this thought isn't fully formed... white women uphold white supremacy because they primarily are responsible for teaching their children racism and esp for producing white babies. They are more complicit than white men because they keep making more white men and could simply stop. They won't though because their privilege as white women is tied up with white men, thats why they work so hard to push eugenics via the abortion "rights" mvmt that they coopted from woc.
Hey nonnie!
All very valid, sadly terrifying points; youâre right, and to add: this is why (liberal) feminism, in its modern sense and all it entails to âpost-colonialâ society â should actually be called what it is...White FeminismTM.
White supremacist feminism works in treacherous ways, leeching off the burdened, hard-working backs of BIWOC/WOC on the ground. Some love to forget that white women were granted the right to vote first, while BIWOC/WOC fell decades behind in achieving this. Worse, weâre always going to be at a disadvantage legally, economically, and socially. Our upward mobility as womxn of colour is long and arduous â always poisoned by both the complicity and active strategies of white women who are so damn consistent in their appropriation + colonization of our spaces, cultures, and lands over many years. They side with their white men, reflecting and enabling white supremacist imperialism down to the bowels of gentrification.
Unfortunately, white women do struggle with being true BIPOC/POC allies due to all this internalized white supremacist imperial colonialism and more. I was moderating a white privilege workshop a few years ago, and white women are complicated; they tend to elevate their own emotions, centralize their experiences and cry their white tears âas womenâ, accidentally and/or purposely overlooking the racist microaggressions of such behaviour (hello white fragility), but because theyâre white women theyâre more visible in the public arena â more able to push for what they want and easily garnering sympathy, which means pushing for the continuation of white supremacy with their men and the replication of white power via reproductive rights. To them, intersectionality and intersectional perspectives donât belong anywhere. Being a white woman means, at its core, upholding Whiteness. It means upholding gendered, privileged, binary cishet nuclear ideals â grounded in white supremacy â of what it means to be a woman, no matter how much white women are portrayed as âbreaking the mould, pioneering this or that, going LGBTQIA+, swimming against the current, destroying stereotypesâ etc. For centuries, womxn of colour (especially LGBTQIA+ womxn of colour) already engaged in that labour, but we never were and still arenât properly acknowledged, prioritized, or paid reparations for the knowledge and ways of life that white women stole from us. Once again, crimes against BIWOC/WOC are grossly underreported within a white supremacist justice system. Indigenous and Black womxn lead endless waves of social activism on the frontlines, fraught by the trappings of whiteness. White women must ally with BIWOC/WOC by giving up their privilege for themselves and using it to empower. Only then can true feminism be unleashed in that feminism is inherently intersectional and antiracist.
Wow that was heavy, but Iâd love to hear more of your thoughts, anon. Thanks for opening up! <3 Iâll direct you to this raw read by Rachel Cargle: https://www.harpersbazaar.com/culture/politics/a22717725/what-is-toxic-white-feminism/ Itâs too relatable.
From tone policing to whitesplaining, liberal white women's feminism is more toxic than you might realize.
















