Geeevnchy

“No relationship can truly grow if you go on holding back. If you remain clever and go on safeguarding and protecting yourself, only personalities meet, and the essential centers remain alone. Then only your mask is related, not you. Whenever such a thing happens, there are four persons in the relationship, not two. Two false persons go on meeting, and the two real persons remain worlds apart.”

“Sometimes you are going to miss a person who was an almost to you. And feel sad because there is no name for that feeling. You just feel it in a way that makes you tired to your very bones.”

“Pray when your heart is aching, when you mind is overwhelmed, when your body is tired. Pray when you have no answers, when the storm is raging, when the valley gets dark. Pray when the giant looms larger than ever, when the days get harder, when you feel completely broke. Pray. And lay your burdens down. Surrender your pain to God. Ask Him your questions. Give Him your worries. You are not in this fight alone. You are not meant to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders. God is with you and He will take care of your need. He will fight for you. He will mend what is broken. He will restore what has been taken. He will bring you supernatural peace. So, pray. Give your worries to Him. You are in good hands today and always.”

I teach people to handle problems in everyday life with four simple rules. When you encounter a problem, first, face it; second, accept it; third, deal with it; and fourth, put it down. Facing it means that whatever happened has already happened and there’s no use denying it, so one ought to just face it. And since you are willing to face it, you should accept the reality of what has happened. Once you accept it, you can use wisdom to deal with the situation. And after dealing with the situation, you should no longer worry about it or be fearful; you should put it down, let it go.