Can we heal together? By being nice and honest? By being respectful and lovely? By healthy communication about our needs and thoughts? By having quality time together and me time? By kisses and touches? By supporting each other?

reminder to self: one day it won’t bother you every night. one day it won’t even pass through your mind, not once.

emotional processing is so funny because sometimes you’ll be violently sobbing on your bedroom floor over something that happened 4 years ago and then you’ll just. get up and make coffee. and go to the grocery store. and take all this fundamental sadness for a walk. and ponder the cosmic experiences of humanity while eating a sandwich. and that’s healing.