Gainer from back in the day

I completed some major changes to the Library For Kinksters. Here is the update…

Aftercare

Aftercare 101

Aftercare For Dominants

Coping With Emotional Subdrop

Dom Drop

How To Make A Sub Drop Kit

Online Aftercare

sub/Dom Space, sub/Dom Drop and Aftercare

Subdrop and Aftercare

Subspace and Aftercare

Consent

Consent & BDSM

Guide to Consent

Doms, Daddies & Masters

7 Fundamental Characteristics of A Daddy Dom

12 Characteristics Of An Ideal Submissive

25 Things Daddies Should Do For Their Littles

30 Rules For A Modern Gentleman

45 Things A Girl Wants, But Won’t Ask For

50 Rules for Daddies

100 Sweet Things You Can Do For Your Princess

101 Things To Do To Make Your Slave Feel Owned (loved)

Alternative Names For “Daddy”

Alternative Domme Titles

Aspects Of Control

Asserting Ownership - Rules

Daddy Up!

Defining A Daddy Dom

Dominants Need Training Also

Fun Tasks Daddies Can Give Their Littles

Help For New Doms

How (and Why) To Go Down On Your Submissive

How To Be A Good Dominant

How to Find a Submissive

Knowing when to be a Dom and when to be her Man

New to DDLG - A Daddy Dom

Observations On Doms By A Submissive

So you want to be a Dom?

So Your Girlfriend Wants You To Dominate her

Some Little Rules All Daddies Should Know

The Dom Commandments

Things for Daddies to Keep in Mind

What Being A Dom Is About - A Submissive’s Perspective

What does the title Daddy mean?

What is a Daddy Dom?

What is a Daddy Dom Mentor?

What It Means To Be A Dominant

What Makes A Good Dominant

Littles, Subs & Slaves

6 Questions Every Submissive Needs To Ask Her Potential Dominant

7 Common Types of Submissives

10 Tips For Living With A Sadist

10 Things A Dominant Needs From A Submissive

11 Red Flags Of An Abusive Dominant

26 Baby Girl Jobs

50 Things You Can Do For Your Daddy

A Bottom’s Responsibility

A Dominant’s Advice To His Submissive

A Man Who Knows You…

A Good Dom vs. A Bad Dom

Acid Test For Subs

Ask A Million And One Questions

Attraction to DD/lg: A Little’s Perspective

Baby girl or little? A brief introduction

Care and feeding of Daddies

Characteristics Of A Good Daddy

Coaxing The Daddy Dom Out Of Your Partner

Feminist Submissive

Finding Your Dominant

Good Rules For Middles and Littles To Live By

Guide For Young Newbie Sub Girls

How a Dom Behaves Shows How He Will Behave Towards You.

“How do I find Daddy?” A guide to help you safely find the Daddy you’re looking for.

How Does A Submissive Ask for Something from Their Dominant?

How To Find A Dom

How to Take Proper Care of Your Dom

I Solemnly Swear I Will Not Do This To Daddy

Novice Submissives

Physical abuse of littles - it is never OK

Signs Of A Fake ‘Dominant’

Stuff no one tells you about submission, until the spreader bar is on and you are trapped.

Submissives, Learning to Trust Your Instincts

Submissive Pride

Submissive Traits - Intelligence

Things My Dream Daddy Would Say To Me

What is a Little?

When newbie subs, with asinine “doms,” need to run away.

Why I call him Daddy

Your Rights As A Submissive

Long Distance Relationships

10 Ways To Survive A Long Distance Relationship

Getting The Most Out Of A Long Distance Relationship

How To Make Long Distance Relationships Work

Long Distance Relationships - Tools To Cope

Long Distance Relationships (LDR) Contemplation: Sticking with plans

The Long Distance D/s Relationship

Mental Health

BDSM practitioners ‘healthier and less neurotic’ than ‘vanilla’ peers

Body image & BDSM

How to Get Over Feeling Sad

Is BDSM normal?

Love your Vulva – a self-esteem guide to your sensitive bits!

Managing bipolar disorder in a D/S relationship

Meditation And Mindfulness

On Cutting

Steps For Letting Go of Painful Memories

Things to Do When You’re Anxious, Scared, or Just Need a Distraction

Tips for Recovering from Codependency

What Are Anxiety Disorders? (Infographic)

Why Do I Feel Unloveable?

