Grace Of A Goddess

Most women can’t wait for the man of their dreams to get down on one knee and say those magical words...”Will you marry me?”  *swoon*

What does a man mean when he gets down on one knee? He trusts you, he loves you, he’s opening up to you; he is showing how vulnerable he is!

What is “The Proposal” about now? How fancy it can be? How big the ring is? How many likes it will get on Facebook and Instagram? This is the reality of today’s times. It’s turned into a superficial show.

How can we turn this around and express our true femininity? How can we bring the balance? How can we express our Goddess being?

Dear Beloved,

I would like to tell you a story… …A story about a woman that was looking for love and found it in herself along the way.

FROM THE BEGINNING...

“The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was.”*

“I want to see you. Know your voice. Recognize you when you first come ’round the corner. Sense your scent when I come into a room you’ve just left. Know the lift of your heel, the glide of your foot. Become familiar with the way you purse your lips then let them part, just the slightest bit, when I lean in to your space and kiss you. I want to know the joy of how you whisper ‘more.’”*

“Only love itself can explain love and lovers.”*

“Lovers don't finally meet somewhere. They're in each other all along.”*

AND THEN YOU CAME ALONG….

“I was dead, then alive. Weeping, then laughing.”*

“When I am with you, we stay up all night. When you’re not here, I can’t go to sleep. Praise God for those two insomnias! And the difference between them.”*

“The power of love came into me, and I became fierce like a lion, then tender like the evening star.”*

YOU CHALLENGED ME…

“Don't be satisfied with stories, how things have gone with others. Unfold your own myth.”*

“Observe the wonders as they occur around you. Don’t claim them. Feel the artistry moving through, and be silent.”*

“Dance, when you're broken open. Dance, if you've torn the bandage off. Dance in the middle of the fighting. Dance in your blood. Dance when you're perfectly free.”*

“There is a candle in your heart, ready to be kindled. There is a void in your soul, ready to be filled. You feel it, don't you?”*

“Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.”*

“And you? When will you begin that long journey into yourself?”*

THE JOURNEY CONTINUES…

“In your light I learn how to love. In your beauty, how to make poems. You dance inside my chest where no-one sees you, but sometimes I do, and that sight becomes this art.”*

“Although I may try to describe love when I experience it I am speechless. Although I may try to write about Love I am rendered helpless…”*

“This is love: to fly toward a secret sky, to cause a hundred veils to fall each moment. First to let go of life. Finally, to take a step without feet.”*

“My soul is from elsewhere, I'm sure of that, and I intend to end up there.”*

ALL IN ALL…

“I always thought that I was me - but no, I was you and never knew it.”*

“I am yours. Don’t give myself back to me.”*

Yours Truly, Your Goddess

Women are always looking for the “Perfect Guy.” They want a guy that will compliment them left and right, tell them that they don’t look fat in their dress, and do romantic gestures every chance he gets. That kind of guy sounds incredibly dreamy, and that’s just it…it’s just a dream. Where’s the realness? Where’s the rawness? I think it’s time for women to stop dreaming of what they want in a man and become aware of what a real man is. Instead of trying to find the “Perfect Guy,” we should look for the Evolved Man.

The Evolved Man sounds farfetched, but he is all real. It’s not about seeing who is, but feeling what he’s all about. An Evolved Man understands what’s going on around him and what is also going on within; he is aware and present to the moment and stays grounded. Many women are afraid to open up because they believe that when a guy listens, it’s in one ear out the other. An Evolved Man will create a safe space for opening up and communication. When he listens, he will be all there for you. There is no bullshitting because he will call you out on it and that’s a good thing! Honesty, truth, loyalty, and respect. Those qualities are in everything he does. You will see it AND feel it. The one thing that the Evolved Man is amazing at is that he honors the divine Goddess within the feminine. He appreciates and understands her to her core…her soul. Along with his understanding and respect for the feminine, he has a strong masculine spirit. His masculine aura touches you when you just hear his voice. Imagine what happens with his presence. Every woman wants a man that is all together and knows himself to the T and that’s it; nothing else. Why does it have to stop there?  An Evolved Man is constantly growing and learning. He is constantly evolving.

