Fuck Me Like A Classy Girl

I won’t go into details here for those who may be triggered. Those who wish can certainly google the details. 

I 100% believe Stoya. I 100% support Stoya. Because 10 years ago this Tuesday I was Stoya. A partner, who admittedly had shown signs of control and abuse before, went too far during a session. He continually engaged in kink play and sexual acts even after I used our safe word, even after I begged him to stop, even after I begun to cry, even after I started to bleed. 

Stop means stop. No means no. 

A safe word must always be acknowledged and respected. No matter when these words are uttered. Even if consent had been given before. If you’re engaging in any kind of play you need to establish and maintain consent. Period. If you cannot be bothered with the upfront discussion of consent, if you cannot control yourself and respect your partner’s need to slow down or stop all together, then you shouldn’t be doing it in the first place. Any sex or kink act/play should be fun, enjoyable, and pleasurable for BOTH parties. If at any point it is not, no matter the reason, then STOP. Respect your partner, respect your connection, respect the pleasure that should be enjoyed between you.

No means no. Stop means stop. 

Don’t be a bitch. If you’re gunna do it, do it well. 

Tease the fuck out of her before going in. Put that tongue away. Kiss every inch of her, except her pussy. Inner thighs, neck, lips, nipples. Start at her mouth, work your way down. Did you get her neck already? Good, now do it again. Build the anticipation. She’ll love it even more.

When she can’t handle the anticipation any more, go in for the kill. Eat that pussy like you’re on death row and it’s your last meal. 

Most girls respond really well to clit stimulation, but don’t over work it. Some girls like it when you stick your tongue in, some don’t, so be cautious when exploring that option.

The best way I’ve learned to do it is to start off slow. Long licks. Cover all of it. Slowly work your speed up. Go a little faster. Every been told to write the alphabet with your tongue? Fuck that. It’s stupid. 

Have her lay on her back, put her legs over your shoulder. That’s the one of the best positions for her to get max pleasure. It also allows you to use your hands. While your mouth is going to down reach up with your hands, grab her breasts, (some girls like their nipples squeezed when getting eaten out. Try exploring that option if she’s down). You also have the options of using one of your hands to finger her or rub her clit while you lick. If you get into a good motion of licking while you rub her clit with your tongue, I can almost guarantee that she will go crazy.

Think you’re done after she cums? WRONG. You’re not done until she grabs you by the hair and pulls you up because she can’t take it any more.