DARLING!

anti paras tend to hold the beliefs of ‘anti para unless anti contact’ in a guilty until proven innocent sense, the conflation of paraphile with predator is so deeply ingrained from decades of social stigma that it provides people with a safety net to acceptably say that we should kill and harm paraphiles.

as someone who has personality disorders, these disorders sometimes compel me or make me desire to harm people. acting upon my desires to hurt people around me would be physically and emotionally traumatic for strangers and even people I care about. why can you rationalise empathy for people like me, when this pertains to BPD, NPD, ASPD, schizophrenia, etc? if someone was to say ‘anti NPD, except anti abuse ones’ why is that unacceptable, but ‘anti para, except anti contact ones’ is acceptable?

do you understand that sexual taboo is affecting the way you treat and think about human beings? do you understand that sex being integrated into the conversation is what’s affecting your mental shift from ‘person with a condition’ to ‘predator’ as soon as the conversation moves to paraphiles? ‘narc abuse’ is a condemned term in these communities for conflating a condition with abuser. but conflate ‘paraphile’ with ‘predator’ and you very wilfully submit to a decades long psyop that has also been historically used to hurt the gay and trans community.

it’s frustrating that I try and keep this blog mogai focussed, but more and more violence and bullying is being incited towards various groups that already suffer from social stigma. you aren’t interested in protecting children if you can’t get over your own internal biases— who is going to protect the children who are paraphiles? who is going to protect the victims who are paraphiles?

[pt ;; dandelionteaic, cloverteaic, herbalteaic. end pt.]

dandelionteaic ;; a gender connected to dandelion tea.

cloverteaic ;; a gender connected to clover tea.

herbalteaic ;; a gender connected to herbal tea.

important links ;; genderteaic (link).

notes ;; coined self-indulgently.

tagging ;; @radiomogai @imoga-pride @obscurian @goldengender @archives-archive

Sinkintolyricen ✦ A lyricen attraction term where one's attraction is best described by the lyrics "I feel soon / I will sink / Into you / What do you think?" from Mascara by Deftones.

Shadyeyeslyricen ✦ A lyricen attraction term where one's attraction is best described by the lyrics "But there's something about her / Long, shady eyes / I'm all about her shade tonight" from Mascara by Deftones.

Keepyoulyricen ✦ A lyricen attraction term where one's attraction is best described by the lyrics "I hate your tattoos / You have weak wrists / But I'll keep you" from Mascara by Deftones.

Toobadlyricen ✦ A lyricen attraction term where one's attraction is best described by the lyrics "Well, it's too bad / It's too bad / It's too bad you're married to me" from Mascara by Deftones.

[pt ;; bananasaporec, horchatasaporec, bananahorchatasaporec.]

bananasaporec ;; a saporec term for when ones orientation tastes like bananas.

horchatasaporec ;; a saporec term for when ones orientation tastes like horchata.

bananahorchatasaporec ;; a saporec term for when ones orientation tastes like banana horchata.

important links ;; saporec (link).

notes ;; very self-indulgent. saporec coined by @daybreakthing.

flag id: the left flag has 7 stripes, with the second and sixth being a bit smaller than the rest and the fourth being much smaller than the rest. they are black, very dark blue, blue, yellow, red, very dark pink, and black. the right flag has 5 stripes, with the first and fifth being much larger than the rest. they are very dark faded blue, blue, yellow, red, and near-black. end id.

banner id: a 1600x200 teal banner with the words ‘please read my dni before interacting. those on my / dni may still use my terms, so do not recoin them.’ in large white text in the center. the text takes up two lines, split at the slash. end id.

digicirchoric | digicircweirdous

digicirchoric: a kenochord related to 'the amazing digital circus'

digicircweirdous: a weirdcorous gender related to 'the amazing digital circus'

[pt: digicirchoric: a kenochord related to 'the amazing digital circus'

digicircweirdous: a weirdcorous gender related to 'the amazing digital circus'. end pt]

for anon! colors are from the tadc logo and flags use the kenochoric and weirdcorous templates.

tags: @radiomogai, @liom-archive, @macchiane, @genderstarbucks, @maggore, @dragonpride17

By using Rentry, you support this. Your Rentries generate payment for him and the site by ads. Do not let useless online material be more important than the lives of innocent Palestinians.

If you do choose to use Rentry, please use adblockers. Ads do generate payment for them. I still urge you to move sites because many of the people that will see your Rentry may NOT be using one, especially many mobile users.

