writer: this is one of my male characters! he cares about his guy friends and loves them deeply.
tumblr: oh! so heās gay!
writer: uhā¦no, heās attracted to women.
tumblr: ā¦.so heās bi!
writer: uhhā¦noā¦ā¦.he loves his guy friends but heās not romantically/sexually attracted to them.
tumblr: ā¦.so youāre homophobic.
writer:
Healthy male friendships are almost as rare in mainstream fiction as gay male relationships, and maybe more rare in fanfiction. Let men be wonderful friends without pushing a romantic relationship, just like men and women should be able to be wonderful friends without the pressure of a romantic relationship.
*AGGRESSIVELY SLAMS REBLOG UNTIL I DIE*
This is literally the reason men are so terrified of being open about loving each other platonically, because they donāt want people to assume theyāre gay just because they can be supportive of their fucking friends
I literally got anon hate about my response to this post, and I just want to say that Iām sorryā¦
for not reblogging it sooner.
Psyche bitch, this is a good post.
PREACH
This is like a direct response to half of Tumblr.
Not all relationships have to be romantic. Being close to someone doesnāt mean you are in love with them. Platonic friendships can be just as strong and wonderful as romantic ones.
hey, likeā¦to be that gay guy, what the fuckās the problem then with a straight man being seen as a gay man? Like??? Can you just please elaborate on that point? If a man is secure in his friendship with another man, then being called gay isnāt something that would rock that foundation.Ā
Do you think itās really not homophobic to say that? Like whatās really fucking wrong with people headcanoning these characters as gay? It wonāt kill you if they do and you donāt have to interact with those fucking people.Ā
How is it that so many people neglected to noticed the very obvious homophobic undertones of this post? I checked opās blog because I was immediately suspicious of this post and it turns out that theyāre a straight Christian homophobe who reblogs posts about how being gay is a sin
how is this post from fuckin 2012-2014 tumblr still going around anyway theres no such thing as being straight my male friends are sexy and so am i and thats just how the fucking coochie crumbles, babes
yeah so i went on OPās blog to see about them being a rabid christian and lo and behold
which was reblogged like. last summer
in summary the person who made this post is a massive homophobe and i would appreciate it if yall would stop putting this sewage on my dash thanks happy pride monthĀ love and lightĀ
āpeople will really just scramble to be wildly homophobic when given even the most minor opening to do so huhā
I wanted to reblog both of their responses to this because, yeah. This post is ridiculous. There isnāt some huge lack of platonic relationships between men that is comparable to the lack of queer relationships.
Men being scared to show affection is a societal issue not a tumblr issue and to try and put blame on them seems like a real underhanded way of pushing your own anti shipping agenda.
I can think of plenty of male tv friendships where they show physical and emotional affection. āBromanceā was a ridiculous and popular term for forever and the trope hasnāt died. Often times it gets used as queerbait.
I can only think of a very small handful of main characters in gay relationships in shows that arenāt about being gay.
Creators arenāt homophobic for making straight characters but fans arenāt doing anything wrong by wanting to see representation when that creatorās show has none.





















