Get Your Bliss On

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I often talk about choice, but the Law of Correspondence brings in another piece beyond using foresight and wisdom. It is the energy that we are choosing to align ourselves with. When we choose to tell everyone that we know how miserable we are and how disappointed we are with our life and how much we hate things, then we are choosing to align with lots of negative energy which will bring in more things for us to be miserable over or complain about. When we spend most of our time with people who are making poor choices and residing in hate and misery, we too will draw in misfortune. However, if most of our time is spent in gratitude/appreciation, smiling, laughing, acknowledging the blessings, and seeing the good in things, then we will bring in more things that make us smile and are blessings. If we spend most of our time around people who are positive, encouraging, happy, etc. then we will draw in more positive people and things. The Law of Correspondence reminds us that we draw in whatever we give most of our attention to. This can be a bit tricky, because if we are saying we are happy but don't feel it or believe it we create conflicting energy patterns and the one we feel and believe will override the words. The beautiful thing about choice, is that no matter what is happening to us we get to choose our response. Unfavorable things can happen, but if we choose to focus on the blessings and stay in gratitude, we will transmute the unfavorable to something favorable. This too helps to minimize negative things happening to us. This is also why it is so important to savor and remain in our joys and successes and keep them strong in our heart, and why it is important to release and free ourselves from the unfavorable things as quickly as possible. Today calls us to be aware of what we are choosing to align with and focus on, and to choose what is favorable and positive to experience.

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In this world, there will always be unpredictable factors. This is also naturally a part of being blessed with choice and each person getting to choose things for themselves. Things are always shifting and changing, and that is also a natural part of life. We do not need to block or stop these things, nor do we need to know everything before it happens. However, if we choose to remain in Divine Light in this world, then it will protect us as we face the uncertainties of life and the unpredictability of this world. Divine Light is ignited within us and within our life, when we choose to live in Spiritual Values, especially truth and integrity. These are very core values, especially when lies, deception, and manipulation are present. Some may wonder why it is important to be in truth and integrity when so many aren't. It is because it provides contrast to the lies, and it keeps Divine Light activated in our world. Without this, we only create greater hardships. However, when we uphold it, we inspire others to join us. When we ignite Divine Light with truth and integrity, we set forth an energy that calms turmoil within us and in our world. Today reminds us that we have the power to shift things within us, and it is placed in us so that it can never be taken from us. It is a call to activate and strengthen Divine Light with your choices today.

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There are many people seeking recognition for many things. Just look at all of the influencers out there. People will do most anything for a few likes and views on their channels. This has grown more extreme, dramatic, and ridiculous in recent years. Some days, it feels like we have become so far removed from being recognized for things that are truly important, like our qualities and values. These things have actually become quite radical these days, only because so few have been standing in them. I am old enough to remember when they were the norm, and glad they are not totally gone. I even see a bit of a resurgence of them coming in, which is quite nice to see. Today is one of those days, where people are likely to be recognized for adhering to values. Just because others may want to do things in cheap and sloppy ways, doesn't mean we have to. Adhering to doing quality work with integrity is a beautiful thing to be recognized for. It is a form of caring and upholding Divine Presence in what we do. Our world could really use more of this. This support is often there secretly, but rarely formally recognized. The key is that we do it anyways and know that it is having a positive impact whether we are acknowledged for it or whether others do it. Today, try keeping your focus on quality and integrity. Take the time to recognize someone who works in this way. They are a beautiful gem in this world, and should be supported openly and not just secretly.

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Choices. On one hand simple and basic and on the other, full of deep layers with many things to consider. It is easy to make choices only for ourselves or only based on what will please others. The ideal is when the two ends of the spectrum coincide, meaning that what is best for us will also be pleasing for others. While I am a huge fan of doing what is best for us, I do realize that we need to consider the impact of our choices on others and the potential consequences that they can have. In reality, we are not the only ones affected by the choices that we make. However, we cannot always put what is best for us aside and sacrifice our own needs and self all the time just to please others. We often think our choices only impact this point and moment in time. However, they always impact any existence that we are connected to, past and future. There is a connection between it all. I find that I start with what is best for me, since most of the time I am the only one directly impacted by my choice. However, I stop and ask myself if I am creating any real danger or harm to another with my choice. Often times, I also consider if there is a way to balance what I want/need with something positive for someone else. I do this, because I know the action I take with someone else also affects what I will receive. For example, a tough love no will still bring positive things. However, a revengeful no can bring harm and detriment. When needs/wants are balanced like doing an errand that I need to do, but at a time that is convenient for connecting with someone else is a balance. Today reminds us to take time to really consider the impact our choices are making, and to consider how we are working with or against others through them. Sometimes, we cannot accommodate others and take care of our needs. However, most of the time, a good balance can be found.