MANY alternatives exist. Strawpage is a notoriously popular one, Neocities and other sites similar (I also use Nekoweb), and others, dozens of them literally fluctuate throughout the community.

As a result of this, I am in the process of removing my Rentry templates from my Ko-Fi shop.

Royalsongic ✦ A gender which is related to the song Royal by Deftones.

CMNDCTRLsongic ✦ Alternatively, CMCTsongic; A gender which is related to the song CMND/CTRL by Deftones.

Butchersongic ✦ Alternatively, YSTBsongic; A gender which is related to the song You've Seen the Butcher by Deftones.

Beautyschoolsongic ✦ A gender which is related to the song Beauty School by Deftones.

Princesongic ✦ A gender which is related to the song Prince by Deftones.

Rocketskatesongic ✦ A gender which is related to the song Rocket Skates by Deftones.

☆⁠ CARNIBUN🪚 or RABBIT🪚 — a term for when one identifies as and or connects with Carnibunny or Rabbits in a bloody, gory & violent way!

☆⁠ [x] saw template by @ranqai ! carnibun flag! if done before, consider this an alternative flag!

☆⁠ coined by your friend!

TAGLIST ☆⁠ DEAR SINNERS — @jortstorm , @fleab125 , @sillytek , @sgtjxmesbarnes , @furball-cheezit , @co1n-operated-boy , @blossoming-roots-sys , @omelettesideup , @caedisinian , @ajolteonnamedsparky , @narcv2 , @tinywafflerat, @administratorc @schlattcoining @keingender @narcpolar @showgai @misc-id-pt @the-novalunosis-hoard @goldengender @symblabel-terms (wanna see my flags? ask to be added! or removed!)

Exorpunk

The subculture and identity (like amatopunk, for example) that staunchly rejects, fights against, and directly opposes exorsexism and binarism. It's about redefining gender, abolishing the sex and gender arities, and being loudly supportive of nonbinarity. It is for nonbinary and anonbinary folks, but it is not exclusive to them; in fact, it is encouraged that binary people be exorpunk.

Some other topics exorpunk is about:

Recognizing gender, especially nonbinarity, as a spectrum

Rejecting bioessentialism, gender essentialism, and the idea that male and female/masculinity and femininity are opposities

Rejecting transmedicalism, truscum, and embracing the many ways of transitioning as a nonbinary person

Opposing the idea that gender qualities (such as masculinity, femininity, neutrality, etc) go hand-in-hand with gender, as this is used to uphold the western binary

Abolishing exorsexism, binarism, gender arity, and sex arity

Opposing labels that sort people into gender arities, as well as the people who sort us

Not only adopting, but popularizing, nonbinary (societal-wise and gender-wise) and neutral alternatives to binary sayings and labels

Uplifting and learning about the (gender) identities of POC which don't fit into the western binary

Fighting colonialist and western ideas of queerness and gender, especially when they're pushed onto marginalized cultures and awestern identities

Uplifting intersex people, who are often the targets of exorsexism (alongside intersexism, of course)

Supporting nonbinary people, encouraging them to be loud about their identity

Flag meaning:

Black: Lives lost due to transphobia, exorsexism, binarism, and intersexism; the struggles that those outside of gender and sex arity face

Blue: Activism, education, and freedom

Green: Awestern gender identities and gender identities of poc that dont fall under the western binary

Deep Yellow: Joy, encouragement, positivity; intersexness and allyship towards intersex people

White: A color often used in flags to represent nonbinarity and community alike

Symbols are self-explanatory.

Here are alternative flags for those who focus on how exorsexism affects intersex people and POC/awestern folks. The exorpunk flag is already inclusive of them, so this isn't to single them out. Instead, it's for those who want to highlight the fact they combat these sides of the issue. I am white and perisex, but I had my intersex and POC friends give input on these.

