Ignore Me Please

You don't have to be a boy if you don't want to

You don't have to be a girl if you don't want to

You can be a boy if you want to

You can be a girl if you want to

You can also be both. And not even evenly both if you don't want to: if you're 80% girl and 20% boy, that's fine too! You get to decide what your gender is and what that means.

And it hasn't been pointed out as much but the "what that means" is also very important:

For example: even if you're 100% a girl, that doesn't mean you have to do it the "standard way". You can by a girl who is flat chested, wears masculine clothes, doesn't do traditionally feminine things, has short hair, never wears makeup, etc... And you can do that no matter what you were born as! You don't have to dress certain ways or have certain hormones or certain genitals. Gender presentation is a buffet, not picking from a menu.

You can mix and match. And if anyone complains, tell them to fuck off. What are they, the gender police? All cops are bastards, especially self-appointed cops. Your gender is between you and yourself.