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We should never underestimate the power of choice. There is a reason that it is considered a God given gift. In many ways, it is what allows us to get out of difficulty. Choice means that we don't have to be stuck in something forever, as we are allowed to choose something different at any time. However, most people want to believe that they do not have any choice or options, mostly because they don't like the consequences of their choices or don't want to put in the effort needed for them. However, choices are not just about change. Each one we make affects our past and present. A choice today can clear the karmic impact of the past, heal previous pain, or be the catalyst to break free from unfavorable patterns and circumstances. We always have multiple paths and options to move forward with, and each choice we make today determines what our future can provide for us. If we choose to be self-destructive or ruin our health at this point, we are creating a very rough future even if we are not impacted in the moment. If we choose paths of unconditional love and Divine Alignment, we create a future full of blessings. The key is always in learning to choose wisely and to have the foresight to see what we are actually choosing, instead of what we hope to be choosing. On the positive side, if we make a choice that isn't working or that leads down unfavorable paths, we can choose something different. I truly believe that this is one of the most powerful tools we have to work with, and one of the most underrated or underutilized tools. Today reminds us to give careful consideration to what we are choosing. It reminds us that we are more powerful than we realize, when we implement God given tools into our life. We are not helpless, even when we live in a world full of challenges.

Weekly Focus – Confessing, Shifting, and Standing In Your Power

We set ourselves free by knowing our value and worth, and by standing in it.  When we are strong in this, we do not have to compete with others, battle with them, prove anything, and can be as patient as we need to be.  Nothing has to be rushed or done quickly.  The stronger we stand in our own power; the less power others have over us.  For people to control us, they have to have a weakness to work with or find our insecurities and uncertainties.

When we know our value and worth, we are aware of our insecurities and uncertainties but are consistently working to strengthen them and can protect them.  If we ignore or deny them, then we leave openings for others to control us or trigger us.  Those who need to compete and prove themselves, tend to be the ones who are insecure.  They seek validation, because they do not know or feel their worth.  Their worth resides in external approval and physical things, and not within themselves.  There is no satisfaction with themselves, so they feel a need to appear or believe they are superior to others.

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Let's face it, there is not really a bad time to help someone in need, rescue an animal, or do something favorable for the Earth. However, today's energy especially supports doing this. When this energy is present things tend to go even better in these situations and greater success can be experienced. It is always easy to judge someone's situation when we are not in it, and what I have learned is the more we do that or turn a blind eye where we can help, the more likely we are to find ourselves in their shoes. There will always be people who take advantage of things, but most people or situations just need a little kindness and caring. None of us can truly know what it is like to be in a situation until we find ourselves there. I can assure you having experienced plenty of hardships that were beyond my control, that when you are hungry a meal is a wonderful thing. To have someone mend your clothes when you can't afford to buy something is a true gift. To be given shelter, when you have nowhere to go and are unable to provide for yourself is a prayer answered. I am not saying to permanently give someone a free ride, but helping those in need will always bless you in addition to the receiver. Today calls us to offer up some kindness. You can create an exchange with people, even if the exchange is not equal. This is why animals that are rescued are so grateful, even if they have some issues to work through. When we care for the Earth, it also provides and flourishes for us. Today asks us to take even a small step towards helping. Even small steps will nourish our abundance energy, and what seems like nothing to you, can mean the world for someone in need.

June supports us in being creative and carrying out our own ideas and plans.  If we are committed to staying with things all the way to the end of them, then we will create a favorable path forward.  However, we must embrace the process and have patience.  Each step needs to be honored; and has gifts to bestow upon us as we learn from it.  Efforts put forth now, bring results later; and we see the results of efforts that we have already made.  Each thing comes in its own season or time; and we cannot hasten the harvest.

This time that calls us to be in true abundance.  When we are fully in this space, we may have goals; but we long for nothing.  There is no sense of deprivation or suffering, regardless of what we have to work with.  As we rest into the knowing, that we always will have enough; then we ease the stress and fears that block things from getting to us.  This takes practice and we have to continue helping ourselves.  There are no free rides; although some try to take advantage of the kindness and generosity of others.  However, those who do, bring more challenges upon themselves.  Remember that true abundance originates from within us; and is not connected to how much wealth or possessions we have.  There are many wealthy people who live in deprivation; and many with few possessions or little money, who are very abundant.  Since abundance resides within us, it can’t be taken from us; however, we can disconnect from it and fall into lies of deprivation.  The more we work with abundance and connect with it; the more present it is, and the more successes that we see in our life.