Relationships

10 Habits of Happy Couples

10 Top Communication Mistakes

10 Types of Emotional Manipulators

12 Relationship Truths We Often Forget

50 Best Ways To Say “I Love You”

BDSM Breakups: All Good Things Must Come to an End

BDSM: Control Goes Both Ways

Collars and Collaring - A Personal Perspective

Communication Is Key

Concept Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships

Daddy Doms and their little girls

Daddy Doms, Baby Girls, Little Boys And More

Date Night In A Jar

DD/lg In Public

D/s and Domestication

Factors That Make A Relationship

Finding Love When You Least Expect It

Finding Others with Common (Adult) Interests

How To Be Present In Your Relationships

How To Build A Healthy Relationship

How To Get What You Want In A Relationship

How To Know When You’ve Found “The One”

How To Take Your Relationship To The Next Level

Importance Of Confidence In RelationshipsImportance Of Trust In A Relationship

Key Ingredients of a Happy and Healthy Relationship

Needy Girls Are Daddy Dom Bait

Relationship Advice To Follow, And What To Ignore

Searching for a D/s partner?

Self-Fulfilling Prophecies In Relationships

Stop Arguments Before They Start

The Rewards of a Submissive

Types Of Relationship Insecurity

Well-Balanced Power Exchange Relationship

What Is Real Love?

When He Doesn’t Call

Why Love Makes A Night Of Kink Even Better

Safety

Another life ruined because of the morality police

Bondage Basic Safety: Crops, Paddles & Bondage!

Kinks, Risks, How To And Why Sometimes You Shouldn’t

Limits in BDSM

What is Emotional Abuse?

Self Improvement

10 Tips for Creating a Happier Life

10 Steps To Self Care

10 Ways To Be Happy

10 Truths To Live By

Guaranteed Ways To Be More Attractive

How to be Yourself

How To Deal With Your Enemies

How To Ignore Haters

How to Recognize a Toxic Friend

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

Slut Shaming Explained

Tips for Healing a Broken Heart

What are the Signs of a Jealous Friend?

Sex

50 Cunnilingus Tips from Women

Basics of Breath Play

D/s or Kinky Sex?

Fetishes Explained

How To Make A Girl Squirt

How To Tell Your Son About Sex

Intersection of BDSM and Queer Heterosexuality

Sensual Biting

Sex: Myths & Stereotypes

Sex: Practical Details

Sex: Pregnancy and Birth Control

So You Want To Try Anal? A Practical Guide For Women

Squirting Educational Video

Squirting Notes

Toys

Advice on Dildos and Buttplugs

BDSM on a budget

Bondage Rope: How To Choose Yours (And More)

Training

10 Considerations for Inexperienced Subs

30 Things You Can Do For Your Human Kitten

40 Very Important DD/lg Facts

Age Play: A Short Guide

BDSM for Beginners: Safe and Affordable Play

DEFINED: SSC (Safe, Sane & Consensual) & RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink)

Etiquette in BDSM Part 1

Etiquette in BDSM Part 2

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 1 - Beginnings

Exploring the D/s Lifestyle: Part 2 - The Dominant Mind

Glossary of BDSM Terms

Guide To Blood Play

Guide To Bruising

Guide To Talking Dirty

Guide To Wax Play

How Do I Get Started In BDSM?

How to Make a Blanket Fort/Cuddle Nest

How To Make A Comfort Box

Introduction To BDSM

Newbie’s Guide To Vaginal Fisting

Punishments in BDSM Relationships

Red Flags For Online BDSM Relationships

Some Thoughts On Rules

The Leash Has Two Ends - Responsibility

The Need For Rules and Discipline

“Break the record of the most pasta eaten at our restaurant and have the meal totally free.  Think you are up for the challenge?” said the announcer on the television.

“I think I am up for the challenge!” said Keith as he rubbed his round hairy belly.  He waited for this for such a long time.  He tried to meet the challenge last year and came short at the last moment.

He knew he can handle it this time with his 320 pound body.  With his 5’5” height, he was able to move but not much when he really push his gut over its capacity.  But he knew that his gluttony will pay off with beating the challenge and gaining some fame.

He rushed as much as he can, waddling around the house to get his clothes on. “Maybe I shouldn’t do this…I did just have a large pizza after all,” he thought to himself as he looked down at his round hairy gut. His beard was at a great length. Reaching down to his fat chest as his moobs rested on his big gut that bowed outward in a round mound of ballooned flesh.

The suspenders he normally put on was rubbing softly against his round frame. A good indication that he is well bloated and filled out.  It only excited Keith even more to stuff himself even bigger.  Most of his shirts were tight fitting and even showed a bit of his underbelly even when he tried his best to pull the shirt down over his ball gut.

Once the fat bearish man got his clothes on he waddled his way out the door, stopping briefly as he feel his arms rub against the doorway cause of his wide round frame.

“I think i will have to invest into some double doors here before long,” he chuckled to himself as he left out the house to the restaurant.

The restaurant was similar to Olive Garden but tries its best to give out almost mammoth size portions for cheap prices.  Keith just loved going there as much as he can since buffets was pretty distant from where he was living at.  He was very much a regular there.  Especially since he knows the chef personally, his lifelong friend William.

