♡Gift♡

(he only follows people and becomes their mutual to get even bigger and he doesn't care)

-🦃✈️

Nope he is really kind and he is a really good friend of mine! U r just a annoying ass hoe who hates on him for no fucking reason.

I m not tolerating any bullshit talk about my friends, I can let it slide if u r hating on me but I won't let anything bad reach my friends, maybe if u weren't so hatefull and insecure u might understand it but wtv ☆tia out☆

reblog if you love your mutuals but don’t interact due to low energy/executive dysfunction/etc (о´∀`о)

LIST OF HISTRIONIC STEREOTYPES COMMONLY SEEN TO AVOID FALLING INTO THE TRAP (since hpd is not commonly talked about or acknowledged directly)

1. people with hpd are going to cheat on you (most common stereotype i see. completely false.)

2. people with hpd can never be loyal (we often are actually EXTREMELY loyal)

3. people with hpd are only capable of caring about themselves (crazy assumption)

4. people with hpd can’t acknowledge the feelings of others (???)

5. people with hpd can never have a stable relationship (it can be harder for us, but it is absolutely possible with proper communication)

6. people with hpd are always inherently manipulative (no.)

7. people with hpd are always theatrical (there are multiple subtypes)

8. people with hpd are always overly sexual (symptoms present differently in everyone)

9. people with hpd can never control their actions (it can be difficult or sometimes uncontrolled depending on the person, but we are not mindless.)

10. people with hpd will never take accountability (it can be much harder for us, but it is still very possible and does happen.)

Let  me  set  this  straight;  Those  who  genuinely  think  @hpdamechan  is  a  heartless  person  who  uses  others  for  fame  are  dead  wrong,  I  had  no  idea  this  was  being  spread  but  it  deeply  hurts  him  hearing  this  bullshit.

I  can  assure  you  Ame  and  her  headmates  never  intend  to  make  people  feel  used  and  never  want  to  use  people.  To  spread  blatant  misinformation  purely  based  on  HPD  stereotypes  is  barbaric  to  me  and  just  reads  as  ableist.  Please  understand  that  not  every  histrionic  is  the  same  with  each  symptom!!!  I  know  for  Andy  especially  that  he  fits  under  the  theatrical  subtype  more  than  any  other,  which  is  not  known  for  being  manipulative.

An  important  thing  to  add  is  just  how  much  love  I've  seen  him  capable  of  showing,  how  much  love  my  darling  girlfriend  Ame  is  capable  of  showing...  They  are  all  all  wonderful  people  with  a  heart  so  full  of  compassion  for  each  and  every  fan.  To  accuse  them  otherwise  is  just  so  disrespectful  and  upsetting.