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I’m so annoyed with my whale he’s showing his stingy cheap side and it’s not cute

got an international multi-day fmty as a first date. Now that’s BDE

Hi babe,

mid-range for a big city

It won’t help you because it really depends on your location

What would you say are the main reasons you get so much business and at a high rate? Photo shoots? The city you’re in? Your ads? The ad platform?

Ive been in the industry for 8 or so years so I’ve definitely accumulated regulars which helps a lot. My rates are midrange for a big city. Being in a big city and touring big cities helps, maintaining regulars, being in shape, being kind, friendly, and personable helps. My clients like me probably more for my personality, hours of availability, access to an incall and convenient location. And probably because I’m fairly responsive.

So many girls are getting into arrangements and honestly I don’t even know what to ask for without sounding greedy.

Thank you so much for your blog! It's so refreshing to see someone talking about sw so freely ^u^

Hi babe,

It really depends what your goals are. Burn out is real. Screen your clients carefully and practice good boundaries. Not all money is good money. And save your money!

You need to ask yourself what your goals are.

Are you happy living paycheck to paycheck?

Do you just want to work minimally to cover your bills?

Are you looking for a big whale client to marry?

Are you trying to save money and retire early?

Save money to invest in businesses?

Just want to cover school expenses?

There’s women doing this forever at 40, 50, 60+ is that something you see yourself doing?

This line of work is very hard to maintain civie relationships so that’s something worth thinking about. It’s a sacrifice.

For me, I’m not a 9-5 corporate slave type. I’ve always been very entrepreneurial at an early age. And at an early age I’ve always been looking for ways to make money and make more money. So this line of work is great because the money can be good, and you can meet all sorts of clients. Some are awesome and I really care for them in a friendly professional way because I feel they really support me and are interested in my dreams and goals. Of course, there’s always bad hobbyist clients that sometimes makes you second guess yourself.

The dinner dates I’ve been before were guys up to age 40. But I’ve accepted this date and dont wanna cancel last min and just wanna get $$

I feel at all levels of SW there will be time wasters. However, the higher your rates it tends to be less, along with less inquires. I feel having a website does legitimize you and if you're on the main mid-tier ad sites you should be fine.

I try to respond to most inquires email and texts, but just know when to stop engaging and cut your losses. I don't bother responding to 'hey' or 'u avail' or any same day requests but if they are able to form a complete sentence I will reply. I would say most good/big spender clients will email but I have occasionally met really nice guys via text inquiries (but usually they are short appts types)