Even if we have good fortune come through in the way of wealth, it is important to remain practical and responsible with those resources.  Our first priority is to pay off all debts and loans; and not do extravagant things.  If we focus on extravagance, then we will lose most or all of what we gain.  If we are responsible with it, then we strengthen the foundations that we have to work from; and bring refinement to things.  This is the essence of being comfortable without being excessive.  We want to look at the partnership we have with our responsibilities and obligations.  Responsible actions, lead us to be able to ease up on the commitments and obligations that we have.  It is important that we follow through on any that we have or keep; and it is worth reflecting on them to see if they are giving us true value or not, and to know what we are supporting and nourishing through them.

It is important that we honor what is best for us.  We do not want to allow others to persuade us into things that are not right for us.  We can listen to advice and suggestions; but are not obligated to take them.  We should take time to carefully consider our path.  We need to step up and deal with things, even if we don’t like it.  They will not go away, and we will have to face them at some point.  The longer we procrastinate and put them off, the harder they will be to deal with.  When we face them, we may find that they are not as hard to get through as we expected; or things simply flow well, when we are proactive.

I welcome you to have patience with the process of things.  What if you honor each step along the way?

I welcome you to be in true abundance.  What if there is no deprivation or suffering, when you are in this space; regardless of what you have to work with?

I welcome you to use any financial good fortune to pay off debts and loans.  What if this allows you to strengthen the foundations that you have to work with; and supports you in living comfortably?

I welcome you to honor what is best for you; and don’t allow others to persuade you into things that are not good for you.  What if this is part of dealing with things, and staying out of greater detriments?

From June 1st through June 21st, we find that partnerships, relationships, and friendships are an important part of the successes that we make.  Those who are real connections want things to be good for us.  At this time, we are able to regenerate with those who balance us.  There must be a balance between polarities – i.e. giving and taking, masculine and feminine, outgoing and reserved.  It is the balancing and harmonizing of polarities that create strong successes.  This time favors all types of new relationships; as long as no one is taking advantage of the other.

We need to know when to help someone, and when to step back from things.  It is always nice to help others; but we must not enable them in manipulation, or get persuaded by guilt tactics.  It is important to stay in Divine Principles and Christ Consciousness; even when people try to break our Spirit and things are challenging.  Those who want to take from us, when they have much more than us and we are in challenges; will never do things for our benefit.  It is tempting to give into things for earthly comfort; but we must be careful of what we have to sacrifice to have that.  It is never worth sacrificing morals, values, or Divine Connection for it.

It is important to work from abundance, kindness, and compassion; however, that doesn’t mean that we should allow others to take advantage of us.  We need to discern who is truly in need; and who is only pretending to be in need.  I find that creating exchanges is a great way to test the waters; and will sort out those who want to take but don’t want to give.  Those in true need are happy to give something in return; as it nourishes their self-worth and integrity.  Even if the exchange is small and not “equal”; it will work.  If we are the one in need of something, then we want to let others give to us; but if we can offer something in exchange, that would be a kind thing to do.  We sometimes forget that allowing others to give, is a gift; so, our receiving alone is sometimes the gift.

I welcome you to partner with those who balance and harmonize with you.  What if this helps to create strong successes?

I welcome you to know when to help someone and when to step back from things.  What if helping someone is great; but enabling them in manipulation, serves no one?

I welcome you to work from abundance, kindness, and compassion.  What if you can do this, without letting others take advantage of you?

From June 22nd through the end of the month shows that we need to learn to come into stillness; for this is the space that gifts, blessings, and wisdom are waiting for us.  We need to learn to be flexible in the Divine Self.  As we do this, we embrace the moment and can have fun or be spontaneous.  However, we do not want to confuse that with being impulsive; which does not serve us well.  We want to center into our wholeness; and not just fractioned pieces of ourselves.  We want to allow Spirit to flow into the earthly aspects; and that allows earthly aspects to balance and harmonize.  We want to allow both sides of something to be honored and embraced for the wisdom it has to share.  The Divine Self is our mentor; and if we will listen to its wisdom, we find success.

