The Prince of Hulle Granz Cathedral

read an AITA earlier today about a guy who would walk his female friend home to her dorm very often UNTIL she rejected his romantic advances*, then when she asks him to walk her home bc she's drunk and feels unsafe he says no. Men in the comments were clamoring to insist he "didn't owe her anything" and that she was a deceptive harpy who wanted to use her #femaleprivilege to get "special treatment"

#my favorite thing about every invented problem men have that is dire and world ending #is that it's none of their responsibility to fix it #'if men can't talk about their feelings are you making an effort to do that and check in with your friends?' #'no I'm acting exactly the same but now when I'm called out on being a dick I have an excuse that says it isn't my fault :)' #and now men being bad friends is women's job to fix not theirs lmao

Actually really hate this argument. I agree the “male loneliness epidemic” is a stupid way to phrase it, but I think this response to a problem is people taking something that isnt about them incredibly personally. No one is talking about you.

“The only women I’ve ever seen targeted with criticism about this is mothers” okay so youre uninformed and don’t even know what we’re even talking about + saying it’s a conservative mindset for women to not take responsibility for men’s social behavior. like a conservative lol

No, that isnt what I’m saying. I’m explicitly telling you not to take responsibility for men’s behavior, and you hearing rhe opposite is literally the entire problem I am pointing out. “Men don’t have social support structures” does not mean “women need to provide those structures” so stop hearing something that I am not only not saying, but actively said the opposite of.

You hopped onto a post about men treating women and other men poorly to insist that actually mothers (not mentioned in this post at all) raise their sons badly and are, therefore, responsible for the way in which misogynistic men behave towards women*. I feel like I don’t have to explain why thats weird lol. I think if you’re going to talk about feminism 101 you should probably understand that that behavior is deeply weird and, statistically, more in line with the behaviors of individuals who believe women are responsible for men’s actions than they are in line with the opposite.

i hadn't really like. Truly thought too hard about that author's spider-fucking book so i wasn't putting individual pieces together but thanks to things people have reminded me of on that last post in this book i've realized we've got:

oh right i wasn't able to get the second half of that comment in the screenshot. so here it is

Race science? 😭

Idk but the word race science is so neutral so some reason (maybe because i am not an american to understand the weight of that word), i feel like i had to list out all the ingredients to make it, and yes i do think those things exist before race science. Because colorism stems from classim and misogyny is just there, they are both there in almost every country and continent before trading and people start sailing off to start wars, kidnap people and steal lands.

if every1 gonna think im hostile when im just talkin normally maybe i should actually get hostile so yall can see the difference idk that sounds fun actually

Can anyone stop being an anti black racist for a moment? I want a chance at enjoying things again

“TND means total n word death and it was created by 4channers” Hey uhhhh what were you doing at the devils sacrament. How do you know this?