As women, just as the Evolved Men show up for us, we need to show up for them. We need to be the Goddesses that we truly are. It’s simple. We need to be our authentic selves. Just do you always! EXPRESS EXPRESS EXPRESS! Always express what you are feeling, your emotions, and your thoughts. Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and don’t be afraid to call him out on his bullshit. He is constantly growing and evolving and wants a woman that supports him in that evolution. Finally, just surrender. Surrendering is a harmonious dance between the masculine and feminine. In this dance, only the masculine can lead. It’s about an evolved man that wants his woman’s trust to lead the relationship.

Why is it that we, women, feel the need that we have to have everything figured out, that we have to be perfect, that we have to control every aspect of our lives? In one of my earlier posts, I discussed surrendering to the masculine energy and how powerful that is for both the masculine and feminine. When a woman surrenders, she is letting go and TRUSTING her man. She is letting go of her fears and letting in the liberation. There is no resistance or tension. The surrender embodies every inch of her. Because of the surrender, she is allowing herself to be more vulnerable and open to the possibilities of where her masculine will lead her.

Now, let's take look at this thing called life. Think of all of the issues and fears you're facing. It could be anything…financial, love, family, work, etc. These problems, fears and other "unwanted" feelings such as anger, resentment, and anxiety compel us to control excessively. We believe that we need to control to get what we want or need. How do you regain control without trying to seize it? Just let go and surrender. You may be thinking, "How can you just surrender to life like that?" Simple: think of life as another masculine energy in your life and just surrender!

I have come to the realization that surrendering to life is the same as surrendering to the masculine. You have to trust and be vulnerable to life, just as you do your masculine. It's about being receptive and allowing things to happen, allowing things to unfold, and allowing the possibilities and opportunities to come to you. Surrendering means to stop resisting. Stop resisting with yourself, with the universe and the natural flow of things. How do you feel when you surrender to your masculine? When I surrender to him I feel calm, enlightened, happy, inspired and even creative. Surrendering to life should feel very similar if not the same. Being calm, peaceful, and in the moment will allow you to see the bigger picture. Everything will just start to flow. What happens when you surrender to your masculine? You win every time; he will make sure you win. The same goes for when you surrender to life…you win. If you are coming from the purest place in your heart, life will make sure that you win. I am starting to let go and surrender to life. I’m going to let it take me to where I’m suppose to be. Worry, stress, anxiety...soon these will be just words to me.

Our femininity is part of our soul. It makes us energetic, beautiful, passionate and loving beings. Nowadays, many women are losing bits of their femininity. They are so consumed in the superficial and materialistic aspects of life. They rely on technology to bring out their femininity, but they don’t realize that that isn't true femininity…it’s just fake.

Don’t get me wrong. Technology has done some amazing things when it comes to health and safety, but what is it doing to us as people? As women? True feminine women are caring and compassionate. When we care about someone deeply, we want to be with them, care for them, hold them, make them feel loved. Our feminine touch says it all. Why are women wasting their touch on their touch screen phones? Why are we expressing our gratitude and/or sympathy through limited characters on a screen? Sure someone may be hundreds of miles away, but a phone call is more personal than saying, “I’m sorry. I’m here for you...” on a social media site.

It’s about self-love and self-actualization! Divine, feminine women are all about loving themselves. It’s about how you feel about yourself. Technology has given a new meaning to self-love by making it all about how many friends you have online, how many followers you gained, or how many likes and comments you receive on a post. Selfies does not equal self-love. Your soul is not superficial, so don’t disrespect it by making your femininity that way too.

