afraid to walk alone at night

Cargo pants and cologne

Chest binder and thick tank tops with the pocket on front

Gets me a million questions I don’t even have the answers to yet

Gets me double takes

Gets me cashiers apologizing for calling me Sir

Makes me afraid to walk alone at night

I woke up

Digging my fingers into my ribcage

Thinking the pain is fitting

If I can’t fit into any binary

This is the only thing that rings true no matter who I am to you

Bruises