heās literally a fucking monster who lies and predates on brown women and tells them heās single
He hides the fact heās married and kicked his brown wife out of his home
He hides my existence from everyone
He claims to make 100 - 150K a year and then tries to liquidate our assets, like the car, so that he wonāt have to help me or offer me anything
he claims to desperately need money but chose to stay in our luxury apartment instead of breaking the lease and having us both live modestly
he attacks me for buying organic groceries or needing winter clothes and then emotionally terrorizes me by breaking into my email account or my livejournal
he told me he wished I āwould just vanishā
and heās sitting here, trying to trick other women into fucking him in my bed, in our home, in a place he claims I have no right to and donāt even deserve
if I kill myself this is why, this man took everything from me, my home, my health insurance, my pet, my future, my hope, my clothes, my privacy, my feelings of even being a human, my psychiatrist, my medication that I need to treat my mental illness - everything. everything I had. This man took from me.
My friend has been emotionally abused by her husband for months now and Iām deeply concerned with how this has impacted her mental health, and how he will treat future women heād interact with considering how he treats the wife he abandoned.
Cut her insurance and ability to access affordable mental and physical healthcare.
Kicked her out of their home with no warning, previous communication and with little time to remove all her possessions.
Has complete control over her finances and could cut her housing and food budget at any time.
Does not contact her, keeping the state of their marriage in limbo for her (including the state of her finances and housing), and when they are in contact he mistreats her and then acts like nothing happened.
Has hidden the fact that heās married on his okcupid (saying heās single and seeking short/long term relationships) and on his facebook, from both the public and even from his friends.Ā
Kicked his wife out of their home shortly after receiving his residency in the United States.
Constantly threatens to cut her off due to āhow expensive she isā Ā and how āclose he is from his car being repossessedā while living in a high end apartment, has a personal tailor, takes private music lessons and is clearly spending his money on other women as well while knowing that her only option if she were to become homeless in Portland would be to return to her physically abusive family in California.
While they were together, he would attempt to isolate her from her community and friends by only wanting her to spend time with him and would become upset when she did spend time with people other than him.
Please reblog this so other women in the Portland area know this man is not safe. His okcupid is here. Ask him what happened to his wife, arenāt you married, why are you trying to find other women when you have a wife, etc.
He just texted her threatening to completely cut her off due to her blocking him on Facebook. This man predates on Women of Color. Heās dangerous to their wellbeing.
His name is Ā Shaun Friedle
https://plus.google.com/101039734624839802856/posts
https://www.linkedin.com/pub/shaun-friedle/5b/56b/758
http://singlemindconsulting.com/about-us
http://www.meetup.com/20-and-30-somethings-in-Portland-AWESOME-Stuff/members/118575722/
https://twitter.com/starsprung
http://www.quora.com/Shaun-Starsprung
https://myspace.com/172126334
Everyone I just want you to see just how much work this man puts into finding new women to prey on and how even now that he has divorced me he has never told all these poor women that he is only āsingleā because he threw me out of my house and took everything threat belonged to me. Seriously please never forget what this man did to me and donāt let him erase his abusive heinous past. He literally got American residency through me and then threw me out like I was a piece of garbage.
And share this so that women in Portland donāt date him or get abused by him. I want this man to go back to England because he feels so fucking uncomfortable here.
You guys, tumblr has taken down the pictures and removed this post from his tag. Heās dating other women of color now and still has all this predatory behavior. All the things we do to protect each other, those things can be erased in a second.
