the thing about that ask that really bugs me is the fact they called forcefem a dehumanising kink. what about it is dehumanising? what makes forcefem in particular worse than other kinks? it all circles back to people thinking that women, trans women in particular, cannot be as human as everyone else. if you are helped along in your transition it is coercive on the part of the person helping you, and dehumanising on your end. to transition into a woman is an act of violence, and it's something no one could ever possibly want to happen to them. forcefem is not inherently violent or humiliating!!! to me it is a great act of love and liberation. you see a girl who is in pain and you get to tell her that it doesn't have to be this way and she can be happy and beautiful and the person she always needed to be. isn't that beautiful?

"it would be so good if it was good" will haunt you but "it's extremely good, except for the one or two parts which are so bad it's genuinely kind of insulting" will straight up drive you insane

Do you think Eva Stratt really thought that Grace would refuse to go? She was prepared for the possibility, obviously, but do you think she thought that when it came down to it he would do the right thing? When he refused to go, and was prepared to damn the world and all 8 billion of its inhabitants, the world she had already sacrificed so much to save, do you think she felt - just a little bit - like he was betraying her too?

eva stratt loved earth so much she killed the closest thing she had to a friend. did ryland grace die? no. not really. but she killed him. do you understand?

everyone stop calling him ryland i can't take it. that's one of his titles like doctor or captain that's not him that's not who he is if you default to ryland instead of grace you understand nothing and hate art and truth and hope and want me dead

everyone stop calling him ryland i can't take it. that's one of his titles like doctor or captain that's not him that's not who he is if you default to ryland instead of grace you understand nothing and hate art and truth and hope and want me dead

everyone stop calling him ryland i can't take it. that's one of his titles like doctor or captain that's not him that's not who he is if you default to ryland instead of grace you understand nothing and hate art and truth and hope and want me dead

everyone stop calling him ryland i can't take it. that's one of his titles like doctor or captain that's not him that's not who he is if you default to ryland instead of grace you understand nothing and hate art and truth and hope and want me dead

everyone stop calling him ryland i can't take it. that's one of his titles like doctor or captain that's not him that's not who he is if you default to ryland instead of grace you understand nothing and hate art and truth and hope and want me dead

everyone stop calling him ryland i can't take it. that's one of his titles like doctor or captain that's not him that's not who he is if you default to ryland instead of grace you understand nothing and hate art and truth and hope and want me dead

far too old to care about fandom opinions i am an adult with a *sees a take* hm. never mind actually. i am in fact so blessed to have a huge brain and correct inconsequential opinions on fictional characters. there but for the grace of god go i

(girl who is already extremely private) i think i need to Move In More Silence

just read an old obscure korean twitter thread about ryan gosling and that european director he kept kissing and wow. wow. i really didn’t know it was like that. listening and learning

well what can i say. i will like all characters better if theyre women instead of men

youve been a bad *remembers youre plural* people