Power battles surface, and real leaders emerge.  Real leaders encourage us to be strong on our own; and to work harmoniously with others.  They remove hierarchical structures; and let people choose what they want.  We can be a leader; even if we are not in a formal position.  We do this by being a living example of how to do things; or being the first to do something.  It is important that we stay out of power battles with others.  We want to be confident, but not arrogant.  We want to strengthen others, not judge them.  Those who are not working for the people, fall from power; or, may be exposed for illegal and/or unethical behavior.  Things that require us to turn our power over to others, is not in our best interest.

I welcome you to have stillness within you.  What if there are gifts, blessings, and wisdom waiting for you in that space?

I welcome you to realize that leaders allow you to choose what you want; and do not require you to turn your power over.  What if confidence keeps you from being at the mercy of leaders with ill intentions?

In Summary, honor each step of the process and have the patience to see it all the way through, remember that true abundance originates within you, be practical and responsible with resources, honor what is best for you, partner with those who balance and harmonize you, know when to help someone and when to step back, provide kindness to others without allowing them to take advantage of you, learn to be in stillness, stand in confidence but not arrogance.

What To Focus Our Actions On

From June 1st – June 28th, we benefit from being in observation.  It is important to allow others to resolve their own issues; even if we listen while they talk things through.  It is a time to explore different ideas and philosophies.  If we have challenges with others, it is important to see things from more than our own perspective.  To resolve things, we need to look at things through their eyes.  This is how true solutions are found.

Our mind is not very clear at this time, so we are best to set aside important conversations, making major decisions, signing contracts or having medical procedures done.  Our intuition is strong, we can process things that we are experiencing, and it is easier to look at things from different perspectives; but logical processes are not good.  It is better to focus on creative things.  We want to honor what we need to do for ourselves and our body.  It is wise to minimize time on electronics and technology; and to spend time connecting with our Soul Self.  This is a great time to fast, and boost our nutrition.  We have to be careful, as our bodies are vulnerable to catching things; and those who are over-achievers or who don’t take care of their health, may become sick.  It is wise to choose to rest and take a break, than be forced into it through illness.  A little preventative care, can go a long way.

I welcome you to look at things through other people’s eyes.  What if this helps you to find solutions and resolve differences?

I welcome you to honor what you need to do for yourself.  What if a little preventative care, keeps you healthy and well?

From June 29th through the end of the month, we may experience blocks and obstacles.  This lets us know that there are things that we need to learn and personal adjustments that need to be made; before we move forward.  We want to focus on strengthening Divine Qualities; especially patience.  We need to get honest with ourselves, and see where we are out of Divine Alignment.  Our intentions may be good, but that doesn’t mean that we are in Divine Alignment.  This is a time to look at how we can step into Divine Service, and let go of doing things because of the money.

We see how much we are able to stand in our own worth and value.  The less we need approval from others, the more we are in our worth and value.  In this space, there is nothing to prove.  We do things because we love them and they bring us joy; not because of the status, fame, fortune, and recognition that they bring.  Remember, our value and worth resides within us; and not in external things or people.  We see who is a true friend or partner; and who is just there for their own benefit.  Real partners are there for us in good times and challenges.  Others are only there when it benefits them; and they care nothing about our successes.

I welcome you to strengthen Divine Qualities within you.  What if this naturally brings you into Divine Alignment?

I welcome you to know your own value and worth; and who the true relationships are that can also see that.  What if you have nothing to prove to others, when you are in this space?

What To Focus Our Thoughts On

This month, we want to focus on having fun and doing things spontaneously.  This doesn’t have to cost anything, but it helps to break up stuck energy.  We want to tap into our own inner child, and allow it to remind us of things, to teach us that life is about more than just work, and that real successes come from enjoying what we are doing.  We want to allow that inner child to inspire us to create and follow the things that are important to us.  We want to be innocent but not naïve; so, we need to use caution with those who try to get us to act without thinking.  We want to take time to think through something before purchasing it; and to research it, so that we don’t get buyer’s remorse.  This is about combining the enthusiasm of the child within us and the knowledge of the Soul Self or elder that also resides within us.  When these two connect, life can be truly magical.

Many feel their confidence surge and are willing to try things that they didn’t feel strong enough for before.  The key is to not let this become arrogance; and to think that we are better than others or get to have power over them.  When we are truly confident, we do not control others.  Instead, we help them to develop their skills and become strong.  It is wise to surround ourselves with authentically wise people; who help us learn what to do, but do not do things for us.  These people do not chase us or use force with us.  They know that we must come to them, ask for help, and implement the wisdom they offer us.

I welcome you to work with your inner child and inner elder.  What if the two of these working together, helps life to be magical?

