A Tree Falls In the Forest...

" i'll love you long as life gives breath and living hold that love till death"

- what sort of attraction do you feel towards your object crush/partner/s?

- first POSIC+ experience?

- first object partner/friend?

- would you consider yourself polyam if you were dating more than one object? (This can always vary for folks, and you’re valid with whatever labels you want to use <3)

- do you ever communicate with your objects/so they communicate back? If so, how?

2. we've had posic experiences since we were a little kid! with our stuffies we felt bad if we didnt treat them right etc etc

3. probs our laptop Ambrose (he's dating another headmate but we are on good terms w it as a whole :>

4. yes i would but we're also polyam as a whole so its default for us

5. verbal communication usually

6. we get general vibes as a response when they talk back!

specifically bc of rejection from their communities, from other queer people, other trans people, bc men are bad and awful

like. a fella told me earnestly he read this essay about how masculinity isn't inherently toxic from another trans man and im so glad it was positive for him and gave him the courage to transition, but it was horrifying to me that he should be made to feel so disgusted by his own gender that he needed that

esp bc once you're out as queer you're already rejected by mainstream society, so other queers are all you have - the prospect of being ousted and rejected from those spaces bc you become A Man is naturally terrifying

and its literally just rad fem rhetoric of men and masculinity = evil and bad that's infected queer spaces like a festering mould. ppl do it to cis gay and queer men as well, and also just to nonbinary ppl they perceive as cis men bc they don't like their language etc, and to trans men and mascs

ppl are sometimes like. surprised. when i don't apologise for being a man and assert that loving men is natural and beautiful, and reject the appeal of womanhood or women