I am not a system, and I though I have researched plurality extensively out of wanting to understand people better, I know I am not the right person to talk on this. I know I may very easily just be speaking out of my ass. 100% feel free to correct me or give personal experience, but if you're just going to accuse me of speaking out of turn, I would rather you piss off and scroll past because I don't need you to tell me what I already know.
Now that we have that out of the way...
Not liking or not interacting with endogenic/willogenic systems is fine. At the end of the day, it's an opinion, and as long as it's not hurting people, you're free to have one. But what I do want you to know is that almost every single one of the purely non-traumagenic systems I have spoken to are not trying to wear your struggles like a costume. They're claiming plurality, not a disorder. Being plural/a system and having DID/OSDD/some other type of identity dissociative disorder are two completely different things.
Look around. Endogenics/willogenics are not hurting anyone. They're not mocking your disorder. In fact, systems with non-traumagenic origins have and will always be better allies to those with DID than 99% of the singlets I meet on this fucking app. Not once have I ever seen a non-traumagenic system hating on those with trauma. Switch it around, however, and all you see is hate and pissed off bloggers getting mad at people who are just trying to exist.
It's like a person with clinical depression saying "sad people without depression DNI." Sad people aren't mocking depressed people by being sad, they're just... sad. Sadness isn't exclusive to a disorder. Same way that endogenics aren't mocking traumagenics by being plural, they're just... plural. And for the final time, plurality isn't exclusive to a disorder.
Apologies if I worded this weirdly, it's getting late.
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