What happens to your masculine when you embody this technology as your feminine? It creates a pseudo form of femininity that does not balance with his masculinity. When that happens, there will be a disconnect with one another. He will feel the warmth, care, and love change and it will be noticeable. I know it’s difficult to escape technology, but you should learn to reconnect with yourself by not letting it consume you. When you are with your masculine, put the technology down and be present with one another. In that moment, it’s about you and him. Live with one another. Laugh with one another. Listen to one another. Love one another. Bring out your soul and your femininity will follow.

In today’s society, we are taught that our physical appearance is more important than being who we truly are and that to become rich we have to sacrifice our well being. What society is feeding us is noise. This noise is everywhere we look: TV, magazines, radio, and any other media outlet you can think of. We subconsciously program this noise in our minds and because of this we lose sight of who we really are in our nature; we lose sight of our femininity.

To really find your authentic femininity, you have to pull back the layers and take off all the masks. You need to talk less and feel more. By feeling more, you will naturally feel your femininity because you are being more yourself. It’s about who you are, not what society tells you who you should be.

What happens when we just keep talking? Most of the time, women are speaking blindly. What I mean by this is that they say things that they think people want to hear or they say what makes them look good. They are trying to make themselves look a certain way, whether it be smart, in control, or cool. Again, that’s society’s programming taking over. Get rid of the talk and just start feeling…start listening to yourself. By feeling more, you will attract the masculine you want to attract. You want to attract the one that sees and respects your vulnerability. You will probably justify what you say or maybe even critique yourself. Those are signs of you listening to yourself; that’s feeling and that’s ok. When you let go of the talk, you start to connect more, the interactions become more personal, you create a sense of flow, and you build a trust. Now, I’m not saying stay quiet the whole time. If you have an opinion, then voice it, but at the same time listen to what you are saying. When you go deep into your femininity this way, you will attract that deep masculine man that you’ve been looking for.

Some women may have a difficult time trying this out because of all the noise that gets in the way. It won’t happen overnight, but accepting it, trusting yourself, and consciously trying will get you way past the surface. Separate yourself from the noise and find and become who you were suppose to be…a true feminine woman.

Honesty. Truth. Appreciation. Communication. Those are all aspects of mutual respect. You never put your masculine down. You always support him no matter what. You show that you respect him by trusting him. Trust his actions. His judgement. His decisions. Instinctively, trust him. Show no doubt.

The biggest mistake that women make is that they demand respect. You should never demand anything from your masculine. That is degrading to you and to him as a masculine man. Don’t belittle him…ever. If you are feeling disrespected in any way, then you communicate it to him by being open and honest. Bottom line is that you need to let him know. He is not a mind reader! It’s simple.

There is this guy I know. Out of all the men that I know, he is the most masculine man I have ever met…ever. He is truly conscious and aware of himself, his energy, and what flows through him and that’s so sexy. I have an unmeasurable amount of respect for him and what he stands for. He has so much greatness, creativity, energy, and knowledge in him that it’s almost not human; it’s God-like. I value his opinion and feedback a lot. I asked him a few questions about respect and what it meant to him and this is what he had to say...

What does respect mean to you?

“Means Trust. They believe me when I say something or do something in regards to them. They trust my intentions even if they don't understand them. Another way of looking at it, its about having enough authority with someone that they listen to you.​“

When a feminine woman shows her respect for you, how does that make you feel? What shows up for you? How do you handle it?

​ “Oh definitely makes me feel bigger energetically. I feel a greater version of myself, like expanded. Women are powerful yet they bring ​​such a different energy to the table for us as men so it has a very profound effect on us when we are given that respect.

An obvious example to this is seen in many relationships where the woman doesn't respect the man. Every one from a mile away can see how diminished that man's presence becomes, it's like his whole being constricts. Some of these men even show body language​ equivalent to a turtle ducking in his shell. It's very suppressing and damaging to a man to NOT be respected.

So what does show up for me when a woman gives me respect is relaxation. It allows my presence to relax into the moment and even in how I am interacting with her or the other people around us even. The interesting thing about this is that it relaxes me into my power. I don't feel slacked off as much as I feel eased about assuming my power. It's actually a great feeling, so that greatness shows up in my presence as well.