@radiomogai @genderaverse @halosmic

[pt ;; genderegg and subterms. end pt.]

genderegg ;; a term for when ones gender is simply just an egg. this gender may feel like it has a fragile shell with a slimy inside, but it does not have to.

genderscrambled(egg) ;; a term for when ones gender is simply just a scrambled egg. this gender may feel stirred up and clumped together with itself or other genders, but it does not have to.

genderfriedegg ;; a term for when ones gender is simply just a fried egg. this gender may feel crispy in some parts and runnier in others, but does not have to.

genderomelette ;; a term for when ones gender is simply just an omelette. this gender may feel as if its been flipped, folded, and/or garnished but it does not have to.

genderhardboiled ;; a term for when ones gender is simply just a hard-boiled egg. this gender may feel soft and slick on the outside, and dry on the inside, but it does not have to.

gendermedboiled ;; a term for when ones gender is simply just a medium-boiled egg. this gender may feel soft and slick on the outside, and jammy on the inside. but it does not have to.

gendersoftboiled ;; a term for when ones gender is simply just a soft-boiled egg. this gender may feel soft and slick on the outside, and runny on the inside, but it does not have to.

genderovereasy ;; a term for when ones gender is simply just an over-easy egg. this gender may feel soft and runny, but it does not have to.

genderovermed ;; a term for when ones gender is simply just an over-medium egg. this gender may feel soft and jammy, but it does not have to.

genderoverhard ;; a term for when ones gender is simply just an over-hard egg. this gender may feel soft and dry, but it does not have to.

notes ;; coined very self-indulgently.

[pt. Happy National Indigenous History Month!!. end pt.]

in canada, national indigenous history month is celebrated in june to recognize first nations, inuit, and métis peoples! as tumultuous as this year has been for indigenous people, i want to celebrate our continual resistance through joy and presence!!

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for this month i’d like to send some recognition to indigenous mogai creators, particularly canadian first nations, inuit, and métis creators and coiners! (if you see some not listed here who you’d like to be, please let me know)

@pupgendered a métis mogai coiner who has coined terms such as métis queer and métis plural!

@anigitli a mixed native coiner who has coined terms such as ethnivariant mi’kmaq and indigigirl and indigiboy

@radiomogai a métis and jewish coiner and archiver! they have a wonderful archive with tons of indigenous and non-indigenous coins

@isuggestlandback a canadian cree creator who posts lots of indigenous awareness, politics, and important commentary

@lucidsdog a canadian inuk furry artist who is very talented and frequently has commissions open!

@ladyimaginarium a mixed mi’kmaq, métis, and more creator who’s posted several coins such as mi’kmaq / i’nuk intersex and two spirit

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i’d also like to take the time to include some resources for both native and non native people interacting with this post! these resources are focused on canadian first nations, inuit, and métis peoples, but can be used for a wider range of nations!

indigenous resources network - an organization that was established by Indigenous workers for Indigenous workers to provide a platform for workers, business owners, leaders and their allies who support full Indigenous equitable inclusion in the natural resource sector across canada

indigenous women’s fund of canada - supporting programmes for Indigenous women’s education, empowerment, micro-loans, healing centres, museums and other important activities

01. cresìmel! (creh-see-mel)

[pt: cresìmel, pronounced creh-see-mel]

an umbrella centred around autumn, red, apples, chill breezes, and cozy sweaters. it is generally non-xenine but can be considered xenine, mixed with xenine terms, or presented in a generally xenic way. can be used for anything, not just genders!

other themes that might fall under cresímel:

strawberries

raspberries

dewy grass

golden mornings

hot drinks

etc.

sícres - a cresímel person. cresímelity - the equivalent of femininity/masculinity/etc. cresímeline - the equivalent of feminine/masculine/etc. CREIN - cresímel-in-nature. cresíme - gender alignment. senzíme - a cresímel4cresímel (sícres4sícres) term for cresímel people attracted to other cresímel people. transcresí - transitioning into cresímelity. cresím - a general cresímel gender. creyíc - a cresímeline minor. címael - a cresímel adult.

no spoons for id, help appreciated but not forced <3 symbol from here (link) coined by felix! for danny! queued on 8/1/25

taglist!!! @radiomogai @idwl @rwuffles @daybreakthing @boingogender

taglist 2!!! @neogenderumbrella-archive

And body autonomy does include things that you don’t personally like either. I was prompted to write this post after a series of bad takes from progressives, but one of them was re-hashing the Sabrina Carpenter album cover drama with “I don’t think it’s conservative of me to think that the album cover is a bad look when we’ve seen images of women being abused in this way” because I do actually think you’ve failed to understand feminism by projecting your morals onto a woman who was consensually expressing her own autonomy just because she expressed it in a way that you didn’t like or that made you uncomfortable.

Body autonomy also means unhealthy choices. Body autonomy also means regret rates. Body autonomy also means freedom of sexuality. Body autonomy also means mutilation. If you believe body autonomy has limitations and exceptions, then your feminism is most likely surface level.