I welcome you to realize that confident and wise people, do not have to control people.  What if surrounding yourself with confident and wise people, helps you to become strong on your own?

Connecting To Our Soul Self

From June 1st – June 13th, we find many working with kindness.  True love is not always as spectacular initially; but it lasts us a lifetime.  It often has a very practical and responsible aspect to it; but it always shows up and meets its responsibilities and obligations.  We want to honor relationships that are based in compassion and unconditional love.  Whether it is a love relationship or people in general, we always benefit from being in this space.  It bestows upon us peace and calm; reminding us that Spirit overcomes any challenge that we face.  It also allows us to always leave a favorable imprint on those who we interact with.

We may see aspects or people from our past resurface.  This includes past loves.  Some things could be big triggers for us; and it is important that we don’t go into spirals and reactions.  Still others, could be a second chance with someone who was a true love for us.  This is a time to clear triggers by working with unconditional love for ourselves and others; and to be in forgiveness, even if we choose not to stay in contact with someone.  This moves us in a favorable future.

I welcome you to honor and appreciate any relationships which are based in compassion and unconditional love.  What if you always benefit from being in this space?

I welcome you to clear past triggers with unconditional love and forgiveness.  What if this allows you to move towards a favorable future; even if you don’t choose to keep the connections?

From June 14th through the end of the month, things can be turbulent and drama or unexpected upheaval surface.  We do best to keep our schedules open and flexible, and to break things into small pieces; so that we can make accomplishments, but leave things easily if need be.  Our mind is not clear, and this is not a good time for important conversations, signing contracts, making important decisions, or having medical procedures.  Our mind is easily distracted; especially where there is chaos and uncertainty.  We may want to keep some supplies on hand, as storms surface without warning.  This means that we want to stay close to where we can get to safety.  Most storms should be natural, but they can still be damaging and we should not take chances.

Our Free Spirit energy is active.  The Soul Self wants to come out and play.  If we do make choices on things, we must be very careful; as they will impact all existences, for better or worse.  We are called to stop and observe nature and its processes; and to learn from its wisdom and the connection that we have to it.  It is important to honor natural rhythms and cycles.  We want to focus on what holds true value and take time for the people who are important to us.  Nothing should be taken for granted; and we want to be in appreciation and gratitude.   This is a great time to enjoy seasonal activities and to take a trip or explore new places and things.  We want to let ourselves flow with things naturally, and not have destinations or structure.  This is about enjoying the moment; and allowing serendipitous connections.

I welcome you to keep your schedule open and flexible.  What if this helps you to get things done, but still handle anything that comes up unexpectedly?

I welcome you to embrace the Free Spirit within you.  What if this allows you to align with natural rhythms, connect with natural process, and to explore wonderful new things; all by being in the moment and taking nothing for granted?

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As much as it can feel like things resurface to drive us crazy, it isn't true. Most of the time, they are resurfacing because some aspect of them is unresolved or has been repressed or suppressed or put on the proverbial back burner. However, not everything that resurfaces is negative either. Today is reminding us that there can be aspects of ourselves that we have forgotten about or pushed aside. Perhaps we are not nourishing our Soul Energy enough or giving ourselves the healthy indulgences that we need. Perhaps we haven't been standing up for ourselves. Sometimes, what resurfaces is a second chance at something or the opportunity to do something that we couldn't previously. Today calls us to reflect on the aspects of ourselves that we have pushed aside, ignored, or forgotten about. It is a time to consider if we need to make them active again or if they can be helpful for us now and as we move forward. It is time to honor these aspects in favorable ways and integrate them so that they can help us take the actions that are needed.

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Work can often times be what we dread. Practical and responsible also seem boring for many people. However, they can be quite different as we shift our perspective around them. We are designed to work by choice and not force, and the things we need to do, feel as if we are being forced to do them and not something that we are choosing. This is often because we look at something as only a job. We have lost our desire to be able to give through what brings us joy. Work has many layers to it, and in its pure state is really about making a commitment to joyously give and contribute. It used to be simply about meeting our needs to eat, so we would tend to the cattle or work on the garden. This didn't feel as much like work. Our bodies were soaking up the Sun, and there was a direct connection between our actions and what we received. Current day jobs and responsibilities are still meeting those needs but in a detached way. The action is not as directly connected to the reward as it once was. This in turn leads to a harder appreciation for what we have. Combined with a system that forces many into undesirable work for survival or basic needs along with often lacking the connection with our land and the health of being outside and to what we are receiving, it brings in a heaviness. The key is to not overwork, and to find ways to live within our means, even when it feels a bit sparse. If we don't work at all, we also lose balance in our lives. Work can give us a sense of purpose and value. It is part of showing that we care about ourselves and those we love. If we only played, most would soon get bored. Having responsibilities, is not so much about carrying burdens but about remaining engaged in life and giving something. This is why many struggle when they retire. They lose some of their sense of balance in life and have to restructure their way of living. The reality is they don't become absent of responsibilities; the responsibilities simply shift. Today calls us to see the value of our responsibilities and obligations, and to embrace the gift they are offering us. They keep us out of extremes, as long as we are not excessive with them.

