ur my favourite person

ahh dont worry, youre not stupid!! its understandable that you feel like that. just know theres nothing wrong with feeling this way!

since you said ‘anymore’ i’m assuming that means they were before? chances are theres either two things going on, which is, 1) they just got comfortable with you, and feel as though they dont need to make those extra gestures anymore. in that case, you may want to start making a few romantic gestures yourself. compliment them, tell them you love them, be pda in general. 

or however if that isnt the case, and its this, tho you might like to hear this at all, but itd be helpful to be truthful, 2) they dont feel romantic anymore. in which case i don’t know how else to help you. just try and remind urself that best friends is a very valid relationship! theres nothing wrong with it, though it just may be extremely difficult to get over your own romantic feelings.

now, what i’d do, is i’d pick up my ‘prepare for the worst, hope for the best’ mentality. in which i mean, i’d just presume they lost their romantic feelings, but test things a little by being pda.

or, another thing to do that sounds best, tho more so in theory rather than in practice, is just be honest with them! tell them how you feel. ask them if they dont feel the same way anymore. its very helpful in clearing up these sorta things. and one thing i find is that its very difficult to get yourself to be honest, but it feels better in the long run. and if this is a relationship to last, then being honest shouldnt be an issue!

oh gosh! i’m so sorry that happened to you!! but i understand how you feel. 

it’s really hard when an fp breaks up with you and finds someone else just like that. but just know its not your fault for how you feel! your feelings are 100% valid, and in fact i was in a very similar situation to you once. (the only difference is that i was a girlfriend, and she never ended up dating the other guy she liked, but she very obviously had a crush on him)