I handle a woman's respect with honor. My intention is to revere and appreciate the gift it is. It does so much for me, why wouldn't I? And it has the profound side effect ​of inspiring me to show up more fully for that woman. I think respect is actually one way, a real way, women can make men better. Men have to do whatever they have to do to grow up from a boy and women really can't impact that journey for men as much because it is so personal for them, BUT AFTER THAT... in dealing with a mature masculine man, this is a sure fire way to support his growth and success. And anytime a man expands because of the energy of a woman, she always receives this expanded energy of a man back in the form of nourishment. Whether it's sexually (him fucking you like a God instead of a man) or respectfully (praising you from the greater power he now embodies, making the praise stronger or more touching than it had ever been before).

Also, in terms of how I handle it. It's important to never insult it. I will play with it out of the lightness of my heart but will never dishonor it in any way. Because I know the precious emotional currency that respect carries.”

How do you show your respect to the feminine? What does showing your respect to her do for you?

​ “I respect the feminine with my presence. I believe that in the respect the feminine is merely looking for the realness of a man, free of the bullshit. She wants to feel a sense of emotional awareness ​ ​ that communicates care.​ She wants to feel the presence of my attention. She wants to learn the groundingness of my strength. My respect communicates all that. A sense that she's okay, she's received and allowed to be, this is what happens when I show respect.

​ For me, showing my respect allows a woman to be more radiant and that impacts me tremendously. It inspires me. It enlivens me. It makes life more fun, joyous, creative and way less serious. Men have tons of pressure on them to succeed, provide, be all kinds of archetypes so receiving the energy of a feminine Goddess is a breath of fresh air for us. As a man, I receive this energy bountifully when I give the gift of my own powerful respect to a woman. It's absolutely a win-win. The dynamic of masculine-feminine is meant to be a positive vortex I believe. It's a dance that, when flowing, brings about all sorts of beauty and life in both of those counterparts. ​ ​ It's a dynamic of nourishment and sustenance, and it's meant to work for us not against us. That should be reason alone, for an individual, to clear out their crap and make themselves available for such an opportunity. Instead of not facing your demons enough to get yourself in the space to make a good choice here and just jumping into any relationship that has more potential to fail & damage you than nourish and inspire you.”

What happens when a feminine woman that you respect tells you she's lost respect for you or vice versa?

“ ​One, I ground myself because it can be unnerving for a man to hear that. Two, I ground myself more because seriously that shit can throw me off and skipping this step is the biggest mistake men make in responding to the feminine. If men adequately ground themselves and their powerfully masculine energy before they go any further with the feminine woman, they've already won the game for both the masculine and feminine parties. Third, I ask directly how that's occurring and what it looks and feels like for her, that she lost respect for me. Fourth, I shutup and fully receive the message I get back. Fifth, I dig deeper to see if there's a secondary layer to her feelings and the situation that may be a more accurate truth of what's occurring. Sixth, if it's THE feminine woman in my life, such as a girlfriend or significant other, I fuck the shit out of her. Touch in the context of relationships is very important. Because the need to communicate shit like this in the first place arises from the fear of the loss of intimacy or human connection to begin with. So it's not the "thing" aka the "issue" that matters as much as restoring the intimacy and connection between the people involved. By the way, fucking the shit out of her isn't the only way here--hugging, holding, kissing, any way that simply shares emotion via touch works.

All the while I'm going through this, I always maintain the presence of my masculine groundingness because I know it creates the environment of positivity.

Another note about this. I would be sure to not take all this so seriously at the end of it all, lot of the times the problem is in how personal we take things to start with when interacting with the feminine or vice versa that we just shoot ourselves in the foot and complicate it for no reason. The faster both people can bring the "issue" back to zero, make it the nothing that it really is, the more you get back in the flow with your relationship to that person and vice versa.”

“Do it from the soul”... what does that even mean? How can you do something from the soul? What is your soul? What does 'doing something from the soul' do for you?

