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donât mean to be a sap but the science is IN and parenting your kids with love will literally save their life
I get a lot of criticism for my gentle/attachment parenting buuuut I donât believe in letting my child cry and I believe YOU CAN NOT SPOIL A BABY BY GIVING THEM LOVE.
Youâre doing the right thing. People (many with good intentions) think leaving a baby to cry in their crib is an actual âtechniqueâ to get them to cry themselves out. But they donât realize the babyâs somatic system is essentially shutting down and allowing neuronal interconnections to become damaged when they continuously cry and no one comes to soothe them. They donât quiet down because the âtechniqueâ was successful, theyâre quieting down because theyâve now shut down and that trauma is housed in their body. These things DO follow kids in their life. Babies left to âcry it outâ and left unsoothed face physical and developmental problems as they get older.
I will have to argue that babies have different cries and im sure their parents can differentiate between them (and this is for secure attachment. can argue for insecure attachment as well because the caregiver is likely to be hyper-vigilent in providing for the baby). hunger cries are different than a baby crying/fussing because theyre fighting sleep. and obviously babies have different cries when something is dangerously wrong and a caregiver will be heightened to that.Â
But when a baby is fussy when they are put down to sleep, it is actually better to let them cry it out because if you have to put in a lot of physical effort to soothe a baby, the baby will get accustomed to that and would not want anything less for future affect regulation. which isnt a good thing in the long run because as adults, theyâll have a really hard time regulating stress and negative emotions.
The only way a baby will âshut downâ and have âthat trauma housed in their bodyâ is if they have continuously been neglected and have a disorganized attachment to their caregiver. They will literally dissociate but ive only seen it happen when the caregiver doesnt know how to deal with infant distress and instead will violate the infants personal space until the baby cant take it anymore and have no other option but to shut down.
learning to self soothe is a really important thing for a childs development. So i wouldnt totally rule âcrying it outâ as a bad thing. Its a different story when the caregiver is continuously negligent because that will def screw up a childs development
i thought it was pretty clear i was referring to a trend of letting kids cry themselves to sleep and not just a one-time thingâthatâs the general point of a technique, itâs a tool youâd use again and again because you think itâs working.Â
âparents can tell the difference between a hunger cry and fussing cryâÂ
i mean. iâve been around for the infancy-stage of several children and iâve never seen parents know immediately the difference between tenor of cries?? the general consensus on the reason why babies cry is that they need something or they are upset by something. babies are sensitive. smells, sounds and other stimulus we canât always pinpoint can bother babiesâthe answer to this is not ignoring their cries.Â
âthe baby will get accustomed to that and would not want anything less for future affect regulationâÂ
i donât think i agree with this, and i have not yet encountered any literature that would support this. in fact, the literature i have would suggest the opposite.Â
Schore (2003) describes the most important things for an infantâs regulatory development as:
1. Attention
2. AffectionÂ
3. Attunement.Â
The infant attachment cycle literally describes trust building as something that happens when a baby has a needâ>criesâ>and that need is met.Â
âthe baby will get accustomed to that and would not want anything less for future affect regulation. which isnt a good thing in the long run because as adults, theyâll have a really hard time regulating stress and negative emotions.âÂ
again, i havenât encountered any literature which suggests this. i have only read the opposite.Â
According to Hughes, 2009 and Siegel and Hartzel  2003, secure attachment between children and their PCGs results in neuroprotective responses which are akin to stress inoculationsâresulting in INCREASED brain growth factors which lead to increased resilience and social competency. We know that when babiesâ needs are not met they actually grow less resilient, less socially competent.Â
âlearning to self soothe is a really important thing for a childs developmentâÂ
All the literature i have read so far, the professionals i have heard from so far, do not believe self-soothing is a thing. According to both Teicher (2015) and Silberg (n.d.) and Gill (2015) infants do not âself-sootheâ and their stopping of crying is not a some kind of result to self-soothing, but rather a result of their shutting down as a regulatory response.Â
âThe only way a baby will âshut downâ and have âthat trauma housed in their bodyâ is if they have continuously been neglected and have a disorganized attachment to their caregiver. They will literally dissociate but ive only seen it happen when the caregiver doesnt know how to deal with infant distress and instead will violate the infants personal space until the baby cant take it anymore and have no other option but to shut down.âÂ
again, if you donât neglect your baby to begin with, disorganized attachment can be avoided and babies wonât shut down as a protective responseâbut to avoid this you have to give your baby attention when they cry. Also Gill (2015) DOES describe somatic shut down as a response to being left to cry.Â
Miller, Lamport (2010) also report that rapid response to infants crying (holding, touching, etc) leads to LESS stress in infants, less fussiness, less crying/expressions of distress.Â
would love to see the literature youâre using to suggest that âself-soothingâ builds resilience. please send me a DM!! the only research ive seen so far is an RCT with just 1 year of follow up and only 43 babies.Â
Literally if the baby is crying, they need you! Itâs okay to not always be able to respond right awayâsometimes you gotta use the bathroom or finish cooking, Iâve been there!âbut that baby needs you. You might not be able to figure out why they need you, but that doesnât make their need any less important.
Weâve been shown time and time again that meeting your childâs needsâemotional and physical (and at this age they! canât tell the difference!)âleads to the child being more confident and independent as they get older.
There are times where you will hold your child in your arms and nothing you do will make them stop crying. Itâs terrible. But itâs still easier on them emotionally than you not being there at all, and those are the moments (hours, days) where you are earning having that beautiful, amazing child in your life and teaching them that they can trust you.
Donât let them down.
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