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THIS right there best represents MY kink as a Dominant.

Uniquely Rika, by Ms. Rika has some good advice. We stumbled into many of aspects of her wisdom. Most kinky acts are “gifts” to the submissive, not the dominant. You don’t need to live a transactional relationship. I do this, you do this. Those are rules of a game.

She speaks about a foundational relationship. It’s been a while since I’ve read it, so I’m paraphrasing heavily.

You can be playful without it being a game.

When my own submission became real, it became more durable.

It’s better when it’s sustainable. Not something that exhausts you, or becomes a burden or demand. It’s best when it makes you better.

And really it’s just about being yourself, embracing yourself and loving yourself who you most naturally are.

This is my spirit right there. I enjoy humour and pleasure, I have a strong sense of wonder.. but I never enjoyed games or roleplay. I love puzzles though; tinkering, exploring and figuring out solutions. One is not better than the other, and they can be blended together, but what feeds my soul and ultimately excites me is the latter.

This is NOT your typical D/s manual. Uniquely Rika provides a practical, intelligent, common-sense approach to adding D/s to your relationship; with long-termed success. You’ll see how fulfilling the inner desire to serve or be served is within your reach - without having to mask yourself in artificial roles and games.

Ms. Rika explains why several popular approaches fail to last. She then details her approach to creating successful D/s relationships; one which has proven as effective with seasoned D/s players as with those who never thought themselves to be a ‘dominant’ or ‘submissive’.

Regardless of your experience level, Uniquely Rika will provide a new insight, a heightened awareness, and a fresh perspective on D/s that will enhance your relationships, forever. Though written from the ‘female-led’ perspective, the concepts are applicable to any loving partners.

The Heel that Lays Down the Law

In the intricate and diverse realm of fashion, every piece tells a story, and every detail carries an intention. Among these, one stands out not just for its ability to reshape a silhouette, but for the power and authority it embodies: the heel of a dominant woman's shoe.

Since the dawn of civilizations, footwear has been perceived as a marker of social standing. Depending on their design, shoes could reveal one's rank, profession, or status. Yet, over time, the heel has transformed into an instrument of self-affirmation, a pillar of confidence and dominance.

When a woman chooses to don high heels, she is not simply opting to add a few inches to her stature. She is choosing to stand tall, to set herself apart, to rise above the rest. The heel then becomes an extension of her personality, an amplifier of her charisma. It creates a unique stride, a rhythm where every step sounds like an echo of her will.

Among these women, some truly stand out. For them, the heel isn't merely an accessory; it's an integral part of their identity. To them, the heel lays down the law. It mirrors their authority, their determination not to be restrained, not to conform. Every click against the ground is a proclamation of their domain, every footprint a testament to their presence.

In a boardroom, on a bustling street, on stage, or in the nuances of a personal relationship, this heel epitomizes feminine power in all its glory. It's not just an aesthetic tool; it's a weapon, a declaration, an assertion.

But remember, this power doesn't reside in the heel alone. It also, and crucially, lies within the woman who wears it. Because the heel merely reflects what she already is: a force not to be underestimated, a commanding presence, a dominant woman.

You will find this goddess, who truly knows how to spank!