^- This is really important to understand, respect, and talk about. Not everyone with a tickling fetish blog is open to receiving detailed fantasies, roleplays, or similar interactions.
-Especially- on anon, -especially- if the person sending messages has never interacted with the person receiving messages before, -especially- if the person receiving messages has not -asked- for them.Â
Some people might want it. Some people might not. The key thing to do here is to talk and make contact -first- with someone, before assuming they are okay with this kind of attention. They will tell you if it is okay or not, if they donât want to talk or not, and then you need to respect that.
Some people might be fine with it but need to get to know a person first. Some people might not be cool with it at all. Above all consent is key.
You can never know, and you should never assume, that soliciting someone with messages like this is okay.
It is above all important that everyone feel -safe- and comfortable when talking and sharing things that are as personal as fetishes and desires. That is what I think.
This is the reason that I donât post pictures of myself, donât roleplay immediately with asking partners before speaking to them first, donât hand out contact information without a little conversation first, and donât roleplay in first person or respond to first person rp asks.
In fact, I try to avoid writing in first person usually as well. It is too personal, and not everyone is comfortable with that.
Actually itâs the reason that my fetish blog is separate from my main blog, to be frank.
Off of tumblr I have been pursued and harassed by people who have assumed I want their attentions. Even after making it clear to them that I did not feel comfortable with that, I was assured that I was wrong and that I was âmeant to beâ with them. That I would -see-.
That is not cool. That is what drives people away and makes them afraid of our communities.
Please respect personal boundaries so that everyone can feel safe, happy, and welcome in their fetish space.
tangentwithtanner
blakekathryn
andulkaphoto
turnnoffyourmind
areudirty
