Ghostg00p

Really truly yearning for a boyfriend or qpp who I can be physically affectionate with to go on vacations with and try new restaurants with and then cuddle while watching a movie

being cupioromantic on valentines day feels like being beat to death with clubs for 24 hours straight ngl

What I wouldn’t give to meet even one other aspec person in real life.

The loneliness that comes with being aroace needs to be talked about more. The fear that close friends will get partners and have their focus on their partner, changing their dynamics with their platonic relationships is terrifying. I've been going through this fear a lot recently. Going from being your close friend's priority to being pushed down because of a different type of relationship is so distressing. People in romantic relationships prioratise one person rather than splitting their priority among all their relationships. Which what i think makes being aromantic so lonely and so different, of course we can still have close friends and have those connections with them, but often times those friends will go off to have romantic relationships, thus changing that relationship dynamic. And a lot of the time, even if people dont think so, hold romantic relationships over platonic. I hate it so much, I'm queerplatonic, I feel so much intense love and care for a lot of my friends, especially my close ones and them getting into romantic relationships don't change how i feel about them, but it feels like im going to get left behind, maybe thats selfish of me. I've been going through a lot of crisis sbout my identity as an aro person, im confident in it, but i feel so anxious about getting left behind when the people I know get romantic relationships.

I wish people cared more about platonic relationships.

expedition 33 is a game about what would happen if you died and your family went insane fighting over your minecraft world you made when you were 12

being the only aro/ace person in your friend group where almost everyone is in a stable, loving, long term relationship has to be some kind of torture. not being able to relate to them or their conversation topics brings me an immeasurable loneliness every breathing moment i feel so alien.

being the only aro/ace person in your friend group where almost everyone is in a stable, loving, long term relationship has to be some kind of torture. not being able to relate to them or their conversation topics brings me an immeasurable loneliness every breathing moment i feel so alien.

liking someone platonically is so embarrassing like. yeah i admire you. yeah i think about you all the time. yeah i look forward to every time i see you even if it's only for a minute. yeah it's all platonic and yeah i couldn't explain this because it'd sound romantic. fucking hell

I think the worst part about being aromantic and not wanting to be is that since it’s a lack of something, it’s hard to fully accept it cuz there’s always the hope that maybe you’ll meet the right person and live happily ever after

someone needs to invent a dating app for aroace ppl who dont get crushes but still want the relationship experience i think itd be a hit