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I admitted I went wrong, And I accept - I wasn't perfect.

Despite of my efforts, I could not make it. I accept.

It didn't worked, due to my faults. I accept.

As I made mistakes, I believe everyone does.

What makes it bother you?

Everyone has priorities in life at each point in life, which affects how they behave with others. Considering ourselves, we are not completely the same person, at a different phase of our lives. People are learned, decisions are made, we stay and we leave.

Why does it bother you when another person's priorities suddenly change?

Somewhere in life, we start expecting so much from someone and not being able to gain the same priority they once did. We end up concentrating on our guilt to gain the same priority they once had. It hurts us when we don't get the same place and priority in our lives.

When your energy goes into making others happy, you neglect your own feelings. You spend all your time and energy worrying about how others feel and neglect your own. You lose everything with it since you can't change someone who doesn't care about you.

We should start accepting that what others do is in their interest and what we do is for ours. You can't be good for everyone all the time. We should only be concerned about ourselves.

Self-love is not selfish. Why should you put other people's priorities on top of your own? Why should you depend on someone else's priority on you if you can do it better on your own?

We must not prioritise everyone in life, but it does not mean that we should not prioritize anyone. Your top priority should be a person who is doing their best to stay after you.

The root cause of our problems.

Our actions and words matter in our lives. We are all human, we feel anger, love, expectations, etc. And when we don't get those we react. Sometimes we let go and sometimes we react. All of your problems stem from your reactions and your words.

To solve all your problems, the first thing you need to do is to know yourself.

There is only one solution for all your problems: you. Stop expecting everything from this world, because it isn't always for you. Be so strong you cannot be hurt by large cyclones anymore.

Make an impression in the world that no one can replace you in their lives. Losing you should be the loss of the people you share your life with. Do what you love before it ends, at the end, it matters how you handled the situation.

The perfect person is the one who knows their mistakes and how to handle them. Once you realize your mistake, come to terms with it and fix it before it becomes a problem in your life and leaves you with regrets.

That doesn't mean it's all your fault, but sometimes you have to let go of the things in your life that hurt you or cause problems in your life. Just being right where you belong, the people and situations around you are not worth it. You must first believe in yourself before expecting others to do the same.

Conclusion:

Have you ever had to choose between your heart and your mind? It's for you if you answered yes.

Heart ? Mind? Just trust your soul!!

Comparing decisions made by the heart with those made by the mind shows that:

The heart cannot think of the reality of the mind and the reality of life. It follows what it likes, gets hurt, feels pain and emotion, and is happy.

Our Mind, on the other hand, does not understand the heart. It follows the rules of this world, makes predictions, and decides, and grows as a result of lessons.

What can be done?

As the world says, nothing lasts forever. The heart is not eternal, neither is the mind.

Our dream are what we suffer from and what we desire for.

We all dream in our life about something. Dreams vary from time to time. "Once" we fulfill our 1 dream we have the other one ready in the pocket. Yes, we can say that humans never stop desiring and there is nothing wrong with it. Everyone has an ambition like a career, visiting a place, future goals, etc.

To achieve your dreams you always give your 200%, sometimes it works sometimes it fails. Failure is common in life but the reaction of the failure depends on you. Either your failure hurts you or it doesn't bother you. The same person reacts differently to their dreams. It's not about the priorities, it's about in what situation the dreams are built and destroyed.

Let's get deeper.

Your dreams are built when you think you are missing something in your life and you desire to have it. It's about you or people connected to you. Sometimes dreams take a long time to be a reality and once you make it, you don't really need it. Not because your decision was wrong but the situation when you dreamt about it was different from the current situation when you have it in your hand.

People entering into your life affect the dreams and goals of your life. They get attached and become a priority and be a part of your dream. Sometimes they stay and sometimes they leave. All you dream of someone doesn't make you happy in your life. A dream is a big world where you have to plan, we are not God to plan a perfect dream and fulfill it all the time.