All these questions seem complicated and complex, but the answers are very simple. Your soul is YOU! It’s all aspects of you. Yes, we are all part of the universal soul, but this universal soul is composed of many individual souls. Each one of these souls finds truth in itself, finds the infinite, finds the power to find their higher self. Everything that is true, real, raw, and authentic comes from our soul.

How I view the feminine soul is that it’s everything! It’s divine, energetic, never-ending…it’s the Goddess in you. It’s the essence of grace, the passion of love, the child-like innocence that brings out the purity of the feminine soul. How do you embrace your soul? You just do it! Whatever you do, go full-out! Embrace the feminine greatness. Do everything with more passion…dance how the hell you want, sing like you’re a diva, cry louder, breathe deeper, love harder. Use the feminine Goddess to transcend into your feminine soul with everything you do…every movement, every sound, every touch, how you listen, how you LOVE. When you find your soul, people around you will notice. You will inspire this transformation and YOU will be that transformation. Your soul…your self-expression will say it all.

If you are struggling to find your feminine soul, don’t worry! The beauty is in the simplicity of uncovering it. Close your eyes. Listen to your heart’s deepest desires. Discover your dreams. Make those dreams a reality…take action on them. Your journey will start there. Along this path of discovery, keep your heart open. Be vulnerable. Don’t suppress your true feelings. Express them with passion and confidence. Own everything you do. I know one thing that many women want to find is love. You will find love with your soul. Love yourself first then everything else will fall into place. If you want to find your soulmate, you have to find your soul first.

In today’s world a woman should be perfect in every way possible. She should have the perfect body, be the perfect wife, be the perfect mom, etc. She should never be wrong. She should be independent.  She shouldn’t be so emotional. She doesn’t need a man. Magazines, shows, movies, clothing companies and any other media outlet you can think of pressures the modern day woman into thinking what is perfect. Perfection is the pressure to be something that you’re not.

Don’t be the robot of today. Instead, be the Goddess of today. The Goddess of today is someone that is true to her feminine self. She a beautiful rose, but she also embraces her thorns. She has elegance, wisdom, and is full of love. She carries the spirit of sweet submission and looks to her masculine for their care and protection.

What does the perfect woman look like? The perfect woman, the perfect Goddess is YOU! Embody every fiber of yourself…of your being. I’ve been saying this in my previous posts and I will keep saying it…fall in love with yourself! I have said that a Goddess is confident, persistent, even strong at heart, but that doesn’t mean that she can’t show emotions. I absolutely despise the fact that society today says that a woman shouldn’t be too emotional or that they are too sensitive. HELLO! We are feminine women! We are nurturing, caring, pure, and delicate. If we can’t express our emotions, if we can’t express how we feel, then we can’t be ourselves. Never let anyone hold you back from your true potential.

As for not needing a man…a modern-day robot may not need a man, but a feminine woman WANTS a man. She wants someone to care for inside and out and support infinitely. She wants to inspire him and at the same time be inspired by him. She wants someone to share her feelings, emotions, thoughts, passions, and desires with. She wants someone that she can be herself with. She wants to surrender to someone. She wants to always win. Most importantly, she wants a man that she can shower with nothing but love and affection. All this as a whole nourishes her body, mind, soul, and spirit. It gives her the true meaning and experience of life and happiness. It opens up infinite possibilities and discoveries. So instead of aiming for the modern-day robot of perfection...be the perfect version of your true Goddess, feminine self.

Being cheated on, lied to, or stabbed in the back is something that many people have a difficult time dealing with. That feeling of betrayal is unlike any other. You feel angry, lifeless, upset at the other person, and even upset with yourself. Sometimes you just want to crawl under a rock and never come out. The mistake that many women make when these experiences happen is that they tend to close themselves off to the world and become guarded. We close our heart to everyone.

We close ourselves off because we don’t want to feel the pain or get hurt again. We are sitting there thinking that by having this wall up, no one can get through and we will be safe, right? Wrong. In reality, we are hurting ourselves. By building that wall you are not letting any emotions in, but at the same time you are not letting any emotions out. You are stuck with the negative emotions that you’ve been trying to get rid of.

