isola

self care is cutting everyone off and locking yourself in and never speaking again actually

in my slut era. (i can't even start a conversation)

it is what it is but i wish it wasn't

Please don't let tumblr or any other BDSM or D/s community convince you that subs don't have a ton of emotional needs. As many needs as any other person. Sexual needs included. Subs aren't house plants or pet fish. It is an extremely valid thing for a sub to be in need of an orgasm, or of sexual attention that is focused on them rather than their partner, emotional affection, gentleness, to feel like a priority, the list is basically endless.

Your secret is safe with me (i dissociated mid sentence and didn’t hear a thing you said)