Fuck Captain

Let’s get this straight: women don’t owe men a god damned thing and you aren’t entitled to shit. That’s a general “you” and a general “women”. Or: no woman owes anyone anything. She doesn’t have to talk to you, take your “compliment”, or acknowledge your existence if she doesn’t want to. She doesn’t need your permission for jack shit and she certainly is under no obligation to entertain or sexually service you. A woman is not a thing that exists to amuse men; she’s not a vending machine into which you put attention or money or compliments or gifts and then expect to get something in kind.

If she gives you her time, it’s because she chooses to give you her time. If she has sex with you, it’s because she chooses to have sex with you. If she chooses not to do those things, you get none of those things. It’s that simple. It doesn’t mean you harass her repeatedly afterward, it doesn’t mean you start calling her names, it doesn’t mean you spread vicious rumors, it doesn’t mean you threaten her, it means you move on like a goddamn adult who got told no. We’ve all been told “no” since we were in kindergarten. Deal with it.

There is no “bringing it on themselves”. There is nothing a woman can do to cause someone to assault and rape them. Rape happens because someone makes a decision to rape and carries it though. It’s active and deliberate. There is no “passive rape”, and there is no “passively causing rape”. If someone commits rape, it is because they choose to do so, translate that decision into action, and then deliberately continue doing so. There is nobody who brought it on themselves. There are only people who chose to rape.

Any sexual activity without consent, which includes inability to give consent such as being underage or severely intoxicated, is rape. There is no “implied consent”. It doesn’t matter what she’s wearing or not wearing. It doesn’t matter if she’s showing her tits. It doesn’t matter how many drinks you’ve bought her. It doesn’t matter how flirty or sexual she was, it sure as fuck doesn’t matter how much you want it. Once she says no, that’s it. If she doesn’t say yes, treat it like her saying no: assume no until told yes. Because again, there is no implied consent. Consent should be straightforward and unambiguous.

He’d never cheated on his wife before, but sacrifices had to be made.

He had caught these two girls kissing and tonguing each others ‘cunnies’ during the quiet afternoon hours at his Christian summer camp. His wife was out in town, still gathering goods for the farewell party, and so he knew he had no time to sit down and educate the girls.