Aut Caesar, aut nihil

I blog for the chronically avoidant, touch starved, self destructive, always horny, nerdy, suicidally depressed, politically conscious, sensitive people

My Spanish isn't very good but I love reggaeton and latin trap music lol

My hair smells so nice right now but for what? 😔

Drives me actually insane when people (men usually) talk to you like you're an idiot and don't know anything about something, while they're this benevolent and masterful teacher who knows everything about it. Fuck OFF. If someone (me) wants help they will ask for it. It especially grinds my gears when I fucking know something already. Talking to me like I'm a child. It's like they don't even know they're doing it. For example if I'm not doing something the optimal way, they have to chime in how they do it, and I'm usually well fucking aware that I could be doing it differently. But I didn't ask because I don't care enough about it. Or if the topic is one of my special interests and someone is talking down to me like they're the expert without even considering that I might already know a lot about the topic. In fact I've had this happen where I actually know more about the topic because it's my special interest, but they still have to do that mansplain thing like I've never heard of it. Some men do this literally all the time like they can't help themselves. It's exhausting because of how angry it makes me lol