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I find personal checkpoints to be important and valuable to do. These are when we take a little time for our own personal awareness. We go through so many shifts and changes in life, but until we pause and look back on where we have been, we often don't see how much has shifted and changed in our life. We can also go through life day after day, following routines, and not tune into any goals or things that we would like to strive for. Of course, they may not happen exactly as we would like, but that doesn't mean that we shouldn't have anything to focus on. While I am very much a person who likes to embrace the journey and realize that most plans are going to get changed, I think having a focus or goal can still be important and valuable to have. However, as I age in life, the more that I focus on qualities I want to live in and what I want life to feel like over a specific item or possession. Yes, there is an aspect of wanting to be clear on things, but there is also a need to realize that what we think we want often conflicts with what we truly want or what can truly fulfill us. By leaving some room and flexibility with things, we leave room for Divine Opportunities to bless us. I find in doing this, many times I end up with something that I enjoy more than what I was focusing on, or I find myself getting wonderful and valuable experiences that I wouldn't have had otherwise. Today calls us to look at where we have been, where we are, and where we want to go. As you look at that, are you focusing on material things or a way of living and qualities? Are you considering if your goals align with your future needs? Finally, have you left room for Divine Opportunities or Creation to happen, aka possibilities that you are not looking at or have not considered?

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In this world, it can sometimes feel like there are not any truly nice people left. Those who claim to be nice and caring, often get aggressive or even violent. Those that claim they support peace, are supporting wars. There are even many who claim to be Godly or have a strong faith, but then spend their time residing in sins or doing sinful things instead of working in virtues. Yet, I believe under all of the distortions and misguided information that people are working from, most really do want to do good for our world. Most are willing to fight for what they believe is good, whether it actually is or not. This shows me that most want goodness and kindness to prevail, even when they are supporting unfavorable things. The key with this is to focus first on our own selves and our own lives. These days so many are pulled into global affairs, but they do not implement the values they seek in their own lives and communities. Things have been made political to divide us, and when we are busy hating half of the population, we are losing a lot of time that could be spent on goodness. Each of us has the power to set kindness and goodness in motion and it doesn't cost a thing. It happens when we check on our neighbors, care about our families, hold the door open for someone, nourish community gardens, give our children positive opportunities, volunteer our time at places like shelters and simply do good deeds for those that need some help. Today reminds us, that if we want more goodness and kindness in the world, then we need to start being in that space ourselves. The more we are in it, the more others will also be in it. Remember, the world changes as we change ourselves. What we see in media and the news, does not always indicate what most people want, as it is designed to influence our perceptions and not share the truth. We need to be less influenced and start existing in the qualities that we want.

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Sometimes, we can get so set on our own ideas that we actually end up blocking ourselves. Working with others, is not just like kids playing nicely at the playground. Instead, it is about learning and interacting. Everyone has skills and wisdom, and if we cut ourselves off from interactions, then we also cut ourselves off from the skills and wisdom that they have to offer. Numerous times I have been having a conversation with someone, and an idea is sparked in that conversation because of who they are, the experiences they have had, what they have learned, or even due to their perception of things. As we are willing to work as a team, then each person's knowledge and skills get to interact and play off of each other. Sort of like that old word game where someone says a word that comes to mind, then the other person says what first comes to mind from that word, then the first person says what comes to mind from the other person's word. Eventually, you have a bunch of pieces that trigger bigger thoughts and connections. Today reminds us that being in fellowship with others, can help us to find solutions, get fresh ideas, and generate stronger successes than working alone. Yes, there are times, that we need to do something on our own too. However, we also want to embrace these times that favor working with others. It is through fellowship that we create positive experiences with others, and when there are positive experiences, people tend to want to put more care and effort into what they are doing. That in turn, leads to stronger results, which leave people with both a sense of accomplishment and a sense of enjoyment. It becomes a winning situation.