What happens when you meet someone new? What do most women do? Not only do they have a wall up, they also compare. By comparing, you are living in the past. You are bringing the other person down emotionally, but most importantly…you are bringing yourself down. Comparing does nothing for you, so stop. You have to open your heart up, otherwise you may be missing out on an amazing experience.

The one thing that I am aware of is that we will never be able to forget, but we do have the opportunity to forgive. Forgiving the person will help you move on and be a better you. Doing this helps you accept the reality of the situation and finding a way to really live. You are not letting them off the hook…you are freeing yourself. Sometimes forgiveness can be difficult because the hurt probably went deep to your core. The only way that you will be in a good place to forgive is if you are willing to forgive. You have to sit with your thoughts and fully feel your emotions. Only you will know when you’re ready. Everyone experiences some sort of betrayal…myself included. How did I overcome this? I forgave and kept my heart open.

Imagine your masculine walking towards you. He is walking tall with such confidence. His eyes are locked with yours. You want to look away, but you can’t because you feel the connection and energy building between you both. As he comes closer to you, you start to get “good nervous,” butterflies, your breathing gets heavy, and maybe even your heart starts to race a little. As he approaches you, he moves your hair off to the side. You can feel his breath lining your neck. Goosebumps start rising from your skin. What happens next?

That’s up to you as the feminine. Sex or intimacy should not be planned. Why? Because planning holds you back and it disrupts the flow between you and the masculine. Letting your mind be free can open you as the feminine to all the spontaneous possibilities that your masculine has to offer. You indulge in one another. You experience one another. If you plan, you are not giving your all to him. It’s about the surrender. It’s always about the surrender. Allow yourself to be lead by him. Allow yourself to be taken control of. You should trust him because as your masculine counterpart…he will never lead you astray.

Sex is not about giving and receiving; that’s planned! It’s about the connection, energy, and flow that is expressed between two beings. It’s about the experience and possibilities between the masculine and feminine. As a true feminine, you will naturally be giving, but just because you naturally give doesn’t mean you should expect anything in return. When you expect something in return, you are showing your masculine and even yourself that you are not pure. Purity is willingness; it’s innocence; it’s truth.

So what does happen next? Anything can happen for me, because I don’t plan it. All I know is what I experience with my masculine. It’s an experience that can’t be explained…you just feel it. You feel the charge between one another, you feel the passion building, you feel the sensations flowing through. Every look, every touch, every kiss creates a deeper desire to experience more. I surrender to him every time because I know he will never lead me astray. How do I know this? I just do. If you are a true feminine, you will just know; you will feel it within you.

How do you imagine your hero to be? Is he a man that is determined, courageous, tenacious, or even ambitious? Is he your Prince Charming or your Hercules?

What is the essence of a masculine hero? I believe that it is broken down into two parts. The first is that not only does he possess these strong characteristics, but he also has the heart of a child. He is open, vulnerable, and lead by the power of life. This childlike heart gives him the power to overcome any obstacle, big or small. The second is his feminine counterpart, which has a great impact on the masculine. The connection, energy, passion, loyalty, and the surrender from the feminine, is what brings out the hero. How does she do this? Being his feminine counterpart is about bringing out that feminine energy; it’s about being in tune with yourself. The mask of being something you’re not has to be removed. It’s the energy you give out when you are not trying to be something other than yourself. You have to believe that you are good enough, sexy enough, strong enough, and smart enough. That’s how he will see you. You have to make yourself the priority. When you make yourself the priority and commit yourself to YOU, he’ll know that he has found his true feminine counterpart.

I want to emphasize on the surrender. As I’ve said before, it’s not weakness. It removes roadblocks and helps you embrace your feminine energy in a more effortless flow. You live more fully in the moment and display grace and charisma. Surrendering fills you up with compassion and trust. If it doesn’t feel nourishing, if it doesn’t feel good, then maybe you are not surrendering right or maybe you are not surrendering to your true masculine.

