⨠Guiding light ⨠. Glennon Doyle ( @glennondoyle ) said yesterday in her Instastory in response to a question about anger (how she deals with it, to which she answered she realized there wasnāt anything wrong with her when she was angry, there is simply someTHING wrong that needs addressing) that currently she has respect for 2 types of women, those who are angry and those who are actively in a coma. . It is misguided to attempt a life absent of any of the very human emotions. . Those feelings are there to guide you, they are direct responses to your environment and they carry a wealth of information. . And living in the contemporary electric world it is easy to find oneself overwhelmed, turning into darkness or destruction to handle the accumulating discomfort. . There are other ways. . One of my most helpful personal practices (in addition to being like Glennon and accepting my anger and myself for feeling angry when it happens) is to reach for my guiding light, or what Lynn McTaggart (@lynne.mctaggart) calls a āhoming thoughtā in her book The Power Of 8, which is a thought, feeling, image, or other imagining related to your deepest sense of purpose. . This always grounds me down, fills me up, and leaves me feeling the space between myself and the rest of the material world, making it easier to breath and relax afterwards. . Not sure what your purpose is? Imagining the world you want to see, where do you see yourself in it? What are you doing? . Thereās no express pass to the station of your passion when you are on a mission to discover it, but... generally itās what comes easily to you, what you may assume is already easy for others (but probably isnāt), serves people beyond yourself, and it may leave you physically exhausted at the end of the day but absolutely fills your heart up at the same time. . This thought (or feeling, etc), the guiding light or homing thought, is the Salve of our Times, and the only armour we need, because there is plenty of reasons to feel overwhelmed by the world. Anyone who promises you a life full of only love and light is trying to sell you bullshit. . Yes, there is only love, but while we are physical, sometimes it stinks!