I Get Off On You Getting Off On Me

Personal FAQ

Putting up some basic questions and answers so that I don't have to explain myself through a bunch of messages later on

What’s the blog title referencing? It’s a lyric from the Halestorm song I Get Off

Do I have to be an adult to interact? Yes, because I am posting about sexual/explicit content, this blog is 18+ adults only. Minors who try to interact will be blocked immediately.

Can I ask questions? Yes, anyone can always ask me anything. I'm a pretty open person, not really fazed by much, so feel free to send any question you desire.

Can I send asks on anon? Yes, anon is always on, and will not ever be turned off.

Can I submit things to you? Yes, you can submit anything you want. But fair warning, almost all asks and submissions will be posted publicly to the blog. So while I don't care what you're sending me, you may care about what others are seeing from you. **Note, if you ask me respectfully not to post the ask/submission, or request me to answer to it privately, I will do so. Just don't be a sleazy asshole about it, because then I'll ignore the request and show everyone what kind of person you are. Just be kind, and I'll do the same.**

Do you take requests? Yes, if you want me to do something special for you, then please send a message to request it. I can't guarantee I'll do everything requested, as some things I just may not be able to do, but I will try to complete all requests. That being said, however, requests aren't free (unless it's something very simple, which I will detail further below). The deposit for a request is $25. If your request is easy, like a special picture, then it will only cost that $25. If your request is more complex, such as wanting a video of me doing a specific action, then the price will go up. Prices for requests will vary based on what the request itself is. **Note - Free requests: A shoutout with a tag in a text post, asking to reblog a gofundme type campaign, asking to reblog something to help spread the word about your new blog/page/etc.**

Where can I make a request? You can send me an ask to let me know to DM you, then we can discuss it together in messages from there. **Note - If you've requested something very explicit then I will not be able to post it here, and we’ll discuss private options for you to receive the content.**

That's about all I can think of right now. I will edit and add on to this as other info comes to me.

Thank you for reading!

About Me

Hey all! I'm Chay (said like 'Shay'), and this is my second blog on here. I've been lurking around the dark corners of tumblr since about 2011, but decided to make this new blog to try and help promote my OnlyFans/Fansly accounts. I’m not doing OF/Fansly anymore, but it’s still fun to have this sexy sideblog and share things for fun.

It took a while for me to work up the courage and confidence to even take the leap into OF/Fansly, and I thought things would go a lot better once I did. Not that I expected to take over the platform or anything, but maybe more than only 5 subs in the span of a year (across both sites). I had well over 1300+ pics posted, and was working on posting more videos, but it was not enough of a draw. It became too much work for too little payoff, and just not worth it right now. I’m busy enough in my real life without adding in content creation for the time being.

I've had a lot of issues with self-confidence, self-love, self-esteem, and the like for most of my life. Being a larger woman has brought a lot of shame from most of society, and it's hard to see myself as beautiful when it feels like no one else does either. But I'm starting to realize that there are a lot more people out there that either don't care about someone's weight, or actively seek out bigger women, and that's helping to foster more positive changes in me. I still wish I looked different, but for now I'm finding joy in the body that houses me in any ways I can. Doing OF/Fansly helped me see myself in a different light, and there are a lot of pics and videos where I think I look pretty good. Which I didn’t used to feel that way about myself in any way ever, so that’s a big step for me right there.

I am trying to lose weight and get healthier, starting to exercise more and eat a little better. Part of my reason for joining OF/Fansly was to document the changes to my body and myself as I go through this journey, and I want others to share in that and help boost my confidence. And yeah, I won't lie, I'd have loved to get enough subscribers to be able to afford Ozempic (or something similar), because it would really help me a lot. I have a valid prescription for the generic compound in Ozempic, but my insurance won't pay for "weight loss drugs", and so I'd have to pay out of pocket to get it. Right now that's a bit out of reach. But it would have really helped me a lot, because I've got some more serious health issues that are made worse by weight, and I need to start working to change these things now while I'm still young enough. Ah well, such is life.

Anywayyy On to more fun/interesting things (hopefully). Let's start with some basics: -31 years old - birthday is November 15 -Bisexual and single - unfortunately my last girlfriend and I broke up after a year and a half together. We are still friends, but loss is hard no matter what. Back in the playing field, mostly looking at guys right now, but they are not making it all that easy for me, let me tell you -I love animals - I have one doggie, an American Staffordshire Terrier (Pit Bull) named Jessie, she's a little over 12 years old now. -Halloween is my favorite holiday -I love horror - all forms and types, I could talk about horror as a topic incessantly if given the chance (and I have another blog dedicated to horror/talking about horror that I need to be more active on) -My favorite book is House of Leaves by Mark Z. Danielewski - I heard about this book through tumblr about 14 years ago. It changed my life, and I've read it three times. If someone else picks up this book because they saw this then I'll be content -Aspiring writer, who does no actual writing - A dream of mine would be to make enough money somehow to be able to quit my job and focus on my writing so that one day I can get a novel out and published. I have so many ideas I want to work on, but never seem to have time or motivation lately. I'll get to it one of these days. In the meantime I’m still waiting on that lottery win. -I work in an ER in a small town - I'm an Admissions Clerk working night shifts, 6pm-6am. I'm very lucky to usually get several hours of downtime every night, so I lurk around here a lot in between hobbies and schoolwork and the like. -I also go to school online - I'm attending college again, because I'd had to drop out when I was originally going around 18. Too expensive and needed to help take care of my family. So now I've gone back and I just graduated with my Associates of Science on Friday, April 24, 2026! Come the fall I will be able to move on to my Bachelor's program, double majoring in Health Science and English, with a triple minor in History, Mental Health Advocacy and Awareness, and Folklore. It’s an ambitious track that will take years to complete, but I'm in it for the long haul and completely invested in making this dream a reality -I have a lot of hobbies - I love to read, do diamond painting projects, make cross-stitch pieces, scrapbook, paint or color or create other art, play video games (when I have the time), do word/logic puzzles, and of course watch mindless tv when I'm relaxing -Speaking of cross-stitch - I'm in the process of getting my Etsy shop off the ground. A dear friend just finished designing the banners and logos I can use for my shop, and I'm so excited to be able to showcase their beautiful artwork along with my own. Links to the Etsy shop will be pinned once I get it up, but in the meantime everyone is welcome to message me to discuss designs and commissions

Okay this thing is getting way too long now. I don't even know if anyone is really going to read all this babbling. It's not the most interesting stuff in the world. But it's more than I could reasonably put in my bio, and I guess I like talking about myself.

Everyone is free to message, ask questions, make submissions, or just chat with me at any time. I may not be able to answer right away due to my schedule, or being busy at work, but I will make a point to talk to everyone who sends me something.

I guess if you wanna donate to my weight loss or writing dreams you can do so here. This isn’t expected or anything, just putting it up for fun and silliness really. But hey why not right