My hero is determined, courageous, tenacious, ambitious and much more. He is not my Prince Charming, but my King. He is not my Hercules, but my Zeus. He is my masculine and I am his feminine counterpart. When I surrender to him, he wins and when he wins…I win. When I choose him, I win; I always win. When you win, you feel it; you just know. The click, the connection, the chemistry. You feel it when you both speak to each other. You feel it when you both see each other. You feel it when you talk about each other to other people. Everything starts to go in your favor when you start to experience and realize what the win is doing for you. How it’s changing your life in the best way. All the pieces start falling into place and you realize that all the positives coming into your life is because you chose to surrender to him.

Being a feminine, we are the other half to the masculine. We are there for him no matter what and we respect every aspect of him…even his nectar. Yes, his nectar. Some women find this out of the norm or even just plain weird, but in actuality it is the root of everything. Every time a man and a woman connect sexually and he releases his nectar, it’s like a life force energy that he is letting go of. Sometimes that force of energy is taken for granted.

I believe there are a couple of ways to show the masculine that you respect his nectar, which shows that you respect him. The first: swallow. I view it as a “God-like” nectar and I respect the hell out of it; it's a sacred blessing to me. There are studies out there that suggest swallowing to be a healthy act as well. Some research says you become happier, it gives you luscious hair, and even radiant skin. Many women are probably not comfortable swallowing and that's perfectly fine, but those that do are experiencing the essence of their partner. They are reaffirming their desirability for their masculine counterpart and are showing them what they mean to them. The admiration that shows up creates an ever deeper connection between the masculine and feminine.

The other way a feminine can show her respect to the masculine’s nectar is by helping him retain his seed. I know this is the opposite of what I was saying earlier, but retaining the masculine's seed will bring out the best in him! When a man ejaculates, he releases energy that depletes his body, hence why most men want to roll over and sleep after sex. Helping him retain his seed will make him  better mentally, physically, and spiritually. He will have an increase in sexual stamina, increase in physical vitality, and even could experience multiple orgasms, which is win-win for both. I am not saying to stop having sex...you can still have sex, but him retaining his seed will bring out all those benefits. It may be uncomfortable at first and he may feel that “blue balls” experience, but in the long-run he will feel more confident than ever, and you will feel his confidence run through you. The orgasms that you both will experience together will be that of ecstatic bliss and divinity.

Sex is powerful. It is especially powerful when true masculine and feminine energy connect. When mind with mind, spirit with spirit, and energy with energy come together, it creates a unity that is bound by passion.

A true masculine man has qualities about him that will only attract his feminine counterpart. He will be confident, honest, disciplined, and ambitious. A true feminine woman will carry her grace and radiance everywhere she goes. She will be confident, affectionate, gentle, and vulnerable amongst many other things. I feel that the stronger the masculine energy, the stronger his sex drive. He will be more aggressive sexually (this is not a negative thing at all). The stronger the feminine energy, the more giving she will be sexually. When the two come together, they create a force that can’t be destroyed.

What happens when you meet that true masculine man? Are you that much more giving to him sexually? Do you surrender yourself to him? The feeling that you feel inside is like nothing other. You feel a charge within you that takes over your body. The charge is so powerful that you naturally surrender to him...you want to surrender to every part of him. You feel awake and liberated. Your confidence, sexiness, radiance, and glow show up for the masculine, which makes the sexual energy between both so euphoric. When the two bodies come together, you want to be even closer; you don’t want to let go. Sex is not just sex anymore…it’s an art that the masculine and feminine create together. As both the masculine and feminine energies become stronger, that art evolves into a masterpiece that’s priceless.

I am a strong believer in showing the masculine that I appreciate and respect every aspect of him…mind, body, soul, and spirit. I feel that many women don’t give their masculine partner enough respect. I feel that a woman wants her masculine to respect her first before they reciprocate.

