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Stress level : Okey
I'm here to look at Kakashi Gibbs Hotch content, and talk about him, sometimes, because humaning is hard, a bit, sometimes.
I like Skyrim and Fallout 4. I clearly don't want to live in there.
Since october 2025 : I'm in a NCIS mode. (Yes, i take care of the US propagandas in it.)
Since December 2025 : Criminal Minds Mode ON. Crushing on Hotchner, even if Reid is right there and was one of my teenage crush. Brain, Why The Fuck.
Instructions manual under cut :
I'm bad at "planning" the thoughts and needs of others, i'm uncomfortable with the idea of "giving affection" to people (heart emojis are for cat photos, sincere respect to those who use them for their mutuals), i will not react if you talk about your grandma' health or your broken car, and i heard that i don't know where "social limits" end when it comes to private questions (so i'm sweating at the idea to ask even if i'm curious).
BUT
I smile a lot (in my head), the idea of hurting someone cold me instant, and I'm careful about my intentions. I'm uncomfortable judging people. You can tell me clearly if something has hurt you or just made you feel uncomfortable, i will sincerly try to understand to not reproduce it, and i will certainly not throw rocks at you. I like minds games only on TV.
So i'm not cold and jugmental, i'm just not a warm person.
@tataisinterract is my IRL best friend. She's chill and chilling.
Reminder : hurting people isn't fun for the vast majority of humans. Breath. Take your time to aknowledge your emotions without judging it. Now : what do you need, and are your intentions fitting to your beliefs?
Reminder 2 : Connecting with people means seeing the pain you potentially give them. I think the solution is to focus on the connection with this person, and avoid "thoughts traps" about your value.
| it's what we call it a "Gros pÊpère". He uses his pretty privilege without any regret. The background is ugly : landlord's art.
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i saw you asking for fluff requests so... perhaps it's cold out, and the reader is out with hotch (maybe going out to a crime scene or smth) and the readers shivering and hotch looks awfully warm in his coat, so ofc the reader just goes up and asks for a hug! (just to warm up ofc. no other reason to ask your hot boss for a hug đ¤) (maybe the reader manages to slide into his jacket)
tysm! <33
The Jacket Incident | [A.H]
Pairing: Aaron Hotchner x gn!Reader
CW: it's just cold and you were stupid enough to not wear a warm jacket. Also reader is shorter than Hotch. Fluff.
WC: 0.7k
Why is reader literally me in this one. I'm so dumb and not good at staying warm.
           The wind howled through the dark, desolate street, biting through the thin layers of your windbreaker as you and Hotch made your way back to the crime scene. Youâd been out there for what felt like hours, and no amount of walking had kept the cold from seeping into your bones. Your fingers tingled with numbness despite being shoved deep into your pockets, and a shiver ran down your spine for the hundredth time.
           Hotch, of course, looked completely unbothered. He stood a few feet away, his demeanor calm and composed despite the freezing temperature. You couldnât help but envy him a little. While you were practically freezing, he seemed like he hadnât even noticed the cold.
           As you shifted from one foot to the other, trying to get some feeling back into your toes, you watched him finish his conversation. The way he stood, tall and commanding, only seemed to emphasize the fact that he was probably the warmest person in your vicinity. His jacket, the heavy, padded one you both wore during cases in colder climates, was unzipped - wide open, practically inviting you inside.
           You bit your lip, glancing around, trying to work up the nerve to do what youâd been thinking about for the last ten minutes. He was your boss, but more importantly, he was your boyfriend, which gave you a bit more confidence. And the thought of his warmth was too tempting to ignore. Bracing yourself, you took a few steps closer until you were standing beside him, shivering dramatically to make your point.
           Hotch turned his head slightly, his brow furrowing as he glanced down at you. "Are you cold?" he asked, his voice gentle, but there was a hint of playfulness in his eyes.
           You nodded, giving him your best pitiful look. "Freezing," you muttered, teeth chattering for good measure.
           Hotchâs gaze softened, and he let out a small sigh, his eyes flicking to your jacket before returning to your face. For a moment, you thought he was going to suggest you head back to the car, but instead, he smiled - just a tiny, private smile.
           Without a word, he opened his arms, his jacket still hanging open, and gave a slight nod toward the space between them. "Come here," he said, his tone warm and inviting, holding the edges of his jacket.
           Your heart skipped a beat at the offer, and without hesitating, you stepped closer, sliding your way into his open jacket. As soon as you were enveloped by his warmth, the world outside seemed to disappear. The heat of his body instantly chased away the cold, and you sighed in relief, nestling against his chest.
