all i’m getting from this from both of you is how much you don’t care about nd people. i read your abouts i know youre nd too but honestly why throw out your toxic opinion on a site where people will probably reblog and take it at face-value because ahhh!!! yessss!!! i can finally stop giving attention to nd people
attention is literally a need. people can die without it. you’re both honestly like the worst kind of person + im disgusted
like?????/ if you’re having such a bad brain day that you can’t do something that takes .5 of a second to do then stay off tumblr? why are you following people you don’t like enough to fave their shit anyway? literally all i’m getting from this is “i don’t care and i want to be validated”
i’m autistic and i have like 0 empathy all the time so don’t tell me i dont get it bc i do. but it’s not difficult to spend a little energy to care about the people i do care about. like, god. alright
and wtf is “attention issues” i showed this to a friend who has adhd and they were like also pissed bc they’ve been unmedicated for years and have always been able to perform this simple task
like alright if you can’t give someone their needs then just don’t follow them. don’t dismantle this thing nd people have finally got going for them. we need validation and attention.
it is not an “ultimately meaningless act” i will doubt whether someone has read something if they dont fave it even if i know theyre online which really fucks me up esp if im talking abt an sj issue like i want to see that people are listening and talk to me too.
and when other people are talking abt sj stuff and i dont agree Yeah! i get it. i dont want to fave that. but i still fave it so they know i read it and then i reply with something to start talking to them abt it. but if i cant talk that day then i fave it and talk to the person individually later on when i remember. which is also good if theyre like. cluster c and start [internal screaming] abt being corrected publicly. The Shame
but as far as like? small little posts?? most people are just talking abt their day or their nds or whatever so i am really not getting why you dont care bc it’s literally just “i dont care about these people”
if people didn’t fave my posts i would be like. very convinced everyone hated me and wanted me dead etc. liking posts is a tiny little real thing that my being psychotic can’t even argue with because it’s Right There and it means someone saw the post. they might not agree w it, they might still not like me v much, but i am getting attention, at the very least. and that’s the bare need when you peel back everything else
and aside from that if someone’s close to or is having an Episode having posts liked can help ground them and cut through whatever episode theyre having like. someone thinking theyre dead or not real or not awake if they dont see people interacting w them
OH BUT!! you know! if you can’t fave someone’s posts or like, not all of them, you know what you can do????????/ TALK to the person and work something out!!!!!!! god what a novel idea!!!!!!!!!! youre welcome
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