Showing the masculine respect is not a difficult concept. You are showing appreciation to his accomplishments, who he is as a man, his masculinity, and especially how he shows up for you! The masculine energy is inherently leardership-oriented. Listening to his opinion without interrupting, and letting him take the lead from time to time will show him how much you appreciate and respect him. You are showing him that you are trusting his masculine energy. If you give him feedback or advice without him asking, then you may not really be listening. For him to feel listened, just let him speak and let him get his thoughts out. Gesturing by nodding and showing empathy, lets him know that you truly care.

Sometimes feminine women show appreciation and respect through giving. In my opinion, giving is usually a masculine trait, but giving through the feminine is done through love, warmth, kindness, and even compassion. He will be able to feel that energy in his heart and know it’s coming from a true place. The best gift we can give our masculine man is the gift of our feminine luminosity and energy. It allows us to stay in our feminine and allows him to stay in his masculine. The masculine man will feel more compassionate towards a feminine woman who shows appreciation and values his masculinity.

Vulnerability and persistence. One sounds too weak and the other sounds too strong…or that’s what society has made most women believe.

I have said this before and I’ll say it again: being vulnerable is not a bad thing. It's not something dainty or frail. It makes a woman bolder, stronger, and sexier. You are choosing to be courageous and not let fear stop you from opening and loving freely. Expressing your feminine vulnerability shows up for the masculine. When a feminine woman opens up to a real masculine man, she is expressing that she respects him because she trusts him enough to be open with him. She is showing him that he is the one that makes her feel safe and protected. A feeling of mutual respect emerges. To me, this mutual respect creates a balance between the masculine and feminine, which leads to a more universal and powerful connection.

Vulnerability is amazing, but what about persistence? I consider myself to be a very persistent feminine person. I know what I want and I go for it. I am not 100% successful, but that doesn’t mean I throw in the towel. Some women will get persistence confused with bossy or even “alpha female.” That is NOT the case at all. Being persistent is also about being vulnerable. You are putting yourself out there for the masculine. A non-masculine man will be intimidated and feel weak by a persistent woman. A masculine man will allow the persistence. He will see that she is a strong, smart, and bold woman and show her the same respect that she is showing him. Being persistent is opening your heart and expressing your feminine energy by telling him what you want without being afraid of rejection. It’s about taking chances, exploring opportunities, and growing into new possibilities with the masculine.

I believe that once you start to express your vulnerability and persistence towards the masculine, you will find yourself with more opportunities towards happiness, lasting love, and most importantly…self-love.

When you think of a Goddess, you think of a graceful, elegant, confident, self-loving woman; nothing can bring her down. But what about shyness? Does being shy hinder your ability to be graceful and feminine?

I consider myself a Goddess. I am confident, self-assured, and very social. I wouldn’t consider myself to be socially shy in the very least. However, there is this guy (there is always that guy). We have great meaningful conversations and can also be goofy with one another without judgement. Not only does he put a smile on my face, but he gives me that “good nervous” feeling where my palms get sweaty, my stomach has butterflies floating around, and I can’t even make eye-contact with him sometimes. Such a feeling of shyness is not an obstacle that I must overcome nor does it lower my being of a Goddess; it’s a blessing.

I like to think of shyness as a “childlike femininity.” This is not to be confused with “childish.” No energetically masculine man wants a woman who acts and behaves like a child…he wants a Goddess. Some qualities of “childlike femininity” are trust, vulnerability, and playfulness. I feel that when we were younger we had all these qualities because we were carefree beings, and as we grew older we lost them. Stronger feminine women who are assertive and strong minded may find these qualities difficult to relearn because they require being more open and to be more open you have to first and foremost self-love.

If you become shy in front that guy…accept it and own it. Don’t try to hide it. If you have to blush or even look away, then do it. You can even giggle or laugh during the process. I giggle all the time and I am not ashamed of it whatsoever. Your shyness should not make that person think you want them to leave. It should invite them to explore you that much more.