Photo: Replica of the shrine of Abbas ibne Ali at Idara-e-Jaferia in Burtonsville, MD. The original shrine is in Karbala, Iraq.
Loyalty, the essence of it Abbas Ibne Ali
Similar to friendship is the concept of loyalty. In life we should always try to be loyal to our friends, our families and ourselves. However, first we should define what exactly it means to be loyal. In Merriam-Webster’s dictionary the term loyal is defined as “having or showing complete and constant support for someone or something.” The phrase that resonates in my mind with this definition is ‘constant support’. This means that we always support no matter what. It means we don’t change our minds for selfish purposes.
When I think of loyalty my mind goes straight to the King of Loyalty, also known as Abbas Ibne Ali (Abbas the son of Ali). There is no better role model for loyalty than Abbas. He was the brother of Imam Husain who also sacrificed his life on the day of 10th Moharram. However, his story is like no one else’s.
Imam Ali, the father of Imam Husain, had prayed for a son that could protect Imam Husain from any adversary. He wanted a brave warrior. God answered his prayers with a son named Abbas. Ever since he was a child his purpose was to be the defender of Imam Husain. He loved and respected him so much that he never even called Imam Husain brother. Abbas Ibne Ali would always call him by saying ‘master’ or ‘leader’. His bravery became so famous among the Arabs that people feared him. They knew that if they were to face him in battle they would not stand a chance. This brave warrior was put to the ultimate test in the battle of Karbala. Imam Husain told him to guard the ladies and children. Every time Abbas asked him permission to go fight on the day of Ashura Imam Husain would refuse his request. He would tell Abbas that if you went to fight then there would be no one to safeguard the women and children.
Now imagine if your purpose in life was to fight for Imam Husain. That was what was instilled in you since the day you were born. Then on the day that you were able to fulfill that purpose to show that loyalty and love, you were not allowed to fight. How would that make you feel?
Finally, Abbas asked if he could go fetch some water from the river for the children, as they had been thirsty for 3 days. Imam Husain reluctantly agreed. He knew that if Abbas left he would not return. However, he told Abbas that he could only go and get water and then he must return to the camp. Abbas went to the river and got the water. Abbas was also thirsty and had not drunk water in 3 days as well. But he didn’t dare take one sip of the water. He knew his master was still thirsty. Upon returning back to the camps the enemies attacked him from behind. He fought them off bravely. They knew that if they keep going, then he would finish them all. The enemy decided to hide in the trees and attacked shot at him. He was outnumbered and they took him down. The enemy killed him, and Imam Husain knew his army had fallen after Abbas had died.
For me, what is so pivotal about this story is that he was so thirsty, but even being near the water he didn’t dare to drink it. He had water on his hands but he didn’t put a single drop in his mouth. That is the ultimate test of loyalty.
We should take this story as an inspiration to be supportive in different causes. We should take it as inspiration to have unchanging support for the right thing. And we should take it as inspiration on how we should not turn our backs on our friends and family. What Abbas did was not an easy task, but we can implement it in our lives by being loyal to the relationships we are in.