My ex-boyfriend @atigerwalksamongus (Joseph) is a jealous, manipulative, love-bombing, piece of shit. And he nuked our relationship over a limp dick.
He pursued me here on Tumblr when I was in the midst of leaving my abusive marriage. He was in a monogamous relationship at the time.
He told me early on that he loved me, that I was the person he had been waiting for his whole life. That he wanted to spend the rest of his life with me.
He broke up with his girlfriend for me 2 weeks after meeting me but then didnt want to get in an official relationship with me until we met in person.
As a lot of you can attest, he was very vocal about me and how into me he was.
He came to see me in february as we were hella long distance. The first night he was here, we fooled around. I had no expectations because it was a long travel day for him. He couldnt get hard.
This must have shattered his delicate male ego because started withdrawing from me emotionally and intimately. We had plenty of other sex that weekend, but because it wasnt P in V, he apparently didn't count it.
After that week he spent with me he continued to pull away from me sexually and emotionally. Over the next several months I brought up to him how neglected I was feeling and he claimed that he just wasnt feeling physical desire at all.
We were in an ethically non-monogamous relationship so we had connections outside of our relationship and had boundaries around that. He said that he wasnt feeling physical desire for anyone including me.
After 2 months of me being gaslit by him into thinking he wasnt feeling any sexual desire, he finally said it was just me and that he was functioning fine with others.
I tried to breakup with him several times. Asked him if I was what he wanted. If this relationship was what he wanted and he said yes each time. I had even point blank asked him if he just liked the pursuit of me and if his feelings changed once he "got" me.
Despite all his objections that he didnt do that, I know now thats exactly what he did.
We had one of these conversations in May before i went to visit him. I told him I didnt want to waste my time if he wasnt in this. He told me to come any way. We had sex once the whole week I was there because he apparently still wasnt feeling it. Motherfucker had gotten a Viagra prescription but didn't even offer to use it.
Also his apartment was fucking filthy I cleaned his bathroom while I was there because I didnt want to go in there barefoot. The amount of pee on the toilet was worse than cleaning up after my 3 brothers as a kid.
During our (OPEN, mind you) relationship he pursued other women on Tumblr while ignoring me on and off Tumblr. I think he did this because he was jealous of the connections I had made that I was seeing regularly, jealous of my following on here and the attention I was getting. I think he was trying to punish me for having what he wanted. I was a trophy to him not a person.
If you made it this far, thank you for reading and please feel free to reblog and tell your own Joseph story, cuz, as I'm now finding out, this motherfucker is infamous for his bullshit.
Special thank you to the people on here who got him banned over the weekend.