“Welcome to the Pasta Factory…Keith! A pleasure to see you again,” said the hostess as Keith waddled through the double doors, “Going for the challenge again, I take?”

“You know it Cheryl.  I am going to beat it this time with my special weapon,” he said as his hand slap his round gut with a loud thud.

“Sounds like that thing is already full. You sure that tank will handle it?” said Cheryl with a smirk.

“Just watch me!” Keith grinned as he waddled off to his usual table near the kitchen, “And let William know I am here, I know how he likes to cook specially for when I am in.”

Cheryl grins and walked off to get a stand in for the hosting duties while she went to get William from the kitchen.

“Oof! These chairs has gotten smaller since last time I visited this place,” said Keith as he wiggled and squeezed into the seat.

“Or you just ballooned up just that much there big guy,” said William as he came out from behind the kitchen door.

William dressed in his chef clothes wasn’t shy of sampling the food himself as his gut filled out the outfit well even at his height of 6’0”with his thick beard and smirk at the sight of Keith trying to get comfortable.

“Are you ready for the challenge? I expect to see you win this time around!” said William as he pokes Keith’s round gut sticking out against the table, “You definitely look ready there to me!”

Keith blushed as he got ready for the first bowl of pasta.  His gluttonous need to eat took over and began to stuff himself like a pig possessed.  The first bowl of pasta was nothing to him. It was almost like he swallowed it in just a few gulps.

William periodically came out from the kitchen to check on Keith to see how he is getting along in the eating.

“Wow! You are doing pretty well there by the look of it. Already on your fifth bowl and still eating there.  I don’t know if your buttoned shirt will handle much more of that expanding your gut is doing,” William said as he chuckled and played with the gaps in Keith’s shirt.

Keith blushed slightly as he kept eating and feeling his shirt grow tighter with each bowl finished.  Keith was lucky to have a table near the kitchen, which was located in the far back area of the restaurant, because he started to get turned on by William touching his taut ball gut as he stuffed himself with more pasta. He almost wished he was getting force fed by William himself.

Time passed and the place was starting to close for the night. But Keith was still wanting to keep going even though his belly was telling him otherwise.  His shirt was on the verge of bursting open as his suspenders looked painted onto him as they form around his dome like mound of expanded blubber.

“Man, you really brought your A game here. On your 12th bowl, you sure you want more?” said William as he watched the crew leave for the night.  It was William’s turn to close the place so he decided to stick around to make sure Keith can get home alright.

“Oof! I think I can’t fit much more in here. Shirt is about to be destroyed here if I eat anymore,” said Keith as he started to breathe shallow breaths.  William watching Keith’s belly stretch out with each breath the overstuffed man was trying to take.

“Oh, I’m sure we can fit more in there.  I definitely a fat guy that can handle my cooking and then some.  Always wanted a fat boy of my own to enjoy all the food and fat I can give him,” said William with a devilish grin as he grabbed hold of Keith’s face from under his fat face and proceeds to stuff a few garlic breadsticks into his mouth.

Keith couldn’t believe what was happening.  Maybe it was a food coma induced dream he was having and he was just on his couch sleeping off that pizza he had earlier.  But there he was getting stuffed by his best friend and enjoying every moment of it.

“That shirt still got some give there and I think we can make that bad boy burst off easily with what i have planned for you, fatso.”  William said as he takes some of the clothed napkins and tie down the fat man to his chair, not that he was going to get away from how much pasta he ate during the duration of the night.

William walked into the kitchen and later came back out with a huge bowl of pasta. Almost the size of a salad bowl but deeper and wider.  “This is my infinite bowl. It seems like it goes on forever with pasta. I wanted to introduce this into the menu lineup but I figured a test needs to be done.  I’m glad to have a fat man to test it on.  Eat up!”

Keith groans as he looks at all the pasta. “How am I suppose to…” before Keith can finished his sentence, William pushed the fat man’s face into the pasta which was already cooled off enough to be consumed and consumed is what Keith did.  He had no choice of the matter - eat or drown in a sea of pasta.

Keith slurped and gulped the pasta down as much as he could.  It honestly felt like the pasta went on forever as he kept going further down into the bowl. Suddenly there was a loud rip and a few pings that happened as he kept gulping down the delicious pasta.

“Well say farewell to that shirt and the buttons on it,” said William as he began to rub the overstuffed gut on his fat man, “ Keep on eating there. You still not fat enough to finished yet.”

After a short while, William pulled Keith’s face out of the bowl.  Keith took a deep breath as William noticed the bowl was almost empty.  “Nicely done! I didn’t know anyone can do it but then again, you are a gluttonous fat man. Aren’t you?” said William as he slapped the sides of Keith’s extremely tight and bloated gut.

