Iâve decided to write about my Outsiders pet peeves
TRIGGER WARNING: Dallyâs suicide
1. Saying that Ponyboy is bratty or over dramatic. First of all, heâs a freshman in high school. Mostly everyone I know was annoying as a freshman too. He JUST turned 14 in the book, so yeah some of the things he says are petty or rude, but heâs a child. Not only is he a child, but heâs established from the beginning as a character that feels things deeply, he contemplates things that he canât really vocalize with a majority of the people around him. He has no parents, and he feels lonely after their death. I personally have siblings but if my parents died, especially at a young age, Iâd feel lost and lonely too. Him having brothers doesnât make the gravity of his parents death any less saddening.
2. People who watched the musical and said anything along the lines of âI donât like that Dally committed Suicideâ. Because he committed suicide in the book too. And it wasnât like some secret that he did it, it wasnât âheavily impliedâ. He wasnât just lost and confused so he made trouble and was reckless. Because Dally was not unintelligent. He knew if he robbed the store, the cops would come after him. He knew that if he pointed the gun at the police, theyâd shoot him. There was nothing accidental about his death, and to imply that is insulting the characters intelligence and minimizing his feelings. Assisted suicide is still suicide.
3. Anyone who demonizes Darry, wasnât paying enough attention to what ever version of the Outsiders that were reading or watching. I mentioned earlier that I didnât like how some people talk about Pony, but Darry also tends to get demonized by a lot of people. A lot of people think that you canât like both Darry and Pony, but thatâs not true. Darry was doing his best in his circumstance and always had Ponyboy and Soda at the top of his list of priorities.
4. People who write Dally in a way that glorifies his actions in life. I understand that everyone wants to think of the gang as these sweet little guys with an adorable found family. Hell, I love those fanfictions, but you can love a character and also understand that objectively they arenât a good person. I love Dally, and Iâm sympathetic to him because of his past, but I wonât justify the things he does. Dally does, and has done a lot of bad things in his life, and he has a lot of flaws. Iâm not going to make excuses for him. I can be sympathetic to him, and also truthful about him.
5. I have seen some people talk about Randyâs redemption in a negative light. A lot of people saying it felt like too little too late. However, Randy having that redemption is so important because it emphasizes the similarities is the social classes. His arc also serves as a reminder thatâs the docs were human too. He was an example of positive change within the series.
6. I understand if the outsiders isnât your cup of tea, but just because you donât like it doesnât make it bad. I donât like rom coms, but thatâs not because they are bad, itâs because they are rom coms, I canât sit through the genre. The outsiders is at its core a coming of age novel that still rings true for a lot of people today. So my last pet peeve is people saying itâs âitâs just a school assignmentâ. At its core it is an assignment but a lot of people see themselves in these characters and thatâs something no one should feel bad about.
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