           Hotchâs arms wrapped around you instinctively, the thick jacket falling around your shoulders like a protective barrier from the wind. He smelled like his usual aftershave, mixed with the faint scent of coffee and something distinctly him - it was comforting. His hands settled gently on your back, holding you close, and you felt his chin rest lightly on the top of your head.
           "You shouldâve said something sooner," he murmured, his voice rumbling through his chest.
You grinned, your cheek pressed against his shirt. "Figured youâd be too busy being all stern and in charge to notice."
           Hotch chuckled softly, the sound vibrating through you, and you could feel the coldness in your body start to melt away. "I always notice," he replied quietly, his voice a little softer than usual, the warmth in his tone matching the heat of his body.
           You snuggled further into his chest, your hands slipping around his waist as you relaxed into his embrace. The cold air seemed like a distant memory now, replaced by the steady beat of his heart and the comforting weight of his arms around you.
           "Thanks for sharing your warmth," you mumbled, your words muffled against him.
           "Anytime," Hotch replied, his hand giving your back a gentle rub. "Iâm always here to keep you warm."
           The two of you stood there for a while longer, wrapped up in each other, you were a sight for sore eyes. The wind and the cold now just background noise.
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Hiii!! Could you do another non bau rich fem!reader where she gave Aaron lots of designer stuff and he starts wearing them to work? Like maybe ties, cuff links, and like an LV duffel bag and the team is just like â??? Woah dude whereâd you get that??â
Aaron Hotchner was usually not one for excess. His wardrobe was practical and professional, his tastes minimalistic, and his life, outside of Jack, revolved around efficiency and exuding authority on the job. Sure he had splurged occasionally on a stray high-quality tie here and there as well as his Rolex watch. At least that was until you entered his life. Â
The first gift was a tie â a deep navy one in silk with subtle pinstripes. It came in a sleek wrapped box with some designer brand he had never even heard of before. Youâd handed it to him with a casual smile, brushing off his initial protests with a light, âAaron, I saw it and thought of you. Let me spoil you for once.â Â
He wore it the next day, paired with his standard black suit, and noticed how it caught the light in the mirror. âLooks good,â he muttered to himself, brushing his hand over it. As hesitant as he had been to accept it, he was thankful for the present and happy that you'd chosen one that wasn't smothered in logos or brand names.
Then came the cuff links. They were sterling silver and engraved with his initials. He opened the box late one evening after you handed it to him over dinner. âYou didnât have to,â he said softly, though his smile betrayed how much he loved them. Â
âOf course, I didnât have to,â you replied, leaning in to press a kiss to his temple. âBut you deserve nice things, Aaron. You do so much good without even expecting a thanks.â Â
And so it continued. A Louis Vuitton duffel bag for his work trips, a black leather wallet that somehow managed to look even more professional than the one heâd carried for years, and a collection of even more ties that were understated yet undeniably luxurious and seemed to multiply in his closet every so often. Â
At first, he rotated the items slowly into his everyday wardrobe, unsure if they would draw attention. But one particularly chaotic morning, he grabbed the LV duffel, clipped on the cuff links, and shrugged into a jacket before heading into the office having gotten an urgent notification for a case. Â
It didnât take long for the team to notice. Â
âUh⌠Hotch?â Morganâs voice cut through the usual buzz in the conference room as Hotch entered. âIs that a Louis Vuitton bag youâre carrying?â Â
Hotch glanced at him briefly, setting the duffel down by the door before striding towards the front of the room to grab the file Garcia was holding outstretched for him. âYes. Why?â Â
Morgan blinked. âWhy? Man, youâve been holding out on us. Since when do you roll up looking like you just stepped out of GQ Magazine?â Â
Emily leaned back in her chair, eyebrows raised. âIs that a new tie, too? Thatâs at least Tom Ford.â Â
Hotch adjusted his tie instinctively. âItâs not. Itâs Brioni.â Â
âOh, excuse us,â JJ chimed in throwing her hands up and exchanging an amused glance with Emily. Â
âIâm sorry,â Spencer Reid piped up, pushing his glasses up his nose. âAre those cuff links monogrammed?â Â
âOkay, seriously,â Morgan said, crossing his arms. âWhatâs going on, Hotch? You win the lottery or something? Cause if your salary is high enough for those purchases Imma have to talk to Strauss about a raise.â Â
Hotch, shrugged lightly as he opened his case file. âNo. My girlfriend has⌠a habit of giving gifts.â Â
The room fell silent for a beat before Emilyâs jaw dropped. âWait, girlfriend? Youâve been holding out on us in more ways than one!â
"Who is she I need details," Garcia cut into the conversation, her excitement starting to bubble over.
