SayAllons-y

does anyone else remember when peoples talking point against asexuality being a queer identity was to make up a cisgender heterosexual but aromantic man who wanted to get in to all the lgbt society meetings or was that just an embarrassing thing people i knew did

the question was always "do you really think that guy should be allowed in" and it was like.... first off you made him up to get mad at for some reason. second off yeah he can come in if he wants. hes aromantic of course he can. other stuff doesnt matter to me. what are you a cop. why are you policing peoples identities so hard

I've met guys like that in both the usual hypotheticals (arocishet and acecishet). They're usually not acting in the "frat fuckboy dumping every girl he meets" way they've been strawmanned as (and if they were... so what? Are you saying you'd exclude a gay man or a lesbian for acting that way? Be so for real). Like for one we don't have a bouncer at the door of this hypothetical and mythical grand community gala meeting you've made up in your head by which you can exclude him; and for two... why the hell do you care?

The traumatized in me recognizes the toxic in you 🫶🏻

Me and the mfmc

i hate when i, a completely healthy person (very chronically ill), get sick (flare up) for no reason at all (i exerted myself way past my limit just cuz i didn’t wanna be “annoying”)