Keith’s gut was truly stretched beyond its capacity as he sat there groaning heavily.  William rubbed the gut a few times to feel the tightness of it.  The gut alone was solid like a rock and showing some possibly of near bursting at any minute.

William took the ripped shirt and suspenders off to give his gut a good rub down. He kissed and squeezed what he could of the huge tight ball gut as Keith moaned over the worshipping.

After a brief rest, William untied Keith and helped him to his feet. “I think we need a new location, don’t you?” said William as he helped Keith waddled outside to his car. Keith constantly moan and groan as he tried to rub his rounder gut.

“Where…are you…taking me?” said Keith.

“To my place, you still need dessert into that gut after all. I am confident you can handle even more than before,” said William with a devilish grin to his face.

And as Keith was helped into the passenger seat of William’s car, he quickly passed out from the aching and expanded gut.

Hours passed as Keith awaken to see he was no longer in the restaurant.  Instead he was placed in a kitchen, tied down to a chair as he heard footsteps approaching.

“Is anyone there?” asked Keith as he struggled to get out of the chair, he still feeling the fullness of his belly shake and slosh as he struggled.

“Don’t worry man. It is just me,” said William as he came into the kitchen with what Keith assumed was a funnel from his friend’s garage.  “I’m glad to see you are awake finally. I wasn’t done with having fun with you there.”

“What’s going on? I’m tied down here. Let me go!” demanded Keith.

“We’re not done yet with your meal there. You have the infinite bowl order after all.  Just filling you up where we were isn’t enough. I have to fill you out completely there,” William said as he slapped Keith’s tight round ball gut.

“Sure I ordered it but what do you mean? I am seriously stuffed here,” Keith said with a groan over how tight his gut feels after William slapped it hard.

“I know you are up for the challenge though. Infinite bowl is that gut of yours. I guess I could’ve said bottomless pit but I think that has been used too much,” said William as he started to place the funnel gag onto Keith’s face, “now open wide fatso. That belly isn’t full yet.”

Keith struggled to avoid the funnel gag being forced into his mouth but William grabbed Keith’s nose and force him to open his mouth to breath.  Pushing the funnel into his mouth and strapping it onto his fat face with the leather belt and buckle.

“Now now, you need to calm down and drink up. That’s an order fatso!” William said as he grabbed a liter of shake from the counter and started to pour it down the funnel. Keith cough a bit trying to refuse it at first but once William started to rub that round ball gut, Keith started to gulp it down in the aroused pleasure of his gut being rubbed and expanding.

Before they knew it, the liter was gone and the ball gut was even tighter than before.  But William wasn’t done yet, he grabbed another liter and started to pour it down the funnel…then another and another.

The pouring and chugging went on for well over an hour or more.  Keith was groaning in pain and pleasure all at the same time as he could feel his gut stretched out inch by inch with more bloated fat.  The rope around his gut has started to dig into his body.  He grunted over the pain but he couldn’t do nothing more than watch William pour more down the funnel with pure lust over seeing the gut just expand even further.

Keith was so into a trance of all the guzzling that he didn’t realize that William removed the ropes long  ago.  He would’ve been able to move and leave under his own power.  But one thing was holding him there…his gut!

Keith’s gut has gotten so bloated, tight and overstuffed that he was unable to move.  Pinned to the chair like he had a boulder sitting on top of him.  Worst yet, an overfilled water balloon ripe to burst upon any sudden movement.  All he could do is sit there and keep gulping the thick liquid content being  poured down the funnel.

“That’s right you fat fuck. You want to take on a challenge and this will be the greatest one you ever faced,” William whispered into Keith’s ear as the sun started to come up out of the kitchen window.  They have been at it all night with the funnel feeding!

“You are going to be the living image of a gluttonous fat man. A taster for all my food for the masses until you can’t hold no more.  And my pleasure toy after long hard working nights, so get use to it fat pig. You are all mine now,” said William as he groped the massive gut on Keith that has overfilled the fat man’s lap and still remained round like an over inflated beach ball.

MIDWEST BEARFEST 2015

Just two days away, now.  I’m ready to be in Indy and not at work for a few days.  Given all of the stupid stress that I’m dealing with at work, a bit of drinking, eating, romping and good socializing time with my hirsute ursine brethren is definitely in order.

As usual, I will be hosting a Group Attitude Adjustment on Saturday.  For those who need to spend some time over my knee, feel free to send me a message–whether a regular recipient or a first-time spankee.  As always, the price of admission is that you take your turn across my lap and take your licks just like everyone else.  There will be no Looky-Lou’s present. 

Of course, I’ll be there to hang out with all of my buddies who don’t need an adjustment, too!  ;^)