JJ smirked. âAre you telling me she just gives you designer gifts casually? I agree with Garcia, who is this woman?â Â
Hotch allowed himself the smallest of smiles as he glanced up from his paperwork. âSomeone who insists I deserve the finer things.â Â
âDamn,â Morgan muttered, shaking his head. âWhere can I find one of those?â Â
âMaybe start with charm school,â Emily teased. Â
As the team bantered, Hotchâs phone buzzed on his desk. A message from you:Â Â
Miss you already. Hope youâre putting the cuff links to good use. Dinner at my place when you get back?
He smiled quickly at his phone before typing back a quick reply. Â
Always. Iâll bring the wine. Â
When he looked up, the team was staring at him, curious. âWhat?â he asked, his tone amused, knowing fully well that they wouldn't stop bothering him about you until he eventually agreed to let them meet you. Â
âNothing,â Emily said, though her grin suggested otherwise. âJust trying to imagine Aaron Hotchner in love with a rich fashionista.â Â
âNot just a fashionista,â Morgan added, gesturing toward the duffel. âAn angel sent from the heavens, apparently.â Â
Hotch shook his head, lifting his file up in the air in a quick and smooth motion as if to remind them why they were there. âFocus, everyone. We have a case.â Â
A few days later, when you saw Aaron again, he mentioned the teamâs reaction with a mix of exasperation and amusement. Â
âI think theyâre more interested in my wardrobe than the case,â he said, loosening his tie as he sat beside you on the couch. Â
You laughed softly, running a hand through his hair. âLet them wonder. Theyâll get used to it eventually.â Â
âIâm not sure they ever will,â he muttered, leaning into your touch. Â
âGood,â you teased, leaning in to kiss him. âI like keeping them on their toes.â Â
We know that Hotch had at least one abusive caretaker.
("Some people grow up to become killers.[...] And some people grow up to catch them.")
Who do you think was abusive?
His father
His mother
Both
Voting ended onJun 28
Please, people, tell me your answer! I want to knwo what are your headcanons, or your deductions!
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Of course Sean see him as an autority figure, and so Hotch accept this posture!
As the eldest, he was already in college at to 2 hours of car ride of the House when his brother came to the world : he became the Absent Father so early in his life.
I wonder if the parents made Sean just after Hotch departure of the family home. As in "We did great with this one, he's in good track now. Let's do an other to not feel alone. ". An empty nest syndrome. Probably from the mother alone.
Feel free to contradict what i said! I want to discuss about this in general! đ
If Hotch is often described as a Stoic because of he rarely shows his emotions, then heâs probably the most flawed Stoic we've ever seen.
We often confuse âStoicâ with âemotionless,â but thatâs not what Stoicism is about at all. The Stoics didnât hate emotions, they just believed you shouldnât let them boss you around. Instead, they thought emotions should be guided by reason, not blind impulse or fear.
A true Stoic takes their feelings, examines them, and asks, âDoes this help me live a virtuous, meaningful life?â
Hotch is more like, âLet me just bottle this up and hope it doesnât explode laterâ
Sure, heâs calm under pressure, but that doesnât mean heâs a master of emotional control.
Guilt, duty, loyalty - while these feelings might originate from a "noble" place, they often control Hotch far more than he controls them. His overwhelming sense of guilt, self-blame, and desperate need to save everyone drive him to the edge, and itâs quite of a wonder he manages to keep it together... until, he doesnât.
His emotions are messy, powerful, and deeply human. He's driven by them all the time actually.
Again, thatâs not Stoicism.
The Stoics aimed for something called 'apatheia', which is about achieving inner peace by understanding your emotions and responding to them thoughtfully - guided by reason (logos). Hotch, on the other hand, seems to think if he doesnât talk about his emotions, theyâll disappear
(Spoiler: they donât. They just turn into guilt, sleepless nights, a broken marriage, and even more paperwork because, one day, he casually decides he wants to crash himself into the unsubâs car)
(I probably should have mentioned that heâs also the one whoâs shown crying the most, but Iâm sure you all already knew that)
Probably he is even the most human character of all the team.
'Stoic' is a hot adjective, but Hotch is even hotter.
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