The Calm After the Storm

say it with me now: eating food is an act of self respect

self care is creating a life you don’t routinely have to escape from

when anne carson said ‘to feel anything deranges you. to be seen feeling anything strips you naked. in the grip of it pleasure or pain doesn’t matter. you think what will they do what new power will they acquire if they see me naked like this. if they see you feeling. you have no idea what. it’s not about them. to be seen is the penalty.’

bonding with your houseplants by watering them from a water bottle you’ve already drank from

indirect kiss

minimalism is a cute aesthetic but maxamilism is the way to go…… me and my room with too many books and plants and pieces of art and pillows and blankets and and dried flowers and stacks of records and empty pill bottles and half-burned candles and vials of perfume and jars of pens and three decks of tarot cards and art books from museums and sea glass i collected from a beach in greece. maximilism is cute AND realistic. live ur horarding aesthetic goblin dreams.

there’s something undeniably special about knowing that you definitely would’ve been forcibly lobotomized if you had been born barely a handful of generations ago

vegans who refuse to even eat backyard eggs….why

people who think its unethical to eat chicken eggs are like people who think bees should keep all their honey. they literally produce more than they need and your unwillingness to even buy local means you are doing nothing to help them, support your small farmers you heathens

‪I invite travel, paid creative opportunities, unexpected financial gifts, and aesthetically pleasing spaces into my life at this moment. ‬

it takes me 3-7 business days to process my feelings