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I think humiliation is an important part of a female led relationship. All men naturally have big but fragile egos. You have to constantly shatter them, otherwise they quickly get big again. And as you can tell by the length of this post, I really like talking about it.

This post is a long response to an Ask about how I humiliate my husband after I’ve kicked him, but in addition to answering that question I want to talk about humiliation in our relationship in general.

There are many different ways a dominant woman can humiliate males. So first I’m just going to rule out all the popular tropes that don’t work in my marriage. 

What doesn’t work

“You can’t have that”

Showing him my pussy or ass and saying that he is to weak or pathetic so he can’t have it doesn’t work in our relationship. Because the simple truth is, he can have it. All the time. I’m the hornier of the two of us. So there is no point in pretending otherwise, it would just be weird and have no effect. 

Small penis humiliation

My husband is significantly above average, so that’s not an option.

Making him eat his own cum

I get that most, if not all (heterosexual), man hate to eat cum. But I swallow his cum all the time, so it would be weird if we acted like eating his cum was something humiliating by itself. 

Spanking and foot worship

I mention them together because they simple don’t work for us. Neither my husband nor I get sexual tension from these things. 

Things that work

Laughing and talking down

I’ve never met a male that could take it when girls/women laughed at and about him. If we laugh about them, their fragile egos just crumble away. The same goes for talking down to him, showing him, that no matter what he says or does, you are never going to take him seriously. It simple destroys male egos. You can take almost anything he says or does and make fun of it and he will suffer. This is even more painful for him if there is more than one woman. A group of girls making fun of them basically breaks every male. 

Fucking him in the ass

It’s rare (because we want all anal play to be very well prepared), but I love fucking his ass really hard with my strap-on. I know males can get a lot of pleasure from anal stimulation. But first of all, I’m really not gentle or even paying much attention to his pleasure. And second, it really humiliates him when I mock him for how much he loves being fucked like a bitch, because he is nothing but a little slut. 

Forced and ruined orgasms

Males always want to be strong and powerful and in control. So showing him that he has no control over the one thing that really, truly matters to him, shooting his load, is a great way to humiliate him. I like to promise him wonderful things he always dreamed of, if he can just last long enough. But he never makes it =)

This goes together great with my love for post orgasm torture (it is really funny how quickly the thing he loves and enjoys most turns in unbearable pain)

Humiliating him when he’s down

And finally the original reason for this post. There is nothing more pathetic yet funny than a naked male rolling around on the floor in agony after his balls got kicked and beaten. It puts things in perspective and it puts him in his place.

So, to answer the question how I humiliate my husband when he is down from ballbusting: 

Making fun of him for how weak and pathetic he is, because he goes down so easily and can’t take a few kicks from a small woman like me, is always part of the fun.

But it makes a difference if it’s part of the game or the main focus of what I want to do. When I really want to humiliate and dominate him, I like to be fully dressed while he is naked. Usually I wear something he likes, because it’s still a sexual thing between us (like a tight top, really tight jeans and black  booties). 

In this case the busting itself is not that important, so I don’t savor the moment but rather attack his balls in ways that ensure he goes down quickly. Full force frontal kicks usually do the job.

I like to tease him about getting up. Laughing at him for how pathetic he looks. A naked worm, easily defeated. I enjoy kicking him so hard that I know he can’t get up and then promising him great things if he just manages to stand upright. It’s really funny when he tries and fails, again and again, because the pain from